You may remember all my questions from last week. I was the girl that was at my bf's friend's house and we all got very drunk. The last thing I remember him doing is exposing my breasts while I was dancing buy according to another witness, he also pulled down my undies and showed everyone. I found out the next morning that I had a threesome with a friend of his and him and it was ALL my idea, right??? I know I can get kinda slutty but I am preety sure I was forced since I had bruises all over. It may have just been rough sex though. I think he lost all respect for me. It's like he took advantage of me 'cause he knows I can't control my liquor and it makes me act crazy. I'm only 130 lbs. 5'8 and drank (I guess) atleast 3 fifths and a 12 pack myself. I know I'm an alcoholic. Well, I went over there again this weekend. They sold me some XTC which I took even though I had been drinking hard core. We went bowling and I guess in the women's bathroom (Cont'd)
2007-12-16 06:30:22 · 5 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wax asking his female friends if they wanted to feel my breasts (they're implants) and who knows what else. In all fairness, I don't remember that either. I guess he got upset with me and I left with several guys to the casino. Nothing happened there but I drank more. My bf said he would ALWAYS love me! I would ALWAYS love him. Please help and be nice, I'm so sad that I feel like killing myself. Why'd I waste 8 years on a guy that didn't ever respect me?
2007-12-16 06:33:42 · update #1
No matter what happens with your boyfriend, you need to sober the hell up and get your act together.
OR
You can let me know where you live and we can go party........... 7 beers and you are wasted. that's a pretty cheap date..........
2007-12-16 06:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breathe and try not too remind yourself again and again of your ex. That will only make you miss him more and finding it hard to move on. The emotions are normal. Is part of the cycle in a relationship. I know is hard. No one can change the way you feel if you don't want to. The power is yours. Be strong.
2016-05-24 05:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon he stayed 8 years - apparently he did respect you at one point. but clearly you don't respect yourself at the moment, so why would anyone respect you?
you should really take a look at your partying, because it seems like you are having a tough time handling your liquor.
the fact that someone had to TELL you you and your bf had a threesome, and all you ahve to show for that are bruises should be a big old RED FLAG of a warning sign. Nothign to do with the relationship, but everything to do with YOU.
2007-12-16 06:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by China J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you don't respect yourself? If you are an alcoholic and a drug user, it is not a surprise that you are living a degraded lifestyle, and it is not going to get better on its own. You are better off without him. Please get help! If you are depressed, alcohol only makes it worse. And anyway, what you each said 8 years ago does not matter so much as what is happening to you NOW - he is not treating you well, he has an alcohol problem, too, so being with him is no solution anyway. You need to help yourself.
2007-12-16 06:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting to know him again and take things slow. have conversations with him instead of having sex and going to parties. talk to him about it. also, i know it's hard, but you have to do something about drinking to much, try getting help and stuff, it's gonna ruin your future and your mind. good luck
2007-12-16 06:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by arielle s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋