k so i have this x of mine. we dated for 8 months. we were in love but there we difficulties. eventually we split up now i have a new lover. but i cant stop my self from thinking or wanting to call my x i also cant help missing him or loveing him. its been 7 months since we last saw each other. but i still have the same feelings for him. how do i get over him..?
please help me! thanx!
2007-12-16 05:36:12 · 12 answers · asked by michelle aksaya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not really a case of getting over him... My first love left me a year and a half ago and I haven't got over him!! It's just a case of forgetting about him. Me and him are now friends and he's going out with my best friend (for the fourth time) but I can be happy for them!! Try and think how he's changed and that you just loved the old him, the new him is different and it wouldn't be the same, hope it goes ok!!!
2007-12-16 05:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Puffay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't help me to get over an ex by finding another boyfriend right after the breakup. The reason you are not over your ex because you went out with your boyfriend right after after you and the ex split which wasn't good at all.
You were still in the stage of grieving over your loss and assume by finding a new guy, it will take all the pain away which you can see didn't help at all. I'd heard people say that when you start dating others recently after a breakup, the ex will occupy your thoughts even more.
First what you need to do is break things off with your current boyfriend-- I feel for him because he is in the middle of this mess and I'd been there myself. I don't think you will love and have genuine feelings for this guy as much you did for your ex ( at least not at this moment) so it wouldn't be fair to keep him around. If he does feel disappoint (I am sure he will) it will be a lot better to let him go now than a couple years later only for the boyfriend to find out the feelings didn't go both ways.
To get over your ex, just stay single for awhile and enjoy the time with friends and family, go shopping, get your hair done or get involved with new hobbies to keep your mind off him. Simply just look after yourself and stay single for awhile and ask yourself what you learned in your past relationship and what changes need to be a made in the future one.
When you are clearly ready to be in one, you will be much happier and there will be no pining over the ex anymore.
2007-12-16 16:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an involuntary refractory period following a breakup, during which you get over your ex. If you rebound and get a new lover right away, the new relationship will be plagued by your roller coaster emotions, which you didn't give any time to sort out.
2007-12-16 05:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by highball116 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i woudl say tlk to ur x.....but hat might make ur current lover angry or jelous. sometimes the harsh truth is wat makes u get over them.....like if ur x tells u that there wil never be any hope...plsu ur going wiht some1 one u hsouldnt be feelin this way because the other person might feel used if she/he ver discovers that u felt like this and ull end up hurting the new lover. the only thing u can do is try to get your x out of ur head.
2007-12-16 05:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by kit kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Morrissey or Death Cab For Cutie
2007-12-16 05:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over someone is to get under someone....but as Axl Rose once said "all things are can be heal in time"
2007-12-16 05:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the only thing to make someone forget, but if it was true love u may be stuck like chuck.
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2016-10-01 22:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put those feeling that you have for your x into your new love.
2007-12-16 06:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ann f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is easy for me to say, but time heals.
enough time passing and the pain will ease.
2007-12-16 05:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋