so theres this problem. my sister who is 11 got in trouble (im not going into the details). and when ever i find that she did something again (that has to do with the thing that she did in the first place) i tell my mom and i get proof and everything. and my mom always tells me she wants to know if anyhting happens but then when i tell her everything gets bad again. my sister tries to say i'm lying when i have proof and then everyone is mad at me even though they kno she really did it. she has a problem with lying and my parnts kno that and shes seeing a counsler. but evr since the day this happened everything has been bad at home. my parents fight over everything my mom is really depressed over all thats been happening. my dad is always mad and hes yelling at everyone. my sister says she hates everyone and she wants to switch families. but she is having a rough time at school. the kids are bullying her and she hates school. how can i comfort them andmakemysisfeellikeshecanloveme
2007-12-16 12:11:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
especially since its the holidays i just want everyone to be happy again
2007-12-16 12:12:11 · update #1
I'm sorry you're having a hard time. apparently therapy did not help your sister... a couple of sessions does not help, and if your sister didn't respond to the therapy, that doesn't help either.
You could always tell your parents how you FEEL... ask them if they will take the time to listen... you can tell them "i feel scared" "i feel worried for my sister" .... maybe this will give them food for thought... ? You could write a list of your feelings before you talk, so you can express them properly.
Many families have difficulties, and sometimes parents don't want to face their problems. You can't force them, but you can try.
And also, if you know an adult (relative or friend) who you trust and respect, talk with them and see if they can help you cope...
I hope you will end up having a nice christmas.. hugs
2007-12-16 12:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you want everyone to be happy. Your sister if your parents' responsibility. Stop being their spy because it is not working for anyone. They'll sort it all out eventually. In the meantime, enjoy your friends and school.
2007-12-16 20:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kinda messed that up because you snitched on ya sister. But u need to stop snitching. If you get closer to each other you will get away with more. Your going to need her one day and she aint gonna be there cuz u snitched. get close to her
2007-12-16 20:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tay Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋