This guy I like is driving me CRAZY! I'll be standing by my locker and he'll poke me on my shoulder (more closer to the neck). I'll look and he'll just be walking by with his friend as if he didn't just poke me. It took me awhile to figure out it was him (you know, with 47892 people in the hallway), but I'm sure now. Why is he doing this? If it was for attention wouldn't he be a little more obvious that it was him? Or is he just a jerk?
btw: this has happened at least ten times. I've barely talked to him and he sits behind me in class. He seems like a really nice person but I have trust issues...
2007-12-16 09:30:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that he likes you, but you should ask him about it.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-16 09:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Seems like someone is trying to get your attention. Why don't you just give him a big smile and say; "is that you tapping me on the shoulder while I'm at my locker"?
If you have trust issues, that's ok, just don't let them make you bitter or a shut in, you can take your time in relationships. That really is the smart way to go anyway; get to know someone slowly and then you can be more trusting when you see they can be trusted (they prove they are who they say they are).
One thing to always remember, whether you are in h.s. or are 60 years old; always listen to your gut. No one deserves total trust if they have not proven they are worthy.
Have fun!
2007-12-16 09:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion, this guy has a crush on you, but is waiting for you to make the first move, because he obviously doesn't have the guts to just tell you that in words. Now if you want to be with this guy, you should just go and tell him that. But if he is just annoying you and you want him to stop, then the next time he pokes you in the neck and pretends like he didn't do it, you should go and poke/punch him and tell him : ''Hey a***ole, stop poking me already'' do a counter attack with style lol. But if you like him and if you want to be with him, like I said before, looks like you will have to talk to him first. Good Luck
2007-12-16 09:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Aca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something i can relate to because i do that all the time! its very fun actually. But its more of friendly gesture than trying to annoy you.
Just a suggestion: The next time he pokes you, run after him and poke him back. Return the friendly gesture.
This doesn't necessarily mean he likes you, but at least wants to be your friend.
2007-12-16 09:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Samson W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm. . how old are you? probably still middle school/high school? He likes you. He bothers you to get your attention without having to hit on you and get rejected. If you feel the same way, let him know before/after your mutual class. If not, also make him aware of this before/after class. Be mature about your response either way. And, DON'T waste your class time for this.
2007-12-16 09:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by TinkerbellmomZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you and poking is his way of showing it. Just be nice to him, he doesn't now how to act around you because of his feelings-make him feel comfortable and he'll eventually become less of a jokster.
2007-12-16 09:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cross Eyes >.< 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Likes You!
2007-12-16 09:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you... flirt back if you like him. next time you pass him in the hallway poke him first
2007-12-16 09:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
New Friends Never hurt?
2007-12-16 09:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I've done that before. He likes you, and he's trying to get your attention. He's not trying to annoy you, or anything.
2007-12-16 09:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by catalyst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds creepy. but this might just be his safe way of flirting without getting rejected. i would say, if you might like him, try flirting in class and see what he does. my guess is he is just shy and going a roundabout way to get your attention
2007-12-16 09:34:10 · answer #11 · answered by chicub1521 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋