I just found out today that my boyfriend of 3 years is going behind my back with another girl. And he even saved her number under his friends name in his cell phone and now that i know the truth ALL the time "he" called my bf and my bf didnt pick up was becuase it was HER..... he told her that he wants to hook up with her... he did this to me a year and a half ago and nothign happened just dangerously flirting with another girl behind my back..... but this time its worse...a lot worse
i dont know what to do...i usually call my mother about this crap but i dont want her to hate him... should i breka up with him? i dont nkow what to do or who to talk to....would it be completly crazy to call his mom and talk to her? i am so sad...he is my bestfriend and means everything to me....what do i do :(
2007-12-16 10:11:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg! that's so rude of him to do that! you should break up with him because he wasn't honest to you and he doesn't deserve you! try to move on.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-16 10:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him. Talking to his mother would not be a good idea unless you already have a close relationship with her. If this is the second time he has done this, he is not the one for you. He either does not love you or he will be the type of man that will always cheat. You do not sound like the type of woman who wants a man who always cheats.
So tell him that you think it is time to break up since he obviously does not want to be in a serious relationship. Tell him that you respect yourself too much to be with a man that does not respect you enough to have an exclusive relationship.
Good Luck, I am sure you will find someone else who will love and respect you as much as you do him. Never settle for what is available if they treat you badly.
2007-12-16 18:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by B. D Mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I firmly believe you can't have a relationship with someone you can't trust. You will spend most of your time wondering if they are with someone else when they are not with you. This can cause you to worry and in some cases make you feel ill. I don't recommend you do the same thing , however go out and have fun yourself if he acts like he don't care of becomes violent to you leave him!!!! If he finds the error of his ways and approaches you the way a man should approach a woman then tell him you need a few days to think things over.
2007-12-16 18:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by lawman107 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't call his mom and talk to her about it.If he's done something similar to this before and he's doing it to you now....how could he "love you'' if he's hurting you? My advice to you would be to let him know how much he's hurting you and then to definately break it off with him...you must realize that you don't deserve to be treated like this by someone who supposedly loves you! He's done it before, he's doing it now be assured he'll do it again.
2007-12-16 18:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jaymi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he said you shouldnt have to go through all the stress break up with him.. hes not worth the effort..
im sorry for whats happened.
2007-12-16 18:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Identity Withheld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him. Cheating even its only flirting isnt acceptable.
2007-12-16 18:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you dont mean everything to him. find a man who thinks everything of you.
Break up with him.
2007-12-16 18:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Van G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his heart is cheating so why would you want that
2007-12-16 18:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋