I like this guy. I told him last last Friday when he was going out with someone. Just started to and then she broke up with him the next day. And now he is going out with someone in another town who i know. I feel horrible cause i like him alot. Then he was asking me for advice and i told him idk i haven't seen her since Halloweeen. Then he said You havent seen her since then and i kissed her like 5 times last night. I feel horrible. How i should i talk to him? What should i say? I talk to him on msn. I feel like i don't want to talk to him. What should i do about him? What should i tell him? Thanks!!
2007-12-16 08:23:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well what did he say when you told him you loved him? if it was a negative response then you are too good for him... if you really care for him just be there for him and if you find that hard i guess you have to try to get over him.... i really do not know what to say... but hun if he does not want you then you are too good for him you show that you care and he is an idiot for not realising that...best thing to do is go with the flow and see what happens.. i know it may not be the answer you wantedbut if its ment to be it will happen... if not im sure you will meet some one else out there.. even if it dont feel like that now... just dont give up and keep smiling... you know your not alone you know :) xx you will be suprised in how many people feel the same as you.. you will one day look back on this and laugh the key is patience
2007-12-16 08:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by freefaller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him nothing. Stop talking to him, it only makes things worse. You expressed how you felt about him, yet without any form of an answer or explaination, that you were entitled to just out of common curtisy, he seems to have ignored you and your feelings, started dating someone else, yet keeps in touch, tells you personal things that must hurt you, then asks for advice. This guy keeps you around for his personal use, there is not even a friendship here, he seems to believe you exist for his benifit. Be rid of him, someone out there is waiting to meet you, while this guy toys with your emotions and wastes your time. Take control of your emotions and life, get on with it.
2007-12-16 08:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by ferochira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the best thing to tell him is " get lost creep" Because when he tell s you he has made out with a friend of yours and makes it plain so that you know it and he hurts you that way he needs his butt kicked. You shoudl just move on because if you don't and you keep trying to go out with the jerk he will hurt your feelings as much as he can because he knows you will let him. YOu need to stand up and not be a door mat. Tell him adios and find someone who treats you nice and respects your feelings too. YEa, because if he liked you he woudl have gone out with you instead of someone else.
2007-12-16 08:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one sister apparently he trust you enough for advice. best approach is if this one doesnt work out ask him out and see how things play out. dont want to bare your soul took quickly might get singed. but ask him out definitely
2007-12-16 08:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by den d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you're uncomfortable talking to him now. he's obviously shallow.
2007-12-16 08:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋