and he was out on bail and i allowed him to come home and my old friend called the cops to inform them that he was there... (*****) and he was arrested. but first of all when he was arrested to begin with i didnt write a statement please help me and be supportive i need helpful answers
2007-12-16 12:07:32 · 13 answers · asked by Cheryl o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the police had a reason to arrest him, and if you can't see it, you're in for a world of more trouble
2007-12-16 12:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by T Leeves 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are in an abusive relationship, and you are a victim.
You should be grateful your friend called the police. She did the right thing, and if you cannot see this then you are just as sick as your abusive husband.
Perhaps you deserve each other. It takes "two to tango" and you must like being a victim as much as he likes being an abuser. You are both sick- I hope there are no kids involved!
2007-12-16 12:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean be supportive by saying it's all going to be alright, and your friend is just a ***** who ought to mind her own business right?!
not going to happen here honey. domestic disputes that end up with someone in jail is WRONG. and they lead to more disputes that escalate into violence and/or death. unless you want to die at the hands of this man that you love, i'd suggest that you allow this ***** of a friend to remain in your life and tell you everything that you don't want to hear, because it's what you aren't seeing in everything that is going to end up killing you, and your friend knows it.
you've got a great friend who actually gives a **** about you, be grateful!
2007-12-16 12:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to get out of this relationship as fast as possible. If the police have to come to your house, something is seriously wrong. Words will lead to violence which leads to possible death. Domestic abuse is unacceptable. Please leave. Go far, far, far, far away. Your life may very well depend on it. I'm sure there is a real man that can't wait to love you if given a chance
2007-12-16 12:16:53 · answer #4 · answered by charlieshepp 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to tell your friend what your intentions are. Second, if you are to allow him back when he gets out, stop calling the police. He will eventually get worse unless you both seek help. Then you wont have to worry about it because your friend will be making your funeral arrangements.
2007-12-16 12:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Bill P 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this five times now. Everyone is giving you good advice.
Your friend (the one you're so contemptuous of) possibly saved your life.
Get away from this guy, and concentrate on the children now. He probably will be deported, and you will have to learn how to live on your own.
I wish you well.
2007-12-16 13:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Red Velvette KY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need professional help. and if you don't get help, him being abusive will only get worst and if your friend/old friend called the police they were looking out for you cause it's obvious you aren't. abuse is nothing to play with it's not something that just goes away.
2007-12-16 12:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by puffy2step 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the two for my section whether its a heterosexual relationship and in the event that they have been given teenagers deliver them to a friends, or relatives contributors for the night. they don't could see that ****. i'm not sure approximately all your information. yet for my section i understand a chum who's male that have been given arrested after his female pal attacked him. He became into bleeding w/ a broken nostril she confirmed no blood yet had a mark on her wrist from him bodily restraining her. while the police got here they have been given their memories the cop asked him if he touched her, he pronounced sure purely after she broke his nostril, cop positioned him in cuffs and pronounced i'm sorry yet I could arrest you. She became into cautioned to circulate abode. that may not my defintion of equivalent rights, yet what do i understand i'm purely a guy. lower back my tale is in simple terms one occurence i'm not announcing its like that around the rustic yet i became into thoroughly taken aback to work out my pal arrested after such aggression became into bodily taken out on him.
2016-10-11 10:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
domestic violence is a State matter in many cases, and you don't have to write any sort of report.
if your husband is violent and abusive, and if you two have issues with fighting, you both need to get some professional help... or it won't stop.
2007-12-16 12:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it would be best for you both to be apart for a while, counseling would also be advised, for you both. I'm sure he is great, but he may not be great for you and vise versa. from someone who has been there,get out, get help then get on with life. all my prayers go with you. and your friend is just looking out for you,treasure that.
2007-12-16 12:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by lgg19632001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋