so stressed help...?

Question

i feel so stressed, its like i have so much to do in so little time, right were do i start, i have tons of coursework forncollege thats in for friday and its gonna take ages, i have christmas shopping to do, then theres work and i feel like i have no time to fit it all in. And in the mean time i'm still trying to get this lads atention at college who i really like but its not easy when your shy and if i don't do something about it this week i'm gonna be wishing i had all over christmas when i won't see him, i'm so stressed, help.

Answer 1

Leave the lad, do coursework, then worry about shopping.

Answer 2

School comes first right? If the guy is in your class you could ask him to study with you..then you get two things done at the same time. Try to finish a paper a day. You cant study all day so at the end of the paper just take a walk to the mall and do some shopping. When you get back see what can be done on another paper. Ensure you eat and get some rest as that is important too. If he is not in your class you can talk to him between study breaks...but ensure that you breaks arent longer than when you study ok. Get your work done for friday though maybe saturday and sunday you can spend some real time with this guy before you leave to go home for the holidays.

Answer 3

Here is a list of simple things 1. Get vigorous exercise each day 2. No alcohol at all (yeah, I know you're 14) 3. No coffee/tea/cola/chocolate because they have caffeine 4. Write down a list of your problems and solutions for them. 5. Self help books, such as The New Mood Therapy 6. Relaxation techniques, such as meditation 7. Best would be to have cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) 8. Medications and herbal stuff (herbal nonsence) are things you should avoid. Anxiety is very treatable. If you do not treat it, it is miserable, tends to persist and can stop you doing as well as you want to. P.S. You don't literally have high blood pressure.

Answer 4

Just breathe....take a moment to relax. you have to prioritize your schedule. write down all the things you have to do, including the due dates. check off the things you finish. relationships can hold on, but school work is important. I'm pretty sure your friends wont mind about late presents, otherwise they're not really good friends to begin with.
what i suggest is to finish your work first. if you get stressful take a break and do some xmas shopping, but make sure you know what you're goin to get and theres a time limit. Hop back to your work. you can get the guy's attention by getting him something simple and cool. be sure the gift isnt too flashy or expensive, otherwise it would make you look too desperate. just get him something that would seem like a nice xmas gesture. good luck with your work. remember write it down!

Answer 5

Always make time for a good workout. It really does a body good, and it is such the stress reliever. Calm down, it is not worth getting all stress out about. Instead of telling yourself, you can't do this or you can't do that. Start by telling yourself, you can do this and that. Think Positive thoughts. Negative will always, like you down.

Happy Holidays.

Answer 6

You better off to keep your interest on your college work! Guys will come and guys will go but it cost money to go to college. If you intend on getting a good job after college you better keep your grades up. The grades that get the best score in college get the jobs. Good luck. :--#)

Answer 7

Make a schedule of things you have to do. Then do them in order of importance and urgency. Number them from 1-4...
1 = important, urgent
2 = important, not urgent
3 = not important, urgent
4 = not important, not urgent

Answer 8

work on 1 thing at a time you will get it done you see

Answer 9

Do some work and stay off YA

Answer 10

take a Ritalin and get off line and go to work on the studies