I want to make friends with a boy at my school but he doesn't know me?

Question

Ok this boy doesn't know me and after a few days later, there was a concert at my school and after it was finish, i was looking at him because he is in band, playing the baritone and yeah then he was holding his instrument and his misic book and he turn around and stare at me. this felt weird and why would he do that if he doesn't know me and he did that to me in his class when i look at him in a far distance, he stare at me and he did that like three times already and yeah his personality is queit, shy, and not very social with people and always ignore people and stuff....do anyone know why he stare at me even though he doesn't know me? it really strange here

ummm.....we are not in the same class and i know him by people at my middle school and we are both in the same grade, freshmen in high school and i am not talkative and last time i said hi to him, he ignore me. and i felt so bad fo myself

also... i know him name and also my friend told me that he doesn't say anything because he doesn't have much to say and he talk to guys more than girls and i am not really an arracted person

Answer 1

If you want to make friends with a boy that you do not know, then first get to know him by telling one another your names and shaking hands. If his personality is quiet and shy, then reassure him and tell him not to be afraid and that you mean no harm. Then he might feel okay with getting to know you and you getting to know him. Your conversations with him might initially show off that he is shy, but later he might become a little less shy and more comfortable with you.

Answer 2

Awww, he likes you. If he's anything like me, you're going to have to go after him. If he's shy around everyone, that goes double for girls, maybe even triple, possibly quadrupal, but enough of that.

Try to figure out what he's interested in and start a conversation using topics that he's already comfortable with. It'll make it that much easier and once he's used to you, he'll automatically begin to share more of himself.

You could possibly also help him to open up to the world as well, but that's a different problem altogether. Whatever you do, just be open, supportive and most importantly, don't come on too strong at first. If he's as shy as you make him out to be, he could panic if you made a scene with him involved.

Just sometime when you're both alone or at least not surrounded by people, you should go up, but already have a few conversation topics in mind, just for back-up. Each one should either be a compliment or a question involving his interests. If he likes you, he may be even more shy than regular. Don't try too hard to get him to talk. Just be accepting of whatever he's willing to give you. If he smiles, smile back and tell him that you'll see him later.

After he's a little more used to you, tell him that you think he's cute and ask him what he thinks about you. If you do it sweetly, it could be something he remembers for the rest of his life. You sound very sweet. I'm sure you'll do fine.

You might expect him to come off as a bit akward or wierd first, but just give him a chance. Those types of people tend to end up being the most interesting once they've had some social experience.

Best of luck!

Answer 3

I know a bloke like that, and in your case I'd put it down to shyness and immaturity (the bloke I know is in his mid-thirties, so the shyness and immaturity thing is a bit creepy, but I digress). I'm guessing he thinks you're attractive but is a bit shy about talking to you. Why don't you just go and talk to him? Ask him about the music, how long has he been playing, why'd he choose that particular instrument, does he play any other instrument, does he listen to bands .... you get the picture.

Answer 4

Maybe hes thinkin about talking to you but hes to shy to.
By staring at u means hes taking an interest in you, and wat you do and say.
You should just talk to him one day like a question about something in class or something and start from there.
you never know how things could end up.
=]

Answer 5

he may think you are interesting maybe he thinks your cute. can't say fer shure. but i think the best thing for you to do is to just go talk to him, say hey my name is 'insert name here' whats yours?? and ya know ask if he wants to be friends. it works for me, that's how i got my best friends that i love like sisters, and how i got a few bfs. ^^ hope it helps..

Answer 6

Well, say hi and when he stares, smile back. He might want to be your friend too!

Answer 7

he stared at you cuz u were staring at him.... and just sit by him one day and say something hed like to hear.

Answer 8

well...dont you look at people? obviously...you dont know him and you look at him too, or else...how would you know that he looks at you? if you want to befriend him, then just talk to him. you guys have class together...easy convo starter.

Answer 9

just ask him his name get to know him dont be shy os scared

Answer 10

is he new?
hes probly lonely
or he likes you