we are newly married, my wife is 5.8 and i am5.5, more often when we go out, she wears 2" or 3" high heel, i feel reluctant in prohibiting her to do so.in fact i like tall girls but walking along a tall girl brings embarrasment to me. pl. some solution
2007-12-16 10:15:42 · 19 answers · asked by shaukat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't do anything. My goodness, she loves you, don't she? She married you, didn't she? Height has nothing to do with loving someone.. When you go out, if her wearing the heels bother you that much, talk to her about it..I'm sure she will listen, she loves ya and I just bet there is nothing in this world she won't do for you. You say you want a solution. The only thing I could possibly tell you that you need to try to achieve some self esteem, work on yourself and then things will be okay. She doesn't think a thing about your being shorter, so....why should you? I also bet you have a beautiful lady. , that alone would make you stand tall.. . . . Your self confidence from with in you. . .and you alone. . . .
2007-12-16 11:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and be a man. How tall you are has nothing to do with anything.
And you can't 'prohibit' her from wearing high heels. That's not how a marriage works.
Be proud of her.....walk tall....
2007-12-16 12:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself and this will go away.
I am slightly taller and am bummed at times I can't wear heels. I just wear them when I'm not with hubbs, problem solved.
Hubbs loves it that I'm taller and even encourages me TO wear heels.
Good Luck!
2007-12-16 11:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some cute flat slippers and yourself some "elevator" shoes - they will make you taller.
Also wear a tall hairstyle - tell your barber to make you look taller in your hair.
Don't say anything to hurt her feelings. It's your problem - so get over it.
Joy to you!
2007-12-16 10:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't seem to mind it while you were dating, what changed?
Personally, get over it - I've known many couples where the wife is taller than the husband. No biggie. And the wife gets to change the light bulbs.
2007-12-16 10:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Prophet 1102 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Chop off about 1 foot on each leg. That should solve the problem
2007-12-16 10:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by A friendly Jihad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who are taller than me turn me on!
If I were you, I'd love walking down the street with my hottie in heels.
2007-12-16 11:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy, this is YOUR issue, don't make it hers. I would not have any part of a man telling me what not to wear because of his insecuities with himseld. In fact I wouldn't marry a man who was not confident no matter what.
2007-12-16 10:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by MiaBella 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly in love wth her and really happy,then age or height or anything else shouldnt matter what anyone else thinks. Happy Holidays
2007-12-16 10:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel secure, you are the man, let the others said WOW!!! be proud of you wife, and proud of yourself. Not to worried,enjoy life..
2007-12-16 10:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Bratso 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋