Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

Seriously he never hums at any other time. It's very weird. The hum is no particular song. He doesn't hum when he walks past others or others walk past him.

What could it be?

2007-12-16 10:39:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you like girly girls, tomboys, girly girls that play sports, down to earth girls, plastics, etc..... what kinda girl do you like?

2007-12-16 10:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 10:36:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this boy doesn't know me and after a few days later, there was a concert at my school and after it was finish, i was looking at him because he is in band, playing the baritone and yeah then he was holding his instrument and his misic book and he turn around and stare at me. this felt weird and why would he do that if he doesn't know me and he did that to me in his class when i look at him in a far distance, he stare at me and he did that like three times already and yeah his personality is queit, shy, and not very social with people and always ignore people and stuff....do anyone know why he stare at me even though he doesn't know me? it really strange here

2007-12-16 10:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by Cindy Maroll 2 in Friends

Hi, I am 35 yrs old and 4.5 months pregnant, never been married, no previous children, my partner is divorced and has two children that we have shared custody of. He was done over and hurt bad financially in his divorce settlement. Now we have a new baby coming and I feel driven to organise our lives and make some goals I have found out from partner firstly he wont be sharing any money from his previous life...ok fair enough, so I said well then we need to start off and build equally together, and he just said he didnt want to spend his life again being a slave to the dollar and working his ass off, well ok thats fine too, but I have goals and now with a child coming I want to create or start working towards security for my child and I am slaving to the bone exhausted trying to be a step mom and cleaning up after everyone and I honestly dont see the point continuing without any direction. I may as well be alone have only one child to look after and save for my own future, the chances of any merging or cohesiveness together seems like its no go, so whats the point of me exhausting myself. Any ideas or solutions?

2007-12-16 10:34:28 · 16 answers · asked by NonaVarta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-16 10:34:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you like being in a relationship, or would you rather be single right now in your life?

2007-12-16 10:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 28 years old and was molested as a child. I've never let it go because this man was never put in jail and I always felt like he could still be doing this to another child. I remember he was in the army I remember his first name his sons name and his daughters name. A few days ago I had brought the topic up to my husband and had a melt-down. My mother was up-stairs staying the night at my house and she heard me crying. All I needed was this mans last name to start searching and my mother told my sister his last name. Well I found him and I'm gonna take him down!!!!!!

2007-12-16 10:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by missing_nyc 1 in Family

My friend will always try to scare me by like, popping out of corners, forcing me to look at her computer screen when it shows a scary thing, and when i go to her house i usually leave early or cry there. she calls me baby and chicken and ive been avoding her by hainging out with other people. NICER people. my friends are all friends wih her and i feel scaed to face her because she gossips. HELP ME!!!

2007-12-16 10:29:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-16 10:27:37 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

He like family guy,sports,any thing

2007-12-16 10:27:13 · 2 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family

We have been dating for 5 1/2 years now. A couple months ago we got into a fight and he said he would marry me. I think he said it just to get me to take him back. We have talked about it since then its kind of planned out that we'll go to vegas and tie the knot after we get our taxes back in feburary or march. Is it really a done deal if he hasnt bought the ring yet? I dont want to keep bringing it up and nagging him so I dont know what to do. I dont want to bug him into asking me I want him to ask becasue he loves me and wants a life with me. The biggest thing that bugging me now is he's been going out of town for work from monday to friday and I'm left at home without him all week. This is the third year he takes off all week and comes home on the weekends and everytime I've been 100% faithful, I think he has too, but its bugging me cuz I'm staying home and waiting for him like a wife but not with the title or anything.

2007-12-16 10:26:49 · 4 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been seperated for almost a year.... i gave him the divorce papers almost 2 months ago.... how do i get him to fill them out??? i know he's just stalling for as long as he can.. i don't want to get ugly about all of this, but i really need the financial help from him??? i'm trying to make this divorce as civil and painless as possible so we can remain friendly around the kids...

2007-12-16 10:26:11 · 12 answers · asked by me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they always say i cant do anything right and i have made alot of mistakes in my life. how can i turn my life around and show them up?
i have nothing now so how do i change that?

2007-12-16 10:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Family

my daughter stephanie at 14 whats me to sit in the bathroom with her when she is geting a bath ,cos i do that for her little bro and sister ,so she wants me to sit in with her so we can talk ,when i do go in i always take a book in with me ,but her gran thinks she is to old for that but stephanie wants me to go in ,what do i do

2007-12-16 10:24:59 · 20 answers · asked by suzywong 4 in Family

GIRLS

A. Madison

B. Bella

C. Erica

D. Baily

BOYS

A. Mat

B. Elliot

C. Eathen

D. Joey


For your answer it should like like this

example:

Girls- A
Boys-C

Somethign like that!

THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-16 10:23:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from your girlfriend.

i have an absolute amazing boyfriend.
just i dont know what to get him.

help plzzz.

2007-12-16 10:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by JayJay <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm very much in love with my fiancé, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but recently i've been feeling very afraid and contemplative. I've come to realize that he seems to have a problem with anyone he see's is too close to me, expecially my 2 best girlfriends who are really the sisters i've never had. He actually claims to hate them, with no appropriate reason. He knows how much it emotionally stresses me when he constantly complains about them, yet he never stops. Also in our religion, i'm required to listen to what he says.. and he's been implying that he'll not allow me to hang out with my friends, that he wants me all to himself. As much as I love him and want to make him happy, i'm a very independant person and I don't think I can settle with his rules. He always seems to be lecturing me about everything, but I know he does it out of concern.. I don't know if I can go through with this though, what do you all think? Thanks everyone.

2007-12-16 10:20:53 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to know if it hurts/feels good or not. I wanna know what it feels like. "The notion of it"...or i don't know what i'm trying to say... I'm just curious.

2007-12-16 10:20:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am asking this question here in this forum, because, i want a good opinion, i have asked this same question at my work place to mostly men, most the men i asked there said that they dont wont kids ever as it would ruin their relationships, and they wont to keep that spark, in their marriage are relationship without the worries of kids, interfering,, they said kids would spoil their private times and their away too expensive now aday, on the other hand i did have two kids and my marriage did break- up as the kids consumed all my time, but that would not stop me from ever having again, also my sister been married for 8 years and no kids yet she feel the same as the men i talked to.. no kids make a better solid carefree easy lifestyle, but as i said i love kids and would do it again but at this point my sons grown so now i am alone again only now my age has stopped me, i wanna know what anyone here think? about it plz all opinions thank you.

2007-12-16 10:18:46 · 24 answers · asked by blk_female_x 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to be strong and move on but then out of nowhere I dwell on the past, incase of no one knowing what Im possibly talking about I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 yrs. : ( so I want to just let it go, I would appreciate any advice given.

2007-12-16 10:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by dominicandyme22 2 in Singles & Dating

we are newly married, my wife is 5.8 and i am5.5, more often when we go out, she wears 2" or 3" high heel, i feel reluctant in prohibiting her to do so.in fact i like tall girls but walking along a tall girl brings embarrasment to me. pl. some solution

2007-12-16 10:15:42 · 19 answers · asked by shaukat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i broke up a couple of days ago we decided to stay friends because he really doesnt have time for a relationship and im really busy both of us just wanna focus on school hes glad we're friends he said he wants my friendship but the other day when he knocked my door. he just walked in and started kissing me i still love it when we kiss. is wrong that kiss my ex and still have feelings for him?

2007-12-16 10:12:27 · 52 answers · asked by snookie 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out today that my boyfriend of 3 years is going behind my back with another girl. And he even saved her number under his friends name in his cell phone and now that i know the truth ALL the time "he" called my bf and my bf didnt pick up was becuase it was HER..... he told her that he wants to hook up with her... he did this to me a year and a half ago and nothign happened just dangerously flirting with another girl behind my back..... but this time its worse...a lot worse

i dont know what to do...i usually call my mother about this crap but i dont want her to hate him... should i breka up with him? i dont nkow what to do or who to talk to....would it be completly crazy to call his mom and talk to her? i am so sad...he is my bestfriend and means everything to me....what do i do :(

2007-12-16 10:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl. weve been looking at each other for awhile (a year). we were both shy of each other. we finally broke the ice on myspace. we talked on there for 3 weeks and i told her i like her. she was stunned because we never spoke in person. i understand now i was a fool. she knows everything about me, my past, my life, some of my secrets only she knows because i told her. a month passed and we started talking again on myspace. weve never spoke on the phone, but she has heard my voice from one voicemail i sent her. we are friendly now but i sense she is not herself with me, maybe a bit shy. were taking the friendship thing slowly. i do not bombard her with messages. i give her space. how should i go about this? i really like evrything about her.the good and the bad. please help me?

2007-12-16 10:11:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am one of seven children and when we were kids we were close some closer than others but that is to be expected.

Now many of us live in different sates everyone is all married with kids except the youngest everyone lives on thier own

But my questions are concerning those who have large families is it normal to drift apart and go on with life? What are some things I can do to let my brothers and sisters know that I truly love them and appreciate all they are to me and all they have done for me? Like I said we are all grown and gone on with our lives and I am OK with that I too moved 3000 miles away from where I used to live 11 months ago.

I am close with a sister who lives by me but what can a person do to obtain the closeness in the family that was once apparent?

Thank you and God bless you:)

2007-12-16 10:11:15 · 9 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Family

I told my girl friend im always thinking about her and i do, nd she told me to prove it, how do i prove that i am?

2007-12-16 10:10:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance's ex wife has said that we can't have the kids for christmas. It states in divorce papers that they have alternating holidays in the state of michigan. She had the kids for thanksgiving in the state of virgina. She is coming to Indiana which is where we live for christmas with her family but said that we couldn't have the kids cuz it's not in Michigan. The divorce papers also state that neither parent can take the kids out of the state of michigan without written permission from the other which she has not had for any of her trips.

2007-12-16 10:09:59 · 5 answers · asked by sara r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

explain

2007-12-16 10:07:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was with my boyfriend for 5 yrs, since I was 17 yrs old. I go to school full time 2 hrs away from and we dated 3 yrs before I moved to a different school I will be going to grad school soon since I just got accepted. Im smart Im pretty I treat him really nice and always have. I feel so used! He cheated on me when we first started dating w/ his ex and i didnt find out til yr 2 and forgave him cuz of how "sorry" he was and then i found out about more lies, he started hanging out w some girl he met at work more than we were hanging out we fought like crazy he went behind my back to hang out w her, i found out he was doing drugs like coke and x occasionally, found out he was going to strip clubs.... the thing is, when he's with me and around me he was so sweet and sincere told me he wanted to marry me, how proud he was of me so much more.... and at the same time all of that I listed above - i feel like he doesnt love me at all or never did (relationship just ended a week ago)

2007-12-16 10:06:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce