My boyfriend is constantly talking about how much he dislikes is 13 year old sister because is has a "smart mouth" he is 21. But is also constantly praising his pastor and his family. If becomes annoying to me to always hear about is pastor. My pastor said: The Davinci Code was an awful movie, He doesnt like tatoos so im not getting one and My pastor doesnt like BET so I'm not watching it! Im trying to find a way to tell him he needs to gather his one opinions on life instead of listening to others. And maybe if he spent more quality brother sister time with her she wouldnt talk to you in that manner. Help please!!
2007-12-16 09:48:56 · 3 answers · asked by bondgyrl004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My husband sometimes gets overdramatic when it comes to preaching his ideas on religion.He has some strange ideas in my opinion,but we don't let that come between us.The next time your boyfriend starts in about his pastor,tell him that you are glad he has found someone to trust,but you have your own ideas and beliefs.Then explain to him that you don't press your beliefs on him,so please don't expect you to follow his.As far as his sister is concerned,gently remind him that as long as she is only talking,at least she isnt out working the street corners and this phase of her life shall pass eventually.
2007-12-16 10:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm If he is a robot puppet then there isn't much you can do to change what he thinks. Besides maybe his sister is just a smart mouth she is 13 not 5 if he isn't spending enough time with her that doesn't give her license to be rude or a smart alec she needs to talk to him.
2007-12-16 18:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why you stay with this guy. he obviously has no thoughts of his own and that can be a big problem down the road.
2007-12-16 18:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋