women always moaning to me about "finding a nice guy"... blaa blaa bla... and its like, when they have one, they moan about him being too nice and dump him. god pleasee whats going on? i dont get it.
theres soo many nice guys about, and yet they go with all the pricks the world can offer, then moan more that they havent got a nice man.
anyone been in that situation or been a so called "victim" of it?
women please, make up your mind.
2007-12-16 05:42:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They usually want a bad boy for bed but marry the nice guy.
2007-12-16 05:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by flatfootfred 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because you've been burned a few times or turned down or constantly categorized as "just a friend" doesn't mean that no one wants you because you're a "nice guy." Ever thought there are just other parts about you that makes you unattractive/undesirable to the women you've wanted? Perhaps you're aiming too high.
It's only the losers who can't get a girl who whine about girls saying they want a nice guy but dont when one comes along.
2007-12-16 05:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by ftwizz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True, true, true! i'm not like that (i truly, genuinely want a nice guy, and i'm not at all attracted to bad boys), but i know many women who are...yes, sometimes listening to such girls and then watching their completely opposite actions can be a bit frustrating...i'd say that in many cases girls understand ''nice guy'' as ''boring guy'' and, though in their minds they want somebody who will be good&sweet to them, their hearts are craving for the rush of excitement from being with a so-called ''bad boy''. that's what i'd say it's about...the duality between their logic and emotions...so, so many women today are pining for a bad boy to spice up their lives, and sometimes this overrules all logic.
2007-12-16 05:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sylvia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human are confused by nature ( specially young women) they don't know what they want, so the best thing to do is be a little mysterious which means be good but always keep your bad side with you just to keep things interesting!
2007-12-16 05:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we want a nice guy, but a lot of them are too clingy, and we dont want that. but all the pricks in the world are all lovey dovey, but then dont want to be around you that much. we like it at the beginning, but then we feel hurt. what i think we should do is go for the nice guy, but tell him not to be too clingy
2007-12-16 05:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to understand ,they don't know the answer themselves.
be what do you want and the girl must suit you
you are the leader and the price to win always.
never be in her frame or seek her approval,they have no logic,be illogical is the key and think always how you think about them more than how they think about you
it works,trust me
2007-12-16 05:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i know wat u mean but the thing is they want a nice guy but not too nice if u know what i mean. nice guy are usually shy, too polite n too scare to take crontrol n they agree at everything the girl want them to do.
you can a be nice guy but u have to take the lead cause thats what the guy who you call prick do. they confident, they take crontrol n they not scared to try whatever they want to do n thats what girls want. they act like they dnt but the do. at least most of them.
2007-12-16 05:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by marcosddx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the women you desrcibe as gettting a nice guy and then he
is too nice and go with a jerk instead, are themselves jerks
or they would stay with the nice guy.
women who are like that are very low class.
2007-12-16 05:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of girls at my school are like that but i want a nice guy whose interested in the same things i am.....not some one whose gonna slap me around
2007-12-16 05:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by ~ME~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They cry this after a bad guy uses them and they need their esteem lifting!! They are masters of "man"ipulatuon...get used to it mate!
2007-12-16 05:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by john c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋