I am curvy and chubby but I can't find any guy that I like that likes me as more than a friend. Why is this? do i have to lose weight to find a boyfriend or what. I am confused???
2007-12-16 05:48:15 · 14 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JUST SO YOU KNOW! I am not insecure with my self, I actually like my self for who I am just wanted to ask.
2007-12-16 05:57:27 · update #1
u just haven't found the right guy.
its whats inside a girl and what she's made of that counts, not anything else.
don't let it get u down, there is someone out here 4 everyone, just keep looking.
2007-12-16 06:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to lose weight to find a bf, though there will be some who look right through you unless you look like a model. But I was skinny as a rail in school, and I did not have guys clamoring over me, so the answer is NO. Often times ppl with weight issues are very insecure, though, and the insecurity comes through like a beacon and sends out "don't date me" desperation vibes.
2007-12-16 05:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone. Many women feel that way. It has nothing to do with insecurity. It is the way we are treated with men. I know exactly what you are saying.
Keep your head up and don't listen to this negitive attitude when they say it is you and your insecurity. If you are happy the way you are then you go girl. Who in the hell cares what these narrow minded idiots think?
If the guy won't like you for the way you are then you know what type of person he is and why would you want someone that in your life? He is judgemental. Who needs that crap?
2007-12-16 05:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by conny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True and yet the "skinny/slim" girls still complain about how huge this and that is and their cellulite. People may think they are skinny but they don't think they are themselves. So is that professor sure or is he looking for a slap across his face? I go to school with a confident and happy-with-herself-girl who ain't exactly skinny, and guys like her. So much for a s-t-e-r-e-o-t-y-p-i-c-a-l theory...
2016-05-24 05:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that all guys like skinny girls more than chubby girls.Than again everyone have different tastes.IF you wanto lose weight and if that what you wanted, than do it, but don't it just to get a boyf or others.because that's just wrong.
2007-12-16 06:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say yours if a confidence issue rather then a body type issue. Guys like a confident girl, end of story!
2007-12-16 05:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Athena 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm a card carrying chubby chaser.
2007-12-16 05:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Franklin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, and you don't have to do anything if you are happy with the way you look!
2007-12-16 05:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay the way you are and find someone that likes you for who you are not what you are not.
2007-12-16 05:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by flatfootfred 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No! No No No No No No! Not at all! Its about personality and Smile and laugh for me! That doesnt matter! and it SHOULDNT to other guys!
2007-12-16 05:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by LeeChavez 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋