My friend and I both like this guy, she's known/liked him longer, but he REALLY likes me. I don't know what he thinks about her, but he's always txting her about how he hopes I don't hate him (I'm so shy that I tend come off cold), but also that he really wants sex and that we should have a threesome.
Anyway, he's got the idea that on Wednesday we're going over to his house to have a threesome, and my friend's been txting ideas into his head. He called me up about it and I told him that I wouldn't do anything serious with her there, so he told me to come over alone some other time. I mean, we're both legal, so its fine, and I wouldn't mind doing anything with him. Here's the problem: I'm way too shy, I have no experience with relationships at all, and I'm paranoid about his condom breaking and STD's. Also, I'm worried that on Wednesday she'll get serious with him; what am I supposed to do? Sit there and watch? I even had a nightmare about it!
2007-12-16 09:35:57 · 11 answers · asked by x_solunaida_x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're planning to go there to just watch, you can forget about it. theres no way that they wont try to pressure you into their sex games. If you really like him and thinks that he likes you the same way. Talk to him about it. Be upfront and tell him you would want a relationship that does not include a threesome and that he would never force you to do anyhting you're not ready to do. Also make sure you give your friend a little heads up.
you also have to consider whos more impt him or her?
To me he sounds like some sleazebag, If i were you tell your friend to forget bout him, you too. Just find some other guy that your friend is not interested in.
2007-12-16 09:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? A threesome? Dump this pervert! Tell your silly friend she could be playing with fire here putting ideas into his head and leading him on, not smart.
Don't go to his house and get some respect for yourself will you? You don't know him and you "wouldn't mind doing anything with him", huh? I think the word is s-l-u-t.
Be more intelligent with your body. If you had a nightmare, the smarter part of you is trying to warn the dumber part. Listen!!!
2007-12-16 09:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're uncomfortable at all, then don't do it. Threesomes don't tend to make things.... better or more comfortable... especially when you're uncomfortable about it in the first place. If he wants to have sex with both of you before even spending time with just you, then it's obvious he only wants you for sex. He's afraid of you "being angry at him" because he doesn't want to lose his chance at a 3some (not something you get the opportunity to do every day, that's for sure) so if you just want him to use you both for sex, then go right ahead. If you've got more sense than that, I'd say tell him no.
2007-12-16 09:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, sex is not something to be toyed around with. If he only wants sex let him get it from your friend and just forget about him. If he only wants sex he doesnt like you for you. Find a guy who does. If you arent ready for sex then dont do it. Dont do it because you think he will like you more. Only have sex when you think it feels right. Youll know when its right or not. If you have any doubts or worries then simply dont do it. You arent ready if you are scared. I hope I helped you! Good luck!!!
2007-12-16 09:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Blarrrgg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 23:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he obviously only wants sex if he asks you friend for a threesome.. Find a newer, better, less slimy boy.
2007-12-16 09:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes sounds like a player to me -
irrelevant to the condom and STi thing, its just as likely with him as anyone else - just if i were you id be wary of him.
is it worth urs and ur friends friendship??
=D
2007-12-16 09:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by becky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the length of ur story turn e off so i did not read it
2007-12-16 09:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by Christina L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
his condom will break and you will get an STD. stay away from this slimeball.
2007-12-16 09:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him than go for it. if u think he is inapropriat than tell he NO
2007-12-16 09:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋