my husband &i got married for a couple of years last christmas his ex send christmas card w/picture to my husband parents.his ex doesnt like his parents my husband parents doesnt like her too.last christmas when his parents receive card from his ex they told my husband that shes sending card and my husband didnt care about it nor his family either.this week my husband visit to his parents &his dad told him they recieve again card w/photo his ex & some other girls mybe those are lesbian too.my husband come home told me his ex sending again my husband told me that his ex did that b4 to his real mom to mke her jealous my husband and his real mom not close b4.i told my husband this christmas we gonna take picture together w/our child and send to my husband real mom &give some card w/picture to his ex mom coz my husband real mom and his ex live in the same town.what do u think of this guys?give me ur opinion.sorry its long story for those of u have experience like this i wana hear ur opnion
2007-12-16 11:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
uhhh --- throw away the card and never give it another thought. Why would you give this person this kind of power in your life --- to create all this chaos --- eveytime you waste energy on this she wins.
Practice your ignoring skills!!!!
2007-12-16 11:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by George 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have no way of making her stop sending cards or pictures to her ex-in laws then you do from stopping the sun from rising. You can do something about only those things that you have control over. Everything else around you that you dislike you must learn to be a bigger person and learn the power of being ignorant. Your in-laws are the persons who are getting the cards and photos. They are the only ones that need to confront her and tell her to stop sending the cards, or they can just throw them away, or request that the post office to return to sender, and not accept them in the future. This places you and your husband outside of the issue with no concern or worry about this matter.
2007-12-16 13:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Butch. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, now this is a splash unusual!!! i could say that some form of communique is to be envisioned. they have youngsters at the same time or maybe inspite of the undeniable fact that the youngsters are grown, your husband and his ex will continually have a bond. As for the income her account.... WHAT THE HECK!?!? Is there some particular reason that he nevertheless feels in charge for her? that could make me experience as though I have been living in somebody's shadow. to not point out being disrespectful you your dating inclusive of your husband. the respond is interior of your self to locate. no you may direct you. the actuality which you're questioning his habit says it extremely is advisable to experience there is a few thing unacceptable with it. good success on your selection.
2016-10-01 23:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A war of Christmas cards? Hum? What an unusual approach to family issues.
I'd say to forget it. Who cares? Let his ex-wife show her stupidity. That doesn't mean you need to show the same kind of behavior. Rise above it! Be better than this! And Merry Christmas!!!!
2007-12-16 11:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by Woods 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but why is this your problem? Really, it's not your husband's problem either. If it bothers his parents that much they can always get a no contact order served on your hubby's ex and then she will be unable to send them cards. I really wouldn't let this bother you this much. If you want to send a card to your hubby's mom, then do it, but I don't see how this is "getting back" at hubby's ex
2007-12-16 12:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by aly_des 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband's ex wife sent a picture card to his parents, i would not care.. My husband's ex wife does not cause me any life-altering problems, no matter what she does. I'm above letting others control my emotions....
Just ignore it.
2007-12-16 12:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but i found this difficult to read and follow. if i understand you correctly, you can't and shouldn't do anything that involves your husband, his exwife and his parents. your husband and/or his parents should be the ones to tell her not to send any more cards if that is the case. anything more than that may get into legal considerations.
2007-12-16 11:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by monkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not worry about it.. just tell them to file them in section 8.. throw them away if they want.. if not keep them..why don't you send her a lovely picture of you and your husband
2007-12-16 11:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is between her and his parents.
It really doesn't have anything to do with you and your current husband.
2007-12-16 11:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋