My family hates me and I hate my family. I've tried and tried to stay positive but I can't anymore. My Father is abusive and my Mother told me she hates him but she won't divorce w/ him and she always takes his side. I honestly think she doesn't divorce cause my dad has all the $$$. My brother is okay but sometimes he just annoys me. My sister is so sensitive. If you just say something like "you're short" to her, she gets all mad and starts crying. Sometimes I think never being born is better than this but I don't want to think like that. I know some other families out there have much bigger problems than mine. I wish I could love my family and I wish I could say sorry for all the things I've done but I know they won't forgive me. I've caused trouble too many times. All I'm asking is how do I let them know that I truly am sorry and want to stop fighting?
2007-12-16 12:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can ask your parents if they will take time to talk with you. Tell them how you FEEL... "i feel sorry for all of the things i have done", "i feel badly about the fighting", "i want things to improve" and "what can i do to make things better between us?"....
....and whatever else you want to say.
No family is perfect, and i'm sure your family does not "hate" you... you said you've done some things you regret... maybe they are just a little disappointed right now.
It takes a lot of strength and courage to let others know how we feel, but it's not that hard once we get started. And others DO appreciate it when we talk and let them know how we are feeling about things.
hugs
2007-12-16 13:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a nutshell... I suggest that you detach from everything going on and live your own life. As you stated, everyone has their own issues and must deal with them on their own. You don't have to walk on eggshells, but you don't have to buy into their negativity.
You can contribute to the peace there by not creating any more drama... so just go to school and get good grades, clean up after yourself and do whatever chores are assigned to you, and get a job when you can to build a work history.
Perhaps consider joining some clubs or sports at school to get yourself out of the house for a while... legitimately.
You can lead by setting a quiet example.
2007-12-16 20:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im really sorry to hear that.
what i would do is just listen to them and be nice.
all you need to do is ask your self am i doing the right thing even if your parents aren't you should. You need to setal down. you should also ask your consol at school, maybe he/she will help you.and sit down with your whole family and tell them how you feel or ask one of your brother or sister to tell them if you cant.i hope everything is going to be better for you and your family.
2007-12-16 20:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't yo usit down and tell them
2007-12-16 20:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by jc7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away, let them know you mean business
2007-12-16 20:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by !amber! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋