is she angry at me?

Question

i met this girl last thursday, we texted like mad over the weekend coz she went home,met on monday, had sex, i was a bit distant after that coz i was very tired, but she wanted to be very close after sex, texted her on tuesday, she replied.
texted her on wednesday to tell her i'd like to see her before she leaves for x'mas on friday, she didn't reply, then i texted her later that night to tell her that i hope she doesn't think i'm using her for s** n she still didn't reply
i didn't text her thursday, then friday i didn't text her again, but when i went out with my friends i saw her friends in the club n i spoke to them, although we never met before, i just saw photos of them
last night, saturday, i texted her 'i really like u, merry x'mas, x' n she replied asking if i spoke to her friend, n i just never gave her a direct answer, but we sounded cool last night, she just basically said, she met me once, n i don't know anything about her, n she knows nothing abt me, so how can i like her

so much, then i said i'd tell her today, so i texted her, like if i could tell her 3 things about her that she's never told me, r we cool;
she hasn't replied yet, but she usually replies straight away, so i'm not sure y? n what do u think happened?

Answer 1

Okay, first of all, this time of year is very busy for a lot of people. So she might just be busy. Secondly, stop texting her! Just for a few days. I know you like her but you don't want to come across clingy. Sex changes everything, she may not like you in the same way you like her. But, you need to slow down a little with the texting. You have to give her time to miss you, then once she realizes that you haven't texted her in a while, she will text you. But the way it is right now, to me, you would be getting on my nerves...oh and if this was a one night thing, how do you know that you are really in love with her, if you don't know that much about her. Finally, don't talk to her friends. If you just met her last Thursday, she might have just used you for sex. But, give her some space and if it's meant to be, it will work out. But, get on with your life and stop texting her for a little while (and to answer your next question, how long should I wait before I text her---text her after Christmas (8 days) if you haven't heard from her by then---then just be casual, ask her how her Christmas was etc. Don't bring up anything about the sex and get to know her...if you two are meant to be, it will work out) GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 2

Well she sounds like she has been hurt because she DOES think you have used her.

She also might have been hurt before so she isn't letting her guard down.

Text her and tell her that when you met up with her you really thought she was a great girl and you'd love to talk with her sometime again.

And ask her out on a date. If she says no then leave her alone. BUT if she says yes, then don't try to have sex with her. Be a gentleman.

Answer 3

Well, dunno of this will be of much help to you but I think what happened is: too much texting and too little talking/seeing. Be insistent (& nice :) and make sure you meet as soon as possible. And talk to her. Just ask her what happened. No matter what people will tell you on Yahoo, the only really important (and helpful) reply in this situation is her own. I've learnt that being direct and straightforward is always the best tactics - no matter what. And it never betrayed me so far..
Good luck and happy holidays!

Answer 4

Well your the goof that had sex right when you met her. Isn't that a little fast??? I mean you should of dated and talked about yourselves so you did know stuff about eachother. Then you wouldn't be going through this whole mess.

You just have to show her that you want to learn about her and then just go out have coffee or get dinner. Creat conversation so you learn about eachother. She her that you are interested in her for more than just sex.

Answer 5

Dude! Grow some BALLS.

Calm down.
Stay confident.

You be yourself. It wasn't about just the sex? Good. If she wants to ditch you, it's not big thing - there's plenty of fish in the sea. Yes, keep contacting her. But not so often. And NEVER mention the fact that she hasn't returned your messages.

Answer 6

You were just a booty call my friend, she has no other interest in you.
She was using YOU for sex. She probably laughed when she saw your text saying you werent just using her for sex.
Sorry bro.

Answer 7

How about you stop with the texting and have an actual conversation?

Answer 8

it sounds like she mite b a sl*t b/c if yall didnt no each other and thin yall had s*x..and now shes not really replyin back 2 ur tex messages..thin it sounds like she jus wanted sex.....(hope u wore a condom jus in case she had a std

Answer 9

You two deserve each other - you don't know each other AT ALL, but you leap into bed w each other. She got confused because you were distant after your little fling, and yes, she is pissed.

Answer 10

wow...i think u shld stop the whole 'text' thing n talk face2face, ask her if she feels anythng n the reason u like her dat fast is cz love is blind blah blah blah...