Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

how long before it is acceptable to date again. I have been split for 8 months and have the kids with me, should I try something ne or sit answering questions every night for a few months longer??

2007-12-16 11:49:03 · 11 answers · asked by Ylang-Ylang 6 in Marriage & Divorce

We had just bought a new house and 2 new trucks. Everything seemed to be on track. I'm mean we didn't have the greatest marriage but who does?

2007-12-16 11:48:08 · 6 answers · asked by "RAW" 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother always asks me for money. He always says he will pay me back but never does. He asks for money all the time for different reasons. Whenever I have pointed out that he has a good paying job and still lives in our parents home rent free (I have an apartment of my own) that he should have enough money to cover his own expenses. (He only is responsible for his car payment, the insurance and gas for the car as well as his cell phone bill.) His response is that he did not get a very big paycheck and did not have enough to meet all his expenses, yet he always seems to have money to go out with friends to bars, movies and out to eat with them. Anytime he ever goes out to dinner with the family we always have to cover his tab because he never has any money to pay his share. He asked me again today for money to put gas in his car. He knew I just got paid so I couldn't say I didn't have money. How can I tell him that I can no longer spot him money all the time & get him to pay me back?

2007-12-16 11:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by SoAZ Gal 6 in Family

Ok here's this girl I know, she's hot, smart, educated, funny, sometimes scathing, sarcastic, she's a great cook, and loves sex!
But, of course there's always a BUT.. She's opinionated, stubborn, and occasionally condescending. Once a month she flips out completely!

2007-12-16 11:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 11:47:30 · 4 answers · asked by kenzie c 1 in Family

My best friend has gone goth/emoish and she has started to cut her self.She has turned into a zombie of depressment.So a few days ago i came over to her house to talk to her but she saidif i even lay anything of joy or joyness on her she will kill me.I took that,but shoved it in my brain,and at a risk i was willing to take i told her almost everything that might make her a normal unemo person.Well,in the following days i started seeing her every where i go,but only when i was alone.I went to a pro. doctor and phycaiatrist and they BOTH said i was allright.tHEN I REALLY GOT CREEPED OUT.So as i was leaving,walking down the empty car in the middle of the night (well it was only 8:30, to my BMW,i saw her walking towards me,reading to kill or idk hurt me badly.Luckily there were some cops accross the street that heard my scream and saved me.Now im having thouhgts about this whole situation and i am turning emo my self.But im not going to cut myself,what should i do.=(

2007-12-16 11:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by Nina W 1 in Friends

My new cell-mate Rodrigo keeps staring at me. Sometimes he smiles. I think he likes me. I don't want to get too excited because he may get transfered or shanked.

What should I do?

2007-12-16 11:46:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in 8th grade and last night i was at my friends party. my crush//rly good friend was there and we were laying down next to each other and talking. He was saying some of his racist jokes again but he doesnt actually mean them but everytime he says them im like thats mean and then he'll hug me. For some reason he asked me if id ever dance wit a white guy and i asked him y but he didnt answer me back. the nite b4 a whole bunch of us were hanging out and i texted him to see if he was going and instead f just textin me back yes or no he called me. he also asks me to sleep wit him or give him a blowJ [4 some reason i still like him even though he asks me this stuff and im da only girl that he asks]why do u think he does all this stuff?? please help

2007-12-16 11:45:15 · 35 answers · asked by questioning 2 in Singles & Dating

What has been your best kiss? What has been your hottest kiss? How did it happen and what did you do? The hottest one will get 10 points But specify what you guys did!

2007-12-16 11:43:30 · 2 answers · asked by Foryou42 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well i think this guy may like me. i have 3 classes with him. i catch him listening to my convesations sometimes, playing attention to what i wear (he commented that we both have a pink floyd shirt), and i catch him staring at me sometimes. also when my friends are mean to me and i go over to hang out with him i ask him if im bugging him and he quickly says no.

i like him alot but something happened over the weekend.
my mother rear ended his sister yesterday (my mom was only going like 2 mph and she was stopped so it wasnt huge at all and no one was hurt) and he was in the car and it was kinda awkward/embarrassing because he kept staring at me the whole time and kept grinning.
do u think he likes me?
do u think he'll make a huge deal on monday about what happened?

thanks so much for the advice!!! so sorry if this is confusing!!

2007-12-16 11:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by nycLAgirl604 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well i think this guy may like me. i have 3 classes with him. i catch him listening to my convesations sometimes, playing attention to what i wear (he commented that we both have a pink floyd shirt), and i catch him staring at me sometimes. also when my friends are mean to me and i go over to hang out with him i ask him if im bugging him and he quickly says no.

i like him alot but something happened over the weekend.
my mother rear ended his sister yesterday (my mom was only going like 2 mph and she was stopped so it wasnt huge at all and no one was hurt) and he was in the car and it was kinda awkward/embarrassing because he kept staring at me the whole time and kept grinning.
do u think he likes me?
do u think he'll make a huge deal on monday about what happened?

thanks so much for the advice!!! so sorry if this is confusing!!

2007-12-16 11:42:04 · 2 answers · asked by nycLAgirl604 2 in Family

My husband and I have just found out that my 14 year old stepson with ADHD has been touching out 4 year old daught. She is my only child and my little girl. I feel like I hate him he is no longer aloud to spend the night! Hope am I suppose to feel or react.

2007-12-16 11:41:55 · 19 answers · asked by krispix 2 in Marriage & Divorce

15 years old dont be rude
new boyfriend

2007-12-16 11:40:52 · 3 answers · asked by Gabrielle C 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife gave birth 20 months ago and she is STILL wearing her pregnancy clothes. All the weight she gained during her pregnancy is still there and she has shown no motivation AT ALL to lose it.
Because her best friend keeps putting weight on (because her man likes larger women) she seems to think I wouldn't mind that either. I have asked her nicely to lose some weight as she is also a chronic asthmatic but she still seems to think that she'll be O.K.
Her mother keeps saying " You look good dear" everytime she see's her and this pisses me off even more as she thinks that mummy thinks shes losing weight when she is not!

We went on a holiday a short time ago and she saw a nice dress ($160.00) that she liked but the size was a size to small, so I said I'd buy her that dress if she lost the required weight by xmas, and give it to her as a xmas present, but as I was about to buy it she said no don't worry about it.

She's just too lazy to bother losing it.

Any advice please!

2007-12-16 11:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-16 11:39:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I met during our 8th grade year, by the end of that year, we were boyfriend/girlfriend. We dated all the way up until the beginning of our Sophmore year, when I finally broke it off because I didn't want sure a serious relationship at such a young age. We still talked every now and then, but We went on to date other people. One night during the end of our Junior year, he randomly calls and comes to my house; we both had just gotten out of nasty realtionships, and we talked for hours on my front porch, shortly after we became BF/GF,again. We just currently finished our 1st semester of college,together and about a month ago I broke up with him because he was acting different, we just got back together a couple days ago, because he seemed like he was still really into me. He tells me he loves me, but his actions tell me otherwise, like the way he kisses me and looks at me or hugs me, it not the same like it used to be, but he says he still feels the same. What going on?

2007-12-16 11:38:39 · 1 answers · asked by OMGflyingMONKEYS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to give her something thatll sweep her off her feet. That'll make her cry and show how much I love her. The first time we kissed was on a beach. I was thinking of driving to that beach and somehow using sand from the beach to remind her of that day. Also she loveeesssss flowers.

Anyone know how I can use those items? Any ideas? Suggestions? Let me know!

2007-12-16 11:35:37 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 14, girl, & im scared.
my parents always get split up , because my dads pretty much an alcoholic, the last time they broke up, my dad made us leave, & we stayed at my grandmothers, & i told my mom i didnt want anything to do with him anymore, because he hurt my mom before, and i never really talked to him since then ( it was in the summer ) . but tonight my dad was drinking all day, & he came home, flipping outt at my mom, for some stupid reason & he wanted her to leave, but she was like no, the last time we broke up you said you were going to change , and if i came back & we split up again, that my dad was the one leaving. but he still said she had to leave. but we have like no wheres to go, i know its bad to say, but i really dont like my dad. & i want them to get divorced, but my mom always falls for it when he says he's going to change, but he never does.
what can i do ? . i wanna stay in my house with my mom, brother & sister.. but i want him out of the picture. :(

2007-12-16 11:35:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband &i got married for a couple of years last christmas his ex send christmas card w/picture to my husband parents.his ex doesnt like his parents my husband parents doesnt like her too.last christmas when his parents receive card from his ex they told my husband that shes sending card and my husband didnt care about it nor his family either.this week my husband visit to his parents &his dad told him they recieve again card w/photo his ex & some other girls mybe those are lesbian too.my husband come home told me his ex sending again my husband told me that his ex did that b4 to his real mom to mke her jealous my husband and his real mom not close b4.i told my husband this christmas we gonna take picture together w/our child and send to my husband real mom &give some card w/picture to his ex mom coz my husband real mom and his ex live in the same town.what do u think of this guys?give me ur opinion.sorry its long story for those of u have experience like this i wana hear ur opnion

2007-12-16 11:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:33:13 · 18 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:32:14 · 9 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7 in Singles & Dating

I like this teacher and she is going to be married. I known her for 3 years. She is gorgous , beautiful, smart, everything a guy would ask for. I know it may sound immature, but its unbelievable. If I let her go, I know I would feel pain the rest of my life. I feel that I can't let her go. I have done things like opening the door for her each day, and I know she knows that I like her, and one day she came to me and said stop holding the door for me and go to class. I thought its ok, So I kept doing it agian for 2 weeks and then she fianlly said to me to Stop it, its a nice thing your doing but seriously stp it. Stop it and she walked through the door. I felt that she knew that I liked her becasue why would she say stop it. i am just holding the door. She knows. I lve her so much. She is also in her 20s. and I am like couple years behind, i know its wrong and I should give her up. But I feel also if I do, I will feel pain as if my heart was snateched and is being burned in the fire.Help

2007-12-16 11:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by James Bond 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. When we first started dating he had pictures of all his friends and his ex-girlfriends on his wall. I was like okay their just friends, even though he dated all of them. .but eventually he took them down because it's rude and I don't display exes on my wall. .but anyways once in awhile the conversation comes up and he always randomly goes "yeah I still have pictures of my ex girlfriends and I'm never gonna throw them out". .I laugh and go okay? I never told him to throw them out I just found it weird and disrespectful he kept them on his wall for so long until I had to say something. Who want to lay down on their girlfriends/boyfriends bed and see a gallery of their exes? I don't and I don't even talk about them so why does he? Does anyone find this weird or have dealt with this?

2007-12-16 11:30:59 · 10 answers · asked by xclusivexxxbella 2 in Singles & Dating

discribe your perfect date(from begining to end)

2007-12-16 11:30:08 · 11 answers · asked by H0N3Y 2 in Singles & Dating

Today is Sunday. I never shaved since Thursday. I was thinking about growing a beard because I want to see what I would look like with one. And I want to see how people would react at school. Also, I want to look older. I'm 18.

2007-12-16 11:29:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:28:48 · 5 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

The smell of attractive women's feet after they've been working out, or simply haven't been washed for a few hours, drives my hormones wild. What should I do? It's not like you can meet a woman at a bar, bring her home, make love to her and ask to smell her feet. Seems a little strange, but I just really want to so bad.

2007-12-16 11:28:22 · 14 answers · asked by Scorpio 1 in Singles & Dating

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:28:12 · 1 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7 in Singles & Dating

I just moved because my husband got transfered. I was happy where i was living, i had my job and my friends and it is a safe and beautiful city. Now I live in a bigger city, more dangerous, i dont know anybody and i feel very depressed. I know that i should support my husband but i really want to go back. So, I have to decide between my marriage and the place where I want to live. We have been married four years, we dont have kids because he doesnt want any YET, he has is own daughter. I dont know if I should forget about everthing over there and start over here just for my husband even tho I wont be happy as I used to be. HelP!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-16 11:27:40 · 18 answers · asked by Sofy 4 in Marriage & Divorce