Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.
2007-12-16 11:33:13 · 18 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Raise your right hand and move it back and forth. Wave bye-bye. Don't tolerate people who aren't straightforward and honest - it will save you a lot of time and misery.
If you see that he's dealing with his issues and growing up, maybe you can reconsider.
2007-12-16 11:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anne Teak 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You may be reading too much into this. He sounds like a touchy kind of guy, and maybe a flirt -but if he really wanted to get to know you in a one-on-one relationship, you wouldn't need to ask.
Saying that someone cares can be caring about a friend, caring because he likes you, caring because he sees you're interested and he doesn't want to hurt you, or a lot of other things. He might be sincere about liking you and caring about you as a person, but still not want a one-on-one relationship. It's not strange for a warm and flirty guy to tell women he cares about them and to give them casual hugs. If he's asking for more but doesn't ask you out, then he's a loser just testing to see what's might be offered.
2007-12-16 19:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Neonzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same freaky thing has just happened to me as well.A long time friend has been hitting on me for months now,so last night I gave him a REALLY good kiss and he got all weird about it.I guess it's the old male thing all about "The chase" and I'm talking about a 42 year old man.
2007-12-16 19:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Redda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's ashamed of someone which doesn't necessarily mean you. If he sincerely cares for you, he wouldn't put on an act for others when it comes to the relationship between him and you.
2007-12-16 19:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by dantrc724 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a case of cold feet to me. He is afraid it will require too much commitment. This is just a guess since I cannot know what he is thinking for sure.
2007-12-17 00:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by don1862 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, it sounds like this man is all about the chase, but loses interest when the woman responds to him. People who play games are to be avoided.
2007-12-16 19:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy seems to be playing you. it doesnt seem like he cares at all , therefore you should try to move on. he is trying to make you seem like a fool by saying he never said he cared. Maybe its just a friend thing, but dont get too hung up on him, because it seems as if he is simply a jerk
2007-12-16 19:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by mynameiskaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for "more" perhaps you should let him know. Us guys sometimes find the messages you girls send out as being just a little confusing.
2007-12-16 19:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by coffee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe he does love you, but hasn't accepted it yet. Maybe be he's worried about what others say. If he really loves you then one day he'll see the light.
2007-12-16 19:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did tht in front of his friends then i think he likes u but just doesnt want "his boys"(so to speak) to know tht he is soft like tht he wants to be know as "macho"
i hate when they do tht...but u should try and tell him how u feel about it and if he doesnt care then u should leave him cuz ur better than tht
2007-12-16 19:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋