I Like 3 guys...I like one more than the other..and one has a girlfriend.i dont know what to do.I like the one who has a girlfriend the most!i like one a little and i dont know wat to do about the other!the one who has a girlfriend looks at me a lot!and yesturday he called me at 3 in the morning..he gives me all these signs that he is intrested!i need advice
2007-12-16 08:24:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea..yu guys are right i wouldnt want some one to do that to me!!!definitly soo im going to just go with the other ones..i have to let the one with a g/f go!!!
2007-12-16 08:37:18 · update #1
if the one with the g/f is calling you even though he has a girlfrend, do u think thats right? how do you know he's not going to do that with you if you ever get together... he's not very trustworthy, the guy that u like a little, go for that one, u obvioulsy need some time with him to get to know him more, and the guy u don't know, forget about him.
2007-12-16 08:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by RachLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, why would you be flirting and talking at 3AM with someone who has a GF? You really think that this person is going to be focused on you, if you get together? It is really disrespectful to his GF, and it does not speak well of him that he is thinks that is an acceptable way to treat someone. You think maybe the reason you like the one w the GF is because he seems more desirable, cos he already has someone? Maybe he should not be switching just from one to the other; or don't you mind being with someone who does that, because you already know and accept that he will do it to you?
It is okay to date more than one person at a time, as long as you are up front about not being exclusive. But it is really skanky to go after someone when he has a GF, IMO.
2007-12-16 16:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all don't do anything about the one you don't know what to do with because it seem that you are not interested in him.Sequent ask the guy with the girl friend if he is interested in you to leave his girlfriend to be with you or to atop flirting with you and the other one find out if he likes you too who knows you might have something nice with him.GOOD LUCK
2007-12-16 16:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by pocahontas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the most liked guy if he likes u or try and get it out of him. If the other guys u like don't like u than u have to move on honey,the one u like u will have to wait for to be single or be a bad person and ask him out while he is taken. If the other guys do like u though,ask the cutter one out. I've had 9 bf's in 1 1/2 years and they asked me out. be yourself and let them get a taste of your interests and crap like that ok? see if that works.
good luck babe!
2007-12-16 16:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if he is really interested, but make sure he knows you won't go out with him until he has broken up with his girlfriend. If he won't break up with her it means he's not interested in you enough. It's up to you whether you choose either of the other two. From what you say I guess you like one but not the other.
2007-12-16 16:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by M&B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the guy with the girlfriend alone and try figuring out which of the other 2 you like. if the guy with the girlfriend breaks up with her then go after him then but try to stay away from him b/c he might be trying to mess with your head. its happened to me be4 and it was awful.
2007-12-16 16:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend then leave him alone. he obviously likes someone else. Stick with the other two guys.
2007-12-16 16:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't talk the the guy with a gf, unless he talks to you. there is another way that you could do it. go on google and type in 'love calculater' and see which guy has the most percent with you.
gd luk
2007-12-16 16:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide to be a strong and confident female and stop being boycrazy.
Live your life for yourself and not to be doted on or dote on men.
And when someone worth doting on comes around, you will like him and ONLY him, so you won't have to chose.
2007-12-16 16:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by qazwsx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the #1 dude prob reeli likes you so that his gf knows. but hes too afraid to dump her. and the gf is clinging on to him for her liffe! so flirt with him a lil to make him drool over you evn more so that he FINALLY dumps the gurl
2007-12-16 16:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tina_a.m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋