ex boyfriend?

Question

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

Answer 1

How many times do you intend to ask this question? You’ve asked it OVER AND OVER AGAIN under numbers user ids. And by the way, having numerous accounts and posting the same question excessively are both a violation of community guidelines.

Just ASK HIM. And stop posting this.


Your other accounts:

ANTOINETTE M
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AhiXu9ffAIkKCnMzM_NOXlLD7BR.;_ylv=3?show=RK8oXes5aa

vero m
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AhiXu9ffAIkKCnMzM_NOXlLD7BR.;_ylv=3?show=9G8RnI57aa

Lisa D
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AhiXu9ffAIkKCnMzM_NOXlIWxgt.;_ylv=3?show=qu5309taaa

chris c
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AhiXu9ffAIkKCnMzM_NOXlLD7BR.;_ylv=3?show=7UvG9T5Saa

And those are just the accounts I’m aware of (meaning, there’s probably more).

Answer 2

Hi I have a friend in a very similar situation and its quite convenient for him to just call up when he wants and get some affection? Some times you need to cut all strings and have no contact. Its better for all parties so you can both move on and not be held back. Bean

Answer 3

I think he just likes kissing you and doesn't respect the fact that you two are JUST FRIENDS now. He might not be happy that you broke up with him still, but if it's been two years and he's still not over it then you should not consider taking him back, he seems to be very clingy.

I, even though i don't know him, honestly think that he's using you and you're letting him.

I hope this all gets better for you soon. :)

Answer 4

WELL...this is so normal for a guy!!!....i think he still kisses you because he wants to assure his self that you still want him and they he still got you!!

but...it does seem like he cares..i think he is playing the field before he wants to re-comitt to you. he may have come to realize that you are a really good catch, so he wants to make sure he is right...

it is in your best interest to be completely honest with him when you talk to him..men are manipulative..make sure you KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO SAY AND NOT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR!! stay positive to what you want!

good luck

Answer 5

Well as you mentioned he never had time for you. But now he has. You should give him chance. It is OK. He starts with kiss because there has been long time he didn't see you. He wants to have chance to get you again.If you love him and sure about his love, go for him.

Answer 6

Yes, communicate! Find out what the heck all of this is anyway. Decide if this is what you want, no matter what he says. If it isn't then tell him this is confusing and not at all what you want out of a relationship. Then, spell out exactly what you want and if he's willing to provide, great, if not, adios amigo!

Answer 7

i would say ditch him. of all my exs, i've been tempted to kiss after a breakup, i've never done it because it would just lead to trouble. also, kissing a guy you're not "with" could lead to trouble, which was a recent experience of mine. get a boyfriend and only see this guy when you are in a group. one on one time not advised.

Answer 8

he has no idea what he wants and you are letting him get away with it you should stop hanging out with him for a awhile and do what you have to do he could be playing you and he is making you look like a fool good luck and dont let it bring you down

Answer 9

guys are ssooo confusing! i know how you feel i think he wants to keep in touch cuz he is waiting for a better time for a relationship..or i might be wrong lol guys r da worst but u cant live w/out them hehe =p

Answer 10

I think he still likes you.He probably still does,but is having a hard time getting you off of his mind.So I'm pretty sure he still likes you,so just ask him.Ask him why he still kisses you etc. etc.