Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

would you still be talking to other girls,dating and flirting w/other girls?would that be NORMAL if you love someone but youre not bf/gf yet??..or does this make a guy a player whos doesnt know what love is?

2007-12-16 12:16:15 · 1 answers · asked by cant take heat?get the f%&k out! 4 in Singles & Dating

this is for my sister she needs advice

i was in a relationship with someone who showed a lot of signs of sincerity and caring in the midst of all this is ex fiance of a year and half ago contacts him through email saying she was sorry for what she did and she still has feelings for him. meanwhile this girl really did him wrong so he had mixed feelings for her which ended our relationship. my question is when we had broken up we had a talk and i told him that i didnt want him to contact me unless he was110% sure he wanted to be with me. so after about 3 and half weeks i get a text message " would it be okay if i gave you a christmas gift"? so what i wrote back was " if that is something you feel you would like to do you shouldnt have to ask me" and his response was "okay".

that was about a week ago and he doesnt call or keep up any form of comunication that was it. for me that was a very strange situation what do you guys think?

2007-12-16 12:15:34 · 3 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 12:15:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this junior that i like at my school but i don't know him that well. he is really hott and people tell me he is nice. I would love to get to know him! i am a freshmen though. but EVERYDAY when i pass him in the hallways he always glances at me, he glances at me at lunch, he looks at me when he thinks i am not looking but my friends are for me, he sometimes stares at me in the morning times, and he will kinda show off by bending over to tie his shoes in front of me, sticking his butt out in front of me, and standing right in front of me stretching and taking off his sweatshirt. My friends think he is interested in me but he has a gf from a diff town and they have been goin out for like 3 weeks. I know i don't know him...but i know that i am attracted to him...cuz he makes me happy and he is all i think about. based on all the stuff i have listed above....could he possibly be a tiny bit interested in me???

2007-12-16 12:14:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got accepted to FIT in Manhattan!!! i even got a loan of 20 grand, i passed the high school equivalency exam [meaning i get my diploma] and im all set---and it's only DECEMBER. more than half of the seniors aren't even applying to colleges yet. The thought of being on my own it great, but nerve-racking. I'm going to be away from home...which is like 10 miles from NYC, but it isn't the same being with my family. Im nervous right now....please give me advice how I can work out to be on my own. I hate asking my dad for help--the old ignorant bastard. I want to do things on my own.

2007-12-16 12:14:37 · 4 answers · asked by Evaの 6 in Family

okay im 13 and was over at my 14 year old gf house i walked into the bathroom and i accidently saw her naked. she said its okay and she actually told me to watch her. so i did and then she told me to touch her. is this going 2 lead 2 sex?!?!

2007-12-16 12:13:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he wont be interested in anything further?

2007-12-16 12:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by Its been a while............. 3 in Singles & Dating

i recently started writing to this guy in prsion i was trying to be nice and help someone out
i dont know him and he's in another state
and he wrote back and his letter was very nice
he sounds intelligent and like a nice guy
( even though hes in prison lol)
its not like a romantic relationship NO!! NEVER!!!
but i just want to be a friend and do something nice for someone who needs it
my friends say that its not such a good idea and they keep making jokes like he goona come get you when he gets out
but i thought i was being nice
and he seemed really appreciative
so should i keep it going?

2007-12-16 12:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by =) 3 in Friends

so theres this problem. my sister who is 11 got in trouble (im not going into the details). and when ever i find that she did something again (that has to do with the thing that she did in the first place) i tell my mom and i get proof and everything. and my mom always tells me she wants to know if anyhting happens but then when i tell her everything gets bad again. my sister tries to say i'm lying when i have proof and then everyone is mad at me even though they kno she really did it. she has a problem with lying and my parnts kno that and shes seeing a counsler. but evr since the day this happened everything has been bad at home. my parents fight over everything my mom is really depressed over all thats been happening. my dad is always mad and hes yelling at everyone. my sister says she hates everyone and she wants to switch families. but she is having a rough time at school. the kids are bullying her and she hates school. how can i comfort them andmakemysisfeellikeshecanloveme

2007-12-16 12:11:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family

I am the non-custodial parent with 3 minor children living far away. Because of the high cost of travel and overnight accomodations for four as well as an excessive child support arrangement where I must send away over 90% of my disposable income for their support, I've not been able to see my children in person in 3 years although I do webcam with them weekly.

I have full rights of overnight unsupervised visitation on alternating weekends, holidays and for several weeks in the summer -- standard arrangement. But my sister has no children of her own as she chose to pursue her career instead. Now that she is too old to have children, she gloms onto mine which I haven't minded, as long as it is not to the sacrifice of my visitation.

Well this was the 3rd year in a row that she conspired with my Ex-wife to deny me visitation when they came from across the country to within a few hundred miles to my state. (continued below)

2007-12-16 12:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by John S. 5 in Family

some guy left this in my honesty box on facebook.

"how's 60 bucks sound for a roll in the hay?;) if you know what i mean..."

I have a bit of an idea of what it means, but I'm not completely sure. anyone know?

2007-12-16 12:07:35 · 27 answers · asked by meghan♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

and he was out on bail and i allowed him to come home and my old friend called the cops to inform them that he was there... (*****) and he was arrested. but first of all when he was arrested to begin with i didnt write a statement please help me and be supportive i need helpful answers

2007-12-16 12:07:32 · 13 answers · asked by Cheryl o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...and you may not even known she was shying away. For all you know she could have been uninterested if she looked away. Anyway, if you saw her and were attracted to her and/or thought she seemed nice (at least to others) since she didn't talk to you, would you try to meet her by going up to her or making your way over to her?

2007-12-16 12:06:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 12:04:14 · 3 answers · asked by rayray 1 in Family

2007-12-16 12:02:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just watched a wedding show on TV where the bride and groom had a wedding costing $122,250..To that I say caramba !

2007-12-16 12:02:27 · 29 answers · asked by jalady 6 in Weddings

My family hates me and I hate my family. I've tried and tried to stay positive but I can't anymore. My Father is abusive and my Mother told me she hates him but she won't divorce w/ him and she always takes his side. I honestly think she doesn't divorce cause my dad has all the $$$. My brother is okay but sometimes he just annoys me. My sister is so sensitive. If you just say something like "you're short" to her, she gets all mad and starts crying. Sometimes I think never being born is better than this but I don't want to think like that. I know some other families out there have much bigger problems than mine. I wish I could love my family and I wish I could say sorry for all the things I've done but I know they won't forgive me. I've caused trouble too many times. All I'm asking is how do I let them know that I truly am sorry and want to stop fighting?

2007-12-16 12:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it difficult to kiss when a guy has braces and the girl has a tongue ring in? Is it possible for the ring to get hooked onto the braces?!

2007-12-16 12:00:32 · 5 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend would like a stuffed dog for christmas?

2007-12-16 12:00:12 · 1 answers · asked by blah 1 in Singles & Dating

alright i know you cant FORCE anyone to commit to a relationship...but how can i help him want to?

2007-12-16 11:59:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay well i have to choose between a girl or boy.

first there my ex gf me and her love each other and i've hurt her in the past but i love her. she's worth a lot to me and i want to show her i can do better and i care about her a lot.

then theres my ex bf but he loves me, and i love him too. i know its like "how could she love 2 people?" well i do so get over it. well he lives in Canada but hes moving here in a few years because of his basketball career. and he wants to have a future with me. and i want to also have a future with him. but then again i want to have one with my ex gf. she loves me and i love her. i have no idea what to do. and to add on to that, they both hate each other. ive been told im too immature to even have this stuff. but i dont really care i just need help on what to do, insteed of being called names.

2007-12-16 11:58:15 · 1 answers · asked by jordan h. 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so I'm in high school and have trouble talking to guys.. when they talk to me its like hard to get a conversation going like its all" hey, whutsup, how are you, anything new, yeah, so ,awkeward silence, ttyl", and its hard especially when I like the boy..its like I'm socially awkaward talking to guys because for so long my parents were so strict and wouldn't let me talk to them..and now they let me

how do I talk to a guy..like conversation and actually seem interesting and funny and stuff
help please!

2007-12-16 11:54:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think this is a stupid question but is it better if the girl asks the guy out or the guy ask the girl out...........thanks.....CoLlEeN :)

2007-12-16 11:53:50 · 5 answers · asked by Colleen 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know out of curiosity.....
and because i accidently texted a guy im interested in drunk a few nights ago
it wasnt offensive (i didnt say anything bad just that i was drunk and that it sucks that he couldnt make it) but i was obviously drunk
is that bad?

2007-12-16 11:53:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have just found out that my 14 year old stepsone has been sexually touching my 4 year old daughter. She is my only child and I feel that I hate him he is not alound to be here at this time or spend the night at all. But when I do see him I believe that I'm going to freak. I have so much anger and feel that I have failed as a parent. I couldn't even protect my own daughter in her own how. Never thought that this would have happened exspecially to our family. Why couldn't I protect her in my own home? This is her brother that she loves and looks up to. How could I fail I guess that I blame my self should I? Please help !!!!

2007-12-16 11:52:28 · 27 answers · asked by krispix 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Since marriage is something instituted and ordained by God, and the bible speaks adomantly against homosexuality, why do gays feel the need to get married? Why don't they just shack up and be happy seeing that they are living in sin anyway?

2007-12-16 11:51:49 · 18 answers · asked by cave man 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get engaged to my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years but I don't want to actually get married for another couple years (if i get married my financial aid for college gets cut in half). My boyfriend seems to think there is something wrong with a long engagement, is there? Doesn't engagement just mean you plan to get married eventually?

2007-12-16 11:51:46 · 7 answers · asked by Dannielle 2 in Weddings

So I moved out to Las Vegas with my sister in August and am not doing as well as she is. I work a very crappy job and have tried looking for others to no avail. When we moved out here she knew that I would be vulnerable. I quit the job I had in Chicago and was put through hell for it. I spent all of my life savings to move out here. When she comes home from work she does nothing but sleep and on the weekends she spends all of her time with her new boyfriend so I pretty much spend all of my time alone. I am NOT expecting her to give up her social life but she is not here for me in my hour of need. She does things without thinking how it is going to affect others around her. I don't mean to be selfish but I am really struggling right now and she isn't here for me. I got a phone call today from my brother asking me to come home. On the one hand if I go home I won't be lonely. On the other hand if I do go home then I will feel like a failure. I don't know what to do.

2007-12-16 11:51:41 · 2 answers · asked by r2sue2 3 in Family

My boyfriend is 18 years older then I am. He's in his early 40's. Anyways, we have an amazing relationship of almost 2 years. The sex is lacking in the last year. It's partly because of his anti depressent medications. He was severly heart broken from his previous relationship before me. Now that the honey moon phase of the relationship is over. He's satisfied with sex once a week and i want it everyday im in my 20's! Is this loss of libedo also something to do with his age? What is a girl to do?

2007-12-16 11:51:20 · 14 answers · asked by geminigirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together 13 months. He's amazing. I love everything about him including his family!
Anyways we have a great relationship and hes telling me how i'll be the furture "mrs. *his-last-name*" all the time and saying "when your my wife..." Also stuff about where I'll be putting my stuff at his place.
I found out last night he has it all planned out and plans on asking in the spring.
I can wait, but i'm so excited! I don't want to go over board and talk about what I want for our wedding till he asks. How can I chill out before actually being asked?!? I do not want to scare him away but hes so open about telling me!
Is it wrong to actually start looking at stuff online, ex. theknot.com and finding stuff? I'm just so excited I need to relax! Any tips?

2007-12-16 11:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by Mom to one cute boy! 6 in Singles & Dating