I'm 28 years old and was molested as a child. I've never let it go because this man was never put in jail and I always felt like he could still be doing this to another child. I remember he was in the army I remember his first name his sons name and his daughters name. A few days ago I had brought the topic up to my husband and had a melt-down. My mother was up-stairs staying the night at my house and she heard me crying. All I needed was this mans last name to start searching and my mother told my sister his last name. Well I found him and I'm gonna take him down!!!!!!
2007-12-16 10:30:22 · 8 answers · asked by missing_nyc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Good for you.If this man is still in the army,or retired from the army,you have an added bonus.The army will strip him of all his benefits if they find out what he did to you.Just remember though,you won't only be affecting him,but his family as well.On the other hand,you need this to heal and be a better person all around.It sounds like you now have not only the knowledge you need,but the support you need to do this as well.If it saves just one child,it is worth it.And who knows?He may have done this to one of his own kids or grandkids and they are just too scared to come out and admit it.Once you get this ball rolling though,remember,you can not go back and undo any harm it does to any of his family.
2007-12-16 10:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must get him prosecuted or at least unveiled. This is an evil wrong-doer and you have a duty to protect all the victims. You can be damn sure you are not the only one. We must do every thing we can to eliminate these people from the planet. They are mutants who only harm and take and never give back to our communities. Whatever you feel like, make it legal and make him suffer - a quick wipe out is not a form of justice..
2007-12-16 10:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the police on it. How unfair of him to do this to you and get away with it after you have had to live with it your whole freaking life!!!!!ERRRR I would bet almost anythign that he has done this to other children. they usually can't just do it once and never do it again!!! Hopefully you will get more people to come forward and this guy will be punished as much as the law allows!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-16 10:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by = ) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police with this. There is a statute of limitation on this, ask the police what it is and talk to them. By all means, take the SOB as far down as you can.
2007-12-16 10:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by petra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you are prepared to face his denial..This is one of the hardest things to deal with for abuse victims..the abuser may deny it and that may trigger more anger and hurt..so be aware of this..don't attempt to go there alone either..I wish you closure and remember you are innocent ..don't let him play with your mind..Good luck and may God always be with you
2007-12-16 10:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! This man committed a crime and has gotten away with it for so long. He needs to go down.
2007-12-16 10:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by sld 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont hesitate go for it take that perv to court.if you were hurt than many others can be hurt. so go for it. i hope everything goes the way you want it, good luck
2007-12-16 10:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by Chevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. It needs to be reported.
2007-12-23 04:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋