I like this teacher and she is going to be married. I known her for 3 years. She is gorgous , beautiful, smart, everything a guy would ask for. I know it may sound immature, but its unbelievable. If I let her go, I know I would feel pain the rest of my life. I feel that I can't let her go. I have done things like opening the door for her each day, and I know she knows that I like her, and one day she came to me and said stop holding the door for me and go to class. I thought its ok, So I kept doing it agian for 2 weeks and then she fianlly said to me to Stop it, its a nice thing your doing but seriously stp it. Stop it and she walked through the door. I felt that she knew that I liked her becasue why would she say stop it. i am just holding the door. She knows. I lve her so much. She is also in her 20s. and I am like couple years behind, i know its wrong and I should give her up. But I feel also if I do, I will feel pain as if my heart was snateched and is being burned in the fire.Help
2007-12-16 11:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by James Bond 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand what you're feeling, but sorry to say, you must put your feet on the ground and stop dreaming. You had plenty of time to conquer her and you didn't, so the best time has gone. You have two options now:
-first, forget her and go on living a real life following another way.
-second, tell her the truth, face to face and hear what she thinks about your feelings. You don't have time anymore, but being direct.
Never forget that "feeling pain in our hearts is much more better than never have loved someone".
Life bring us some suffer, there's not short cuts. On the other hand, life will keep bringing wonderful waves to you, you'll have only the be wise and make the right choise.
Good luck you will do it.
2007-12-16 11:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Man, Welcome to the real world. Teachers have destroyed many a youths fantasies,(through no fault of their own) since Schools began. Don,t think you are alone,with this issue,and i do believe the teacher concerned,is acting with your well-being in her heart. Accept the situation as it truly is,and move on. Who knows what suprises are just round the corner. Best regards to you.
2007-12-16 13:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is taken. Engaged. Off-limits.
She let you know she didn't even want you to open the door for her. That's a pretty "under friendship" kind of relationship, and she didn't even want that.
She knows where she's going, and is going without you. Respect her wishes.
TX Mom
2007-12-16 11:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of that she has replaced her values over the years. possibly she says to herself "why did I marry outdoors of my race?! I definitely have a husband and young little ones who selection from me too plenty now?!" Or, possibly she develop into raised to be "professional-black", rebelled against that for the duration of her adolescents, ended up marrying a white guy, and now she is slowly becoming to be her very own mom (as some ppl do with age). i think of alot of persons (who're prepared to project their very own thinking alongside with others') exchange their evaluations and possibilities over the years... i be attentive to I definitely have.
2016-11-27 22:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll if you like her that much and need closure just tell her you like her and if she is getting married she will prob break it to you nicely and then you will know that you never had a chance with her and that you will be able to move on because you know you tried. IF thats not the case then idk maybe you will get a gf but unfortuntaely that chance seems slim. but you will move on if you have closure
2007-12-16 11:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I take it that you are her student. You need to stop it, or you may get her in trouble and even fired. It is illegal for her to have feelings for you, and she probably never will. You need to give up and find someone your own age.
2007-12-16 11:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Soon2BMrsB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol man o man u in high skool or college??? either way stop means stop keep it up and next well see ya on tv for being a predator. obviosly shes uncomfortable with what ur doing.
2007-12-16 11:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Falcon163 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a student shes a teacher it doesnt matter if she is young or not please trust that she is ABSOULTLY NOT looking at you sexually at all!
she probably told you to stop it because she can tell you like her and is not trying to encourage your feelings.
2007-12-16 11:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by hellkitten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes give up on her
2007-12-16 11:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a sudent, right? in your 20s and in highschool? move on. you'll get over it
2007-12-16 11:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mom to one cute boy! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋