Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

or do you think that she needs improvement... if so why or in what?

2007-12-16 10:05:22 · 4 answers · asked by Me! 2 in Singles & Dating

Theirs thi boy i like in my science class and well i think he likes me back but i am not shor. How can i tell and how can i show him that i like him?

2007-12-16 10:04:18 · 1 answers · asked by Bethany R 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think he needs work in that area.. why/why not?

2007-12-16 10:03:18 · 7 answers · asked by Me! 2 in Singles & Dating

How on earth do I keep everyone happy without going mad. My step-daughter who doesn't now live with us, has a habit of turning up at all hours drunk (she is 15). She appeared last night at midnight and kept us up until 3am. I have two other children to care for - one is only 3 and very active. If I don't get a good nights sleep, I am good for nothing the following day. I have asked my husband on numerous occasions to have a word with his daughter and explain that we love seeing her - just be sober and make it sociable hours (excepting emergencies of course!). He has never done this and always left it up to me and so I end up looking like the nasty one who doesn't want her around. Behind her back, he has said awful things about her and he says he doesn't really care about her and that all his children are money-grabbing s..ts anyway. I might add that she hasn't been to our house for a few months but is quite happy to visit her brother and aunt who live 100 yards from us.

2007-12-16 10:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by AUNTY EM 6 in Family

I just barely meet this guy about three weeks ago at first I did not really like him in a boyfriend girlfriend kinda way but now. Wow, I think I am already falling in love with him. I think about him 24-7 and just love everything about him. Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone in such a short period of time (three weeks)?

2007-12-16 10:02:34 · 32 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I take advantage of her misplaced feelings?

Have you ever inflamed the opposite sex to get a reaction out of her/him?

2007-12-16 09:59:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To love and care for another human being we must start by loving and respecting ourself first

2007-12-16 09:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by georgewarren93 5 in Singles & Dating

I met this amazing boy, and the next day he told me he liked me. When I would talk to him, it was like I saw noone in the room but him. I have heard that he is a 'womanizer' but I really think we have something. Then he moved, and the night before he left, we didnt do anything, because I told him that I wasnt ready. (He is four years older than me)

After he moved, three months after texting all day and talking all night. We planned him to visit twice a year, and he told me he loved me. (Not in a ILY! way. Things got all quiet, and then he quietly said "I know I love you.") Yesterday we decided to have a relationship, after wondering if we were dating for months, we took the plunge.


How do I keep it fun and exciting?


Oh, and he moved 1000 miles away.

2007-12-16 09:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate my job with passion it sucks my minds going totally mental from lack of mind usage all i do 5 days a week is walk up and down the car park collectin trolleys for tesco and bringin them back to the front, i work Monday Wednesday Saturday nights 5-10PM and friday 2-6PM and sunday 10:30 AM till 5PM

i get almost no social life i dont get to party and my friends dont really bother goin out on a tuesday and thursday as there at college and have study's but my parents wont let me quit before i get another job but i hate it so much im on the verge of gettin the sack so like yeah help me deicide what to do plz??

thanks..mike x

2007-12-16 09:52:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

describe your dream girl

2007-12-16 09:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Earliar today, my mom was tossing me the phone and she tossed it harded and lower than I expected it, and it hit me in the balls kinda hard. She was almost in shock and rushed over to my side. But now im kinda embarrassed about the whole situation. anyone else had something like this happen, what did you do?
i dont think my mom knows guys are sensitive there,do you?

2007-12-16 09:49:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is constantly talking about how much he dislikes is 13 year old sister because is has a "smart mouth" he is 21. But is also constantly praising his pastor and his family. If becomes annoying to me to always hear about is pastor. My pastor said: The Davinci Code was an awful movie, He doesnt like tatoos so im not getting one and My pastor doesnt like BET so I'm not watching it! Im trying to find a way to tell him he needs to gather his one opinions on life instead of listening to others. And maybe if he spent more quality brother sister time with her she wouldnt talk to you in that manner. Help please!!

2007-12-16 09:48:56 · 3 answers · asked by bondgyrl004 2 in Family

In private of course....

2007-12-16 09:47:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is she more likely to treat you like a child?

2007-12-16 09:46:59 · 4 answers · asked by artiyom 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my husband and I have been going though some major problems. Now, he's in Georgia and I'm in Arizona. But, we talked. He wants to come back out here and work on us. I want to say yes, but I'm having a hard time with it. I love him, just he's a mama's boy. To the point of where she talked him into going back to the Boro. So yeah, what do I do? Do I tell him to come back out and hope for the best, or expect the worst, and have him stay out there?

2007-12-16 09:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by Monique Andrea 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay im in a pretty frusterating situation...
i have just begun to like two guys, lets call them C and S. i've only liked them for a week or so.
the problem is that S is my ex (we went out twice). and C is his best friend.
and the worst problem is that they both like me back.
now i have to choose between the two... C is a good guy and i just started getting to know him better. S has matured a lot since we last broke up, and i know hes a different person.
so what am i supposed to do? has anyone been in a situation similar to this?
please help...

2007-12-16 09:41:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 09:40:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok im in middle school i really like this boy he has never asked any 1 out and i liked him since last year so how should i ask him

2007-12-16 09:39:00 · 3 answers · asked by cutie <3 <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello-------i need help-----i am 41 a mother of three beautiful loving children---my own mother treats/speaks/ and acts out non-loving/caring ways --either through language or simply not calling to say hello to myself or her three grandchildren for 5 1/2 years.

When i lived next door to her in the same city for over 30 years-no free time for me----no mother/daughter bonding time.

She literally states that she has absolutely no free time to call or write-------she works and makes time for everyone else but me-. Every excuse in the world has been used .........i don;t believe most of them. Recently i had surgery & told her.........she brushed it off & didn;t ask about me at all.

I don;t know--------should i ignore her unkind words or really ignore her totally & cut off communicating with her althogether for good. I love her & miss mother daughter relationship.

2007-12-16 09:38:21 · 7 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family

My sister is emotionally and physically abusive to her children, although it seems to be worse with her 15 year old daughter. From as little as 2 years old, i remember my sister calling her a little ***** among other things when she is frustrated with her. For years my sister let her boyfriend to the same thing to her. . Social services has been called many times by the school, myself, my mother, even my sister's friend. Social services sends the cops over and nothing happens after that.

My niece is now 5 months pregnant, she told me she though if she got pregnant her mom would let her move, only as you can imagine it's only made things worse, now she's a *****, a slut, a whore, someone who only thinks about herself etc. 3 days ago my niece asked her what she was doing, my sister told her to mind her own ******* business and hauled off and smacked her. She only hit her hand, but only because my niece shielded herself. . .I don't know what to do.

2007-12-16 09:36:10 · 2 answers · asked by crazyapril1177 1 in Family

My friend and I both like this guy, she's known/liked him longer, but he REALLY likes me. I don't know what he thinks about her, but he's always txting her about how he hopes I don't hate him (I'm so shy that I tend come off cold), but also that he really wants sex and that we should have a threesome.
Anyway, he's got the idea that on Wednesday we're going over to his house to have a threesome, and my friend's been txting ideas into his head. He called me up about it and I told him that I wouldn't do anything serious with her there, so he told me to come over alone some other time. I mean, we're both legal, so its fine, and I wouldn't mind doing anything with him. Here's the problem: I'm way too shy, I have no experience with relationships at all, and I'm paranoid about his condom breaking and STD's. Also, I'm worried that on Wednesday she'll get serious with him; what am I supposed to do? Sit there and watch? I even had a nightmare about it!

2007-12-16 09:35:57 · 11 answers · asked by x_solunaida_x 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 09:35:41 · 30 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 09:34:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 09:30:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I like is driving me CRAZY! I'll be standing by my locker and he'll poke me on my shoulder (more closer to the neck). I'll look and he'll just be walking by with his friend as if he didn't just poke me. It took me awhile to figure out it was him (you know, with 47892 people in the hallway), but I'm sure now. Why is he doing this? If it was for attention wouldn't he be a little more obvious that it was him? Or is he just a jerk?

btw: this has happened at least ten times. I've barely talked to him and he sits behind me in class. He seems like a really nice person but I have trust issues...

2007-12-16 09:30:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl i know since more than three years we always talk and i have her like a friend, sister ... i stand by her and i am always there when she need me and so is she . Lately i start ignoring her and not talkin to her anymore or even reply to her messages and soo .. etc .
thats all after she told me that she's falling in love with me and she'd not live without me!! HERE IS THE PROBLEM ACTUALLY ... i Never thought about her as a lover or a love of my life , i like and have her as a SISTER ONLY . she's totally NOT my kind of girls! .. she's not what i am looking for, she totally has TOTAL different thoughts and another different way to live life !!!

NOW, I have no IDEA how to tell her to leave me alone, i really dont want to hurt her ... but at the same time i dont want her to be my life love! :(

and yeah i know i am being pathetic! so yeah .

2007-12-16 09:29:07 · 30 answers · asked by Alian 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 09:27:35 · 24 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

what makes you feel bad about yourself in a relationship?..what hurts you the most?..Explain your answer.

2007-12-16 09:27:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 14. My boyfriend is 16. We are crazy about eachother. But are we "inlove"? Its hard to tell. But if we are "inlove" am I to young?

2007-12-16 09:24:15 · 11 answers · asked by yr_mommas_ugly 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand, I thought I was over this girl and that I didn't like her anymore. But whenever her friends tell me that she kissed another guy or something, it really gets me mad and kinda jealous, why is this happening? Does this mean I still like her?

2007-12-16 09:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by chumptheory 2 in Singles & Dating