i am in love with a 10th grader. i am in 11th grade.
how can i make her attracted to me? how can i make her fall in love with me?
i know her a little bit already and have her number
2007-12-16 08:06:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't "make" her fall in love with you. It just happens.
2007-12-16 08:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do not make a pass at a girl on the first date. She'll think you're different from most men and will want to go out with you again. Act romantic, not sex crazed. Hold her hand in the movie, open the door for her, and be polite. Act like she's precious and sweet. When you bring her home, give her a good night kiss at the door and say "I'll call you sometime." She'll be amazed at being treated like a lady.
When you take her out again, still treat her like a lady. Women are dying for romance today and the guy who knows how to provide it is a rare find. She'll let you know when she wants sex. Do not force her. Be patient. Before long she'll fall in love with you because you're a man who treats her with respect. Believe me, even a prostitute likes to be treated like a lady.
2007-12-16 16:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's waiting for you to call her. I'm a girl and trust me I've waited too.
You can't force anything. Try being nice to her, talking to her and being yourself around her. If she likes you back then she'll surely do something that you'll show you she's interested. Don't quickly rush into the whole "love thing". Just let her know that you're a friend she can rely on atleast.
2007-12-16 16:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her but dont seem overly interested. If ya'll start hanging out she might start to like you. Also try becoming friends with her friends. Get in a good word for you. Good luck
-Matthew
2007-12-16 16:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by matthewbraquet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't actually force someone to fall in love with you. Just be yourself around her, and make a point to be her friend. If you guys are meant to be, it will happen and she will love you for who you are.
2007-12-16 16:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can't make her, but you can make her more interested in getting to know you by talking to her, flirting a little, and asking her out.
2007-12-16 16:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you have to let her know you exist...
This means.. you will have to face your fear of rejection and (Gasp!!) talk to her face to face...
Find a common subject that you can talk about, to help in getting to know her..
Little presents given at odd moments ( cheap flowers, fav candy bar...) always work wonders...
2007-12-16 16:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JOB, CAR, RESPECT and have a good FRIENDSHIP w/ her. look job go talk her and tell her how you fill.
if she have a BF. SO just be friend you got notthing to lose.
you are the MAN not a SISI
it will go great you see
2007-12-16 16:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool, be real and dont push too much. ask her out to lunch on a weekend or something, not too formal or intense, just nice. if you like to be funny, be funny! if you like to talk about yourself alot, take a break on that to a certain degree, unless she asks you stuff. be you and if she likes you, she'll like you!!!
2007-12-16 16:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up! girls love it when guys call them. ask her if she wants to go out to dinner or a movie, or both.
2007-12-16 16:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋