So I moved out to Las Vegas with my sister in August and am not doing as well as she is. I work a very crappy job and have tried looking for others to no avail. When we moved out here she knew that I would be vulnerable. I quit the job I had in Chicago and was put through hell for it. I spent all of my life savings to move out here. When she comes home from work she does nothing but sleep and on the weekends she spends all of her time with her new boyfriend so I pretty much spend all of my time alone. I am NOT expecting her to give up her social life but she is not here for me in my hour of need. She does things without thinking how it is going to affect others around her. I don't mean to be selfish but I am really struggling right now and she isn't here for me. I got a phone call today from my brother asking me to come home. On the one hand if I go home I won't be lonely. On the other hand if I do go home then I will feel like a failure. I don't know what to do.
2007-12-16 11:51:41 · 2 answers · asked by r2sue2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
All your problems center around the fact that you are not financially independent.You should look out for a better job in Las Vegas itself.The behavior of your sister is not appropriate but you have no way but to tolerate it.If you feel that by going to your home town, you will be able to get a better job, you should go there.Do not feel that you are a failure. Success and failures are part of everybody's life.One has to learn from failures and go ahead for better.
2007-12-16 16:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home. No one's going to judge you. Be happy. It sounds very much like you're not happy where you are. If you're counting on someone else to make you happy (your sister), then you're bound to be disappointed. It's no one's job but your own to ensure that you're leading a life that makes you happy. Go be happy.
2007-12-16 19:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋