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i wanted to hang out with this kid,
we hung out last weekend and i really like him.

so i texted him last night, and he never texted back.
i keep thinking maybe he didn't get it, but i know he did.

so is he tryin to avoid me or what?
we talk in school and stuff and he called me at the begingin of the week a couple times.

i don't want to seem stockerish by calling him, so should i just let it go and see what he saids monday at school?

2007-12-16 05:29:54 · 30 answers · asked by CYDVICIOUS 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

30 answers

I think you should back off. You should let him chase you, not the other way around. Since you already made your move and texted him, you should just wait and see what he does next. Ofcourse, its highly unlikely that he didn't get your text message he didn't respond for whatever reason. Either he's not interested or he's playing hard to get with you. I would ignore him in school, and wait for him to approach you. Remember, if he really likes you then he will do whatever it takes to get you.

2007-12-16 05:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ok, Well, I have the same scenario going on in my situation. My guy went on vacation back home for 2 weeks. The first night he got there he called me and text ed me like a million times. Well the weekend has rolled around and I have heard nothing from him. Yes, I too text ed him once with no response. Did he get it? YES, is he avoiding it, in my case, I'm sure he found another hottie to give is affection to. Well, I feel better getting all that out there.
Anyways, in your case. It's more likely then not if your positive that he knows who you are that he is not interested in you like you are interested in him.

2007-12-16 13:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0 0

Hun, just try to be his friend. Don't push things, or they'll rebound. If he's not ready for you, wait. Just smile and wave slightly the next time you see him - maybe give him a quick "hello" and then leave.

He might justs be nervous. =) If you try too hard to push him into you, you'll end up pushing him away. Keep things small and simple for now.

2007-12-16 13:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Themius 1 · 0 0

My advice is not to beat around the bush. Just call him, and say, look I like you. Is it possable we could get together?
If he says yes, think how happy you will be! If he says no, maybe you'll feel a little bad, but you won't waste your time. You can move on, and find someone else sooner.

2007-12-16 13:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by cwbyht 2 · 0 0

I say wait!!! but on monday dont go running up to him. just see if he comes to you and if he does just be like so what did you do this weekend. You dont want to seem to desperite so dont go runnin into school tomorow lookin for him. let him look for you k. if he doesnt come up to you or talk to you THen that would kinda suck but let him come to you. I mean if you run into him then say hi but dont go chasing him. unless he is the shy type. just feel things out. k

2007-12-16 13:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by bits 1 · 0 0

I'd let it go for now, but if in a week nothing happens ask him to just hang out sometime and see how that goes

2007-12-16 13:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Chelsea R 1 · 0 0

Invite him over for sugar cookies with christmas trees on them then I think it would be a good way to start a conversation about where your relationship is where it is going where you both think it should be this kind of thing.

2007-12-16 13:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by ohioguy4jc 4 · 0 0

that would make sence and if you guys talk for a while, like for 5 minutes, just randomly bring it up. but only if the conversation is goin good just say hey why didnt u txt me back the other nite with a jokin smile. it always works!!!
good luck!!!!

2007-12-16 13:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Zenaide 2 · 0 0

Most guys love to be chased so dont wait until monday call him back and let him know you like him.

2007-12-16 13:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by dark angel 5 · 0 1

one step at a time, dont worry about the text maybe he was busy and didnt get to send one back, wait on it

2007-12-16 13:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by justin k 3 · 0 0

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