I cheated on my bf?

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0K! I FEEL AWFUL& i KNOW i SH0ULD! bUT EVERyB0DY MAKES MISTAKES, BUT THIS I FEEL IS N0T 0NE, i T0LD BY BF AND HE HATES ME MY BEST FRiEND ISNT TALKKING T0 ME!
BUT iM IN L0VE! iM A CHEATER, I CHEATED 0N S0ME0NE I CARE AB0UT. but this is the love of my life, its wrong and i realize tht, but this is how it happened, i mean imagine urself in my shoes!
Am i a bitchh for following my heart? Would u have done the same thing? askk urself tht before u go and judge me. i feel rlly bad about this whole thingg, but seriously, what would u have done??

Answer 1

Feel better now, because you made a big fuss over feeling guilty, making a big public confession and all, and telling your BF about it? You are really ridiculous - you say you are "following your heart," when you are really just following your glands. If you were following your heart, you would have stayed with the person you claim to care about.

Answer 2

you obviously don't know what you want and what you did was wrong. i think you don't love your boyfriend very much, because otherwise you wouldn't have done this. you know that what you did is wrong, but you're still trying to justify it here by saying "would you have done the same thing? ask urself that before you go and judge me" well, to put it in a nut shell: anyone who has respect for the person they're in a relationship with wouldn't do this. i know i wouldn't have! the right thing to do would have been to first think about what you want, and then if you still want to be with your "best friend" then you should have broken up with your current boyfriend first. it's called "doing the right thing", ever heard of that?
break up with your boyfriend so he can find someone worth his time!

Answer 3

Wow, I mean, that sucks. You're screwed. What goes around comes around. And I guess now you got live with this guilty feeling. Maybe you'll learn from this. Either way, you should probably move on. You're friend has a girlfriend and you broke your boyfriend's heart and believe me when I say, things will NEVER be the same again.

Answer 4

You don't think it was a mistake to cheat on your boyfriend? Here's news for you. If you're going to grant yourself the freedom to do something like that, you have to grant him the freedom to hate you forever. That's how it goes, little lady!

Answer 5

If you are in love, you don't cheat. But anyway, my advice is to learn from this, take whatever lumps he gives you(even if he decides to end the relationship), and move on.

Answer 6

i have no sympathy for u!!
im sry but c'mon u dnt deserve ne body!
we`re sposed to be best friends
its pathetic. follow ur heart not some l0SERsz
DiCKK!