What Should I Do?

Question

okay well i have to choose between a girl or boy.

first there my ex gf me and her love each other and i've hurt her in the past but i love her. she's worth a lot to me and i want to show her i can do better and i care about her a lot.

then theres my ex bf but he loves me, and i love him too. i know its like "how could she love 2 people?" well i do so get over it. well he lives in Canada but hes moving here in a few years because of his basketball career. and he wants to have a future with me. and i want to also have a future with him. but then again i want to have one with my ex gf. she loves me and i love her. i have no idea what to do. and to add on to that, they both hate each other. ive been told im too immature to even have this stuff. but i dont really care i just need help on what to do, insteed of being called names.

Answer 1

Got ya. I do usually point out that things like this happens because a person LACKS a purpose in life to guide them. Its fundemental. I do not in any form or fashion DOUDT in any way the power of the heart to love more then one person, it does work that way. But I do doubt that you know how to love ether one of them, theirs no book on it, it takes hard earned wisdom to know HOW to do it, so that, you can not claim. AND THATS what your f'in up on, you want your cake and you want to eat it too, so really your immature isn't the best thing to call you on, that wasn't right of them. Its better to say that you only see whats good for you and don't care to see how that effects other people because it gets in the way of you flowing thru life not taking anything seriously because when you do, it brecks you. Apparently someone crushed your past to a point were you gain nothing from it, no meaning, no direction, nothing, so your left ALWAYS looking forward, I'm sorry.....

See no name calling, just truth......