Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

I met a guy 2mths ago and we have been friends. There has been no sex between us, we both want to but we think it's not a good idea at the moment. I haven't been happy for a long time and now i feel like i could be falling for this guy. One of the biggest reason's why we haven't had sex is cos i'm married and also cos he respects me and believes sex is sacrid. We both agree that we met at the wrong time in our lives.I am 23 and he is 30. My life began at 14 when i met my partner and his has yet to begin. We both feel like we could never be 2gether but when we see each other it feels so right. I don't know what to do. Isn't it true we have just one life do i take a chance, or stay in unhappy marriage.

2007-12-12 01:53:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We're very serious, so my only option is to find a way get over it. I go to relationship counseling once a month for a variety of reasons, but I need something that I refer to a little more often specific to this topic. Any suggestions?

2007-12-12 01:48:14 · 23 answers · asked by AZES81 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and my guy has been together for 5 months but i've known him for 2 years. I recently broke up with him because I believed he was cheating. The reason I thought this was because we have broken up before and the next day he had a gf and they were walking down the street holding hands and what not. And I cryed my heart out. But about two weeks later we got back together but I never asked him about the other girl. But anyway I just feel like he didnt care about our relationship and he was loosing love for me so I ended it. But now i'm sitting here lonly and I miss him I wanna call him sooo bad so we can get back together but I want him to know he cant have his cake and eat it to. I want him to learn to appreciate me and i'm not his door mat. Its been 6 days since our brake up. should I just move on with my life or wait for him to come back to me?

2007-12-12 01:38:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-12 01:34:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So from a guys point of view, how do you like girls hair? wavy,braided,pony tail, loose curls, tight curls, straigh, half their hair in a pony tail, messy bun, bangs/nobangs, bangs puffed up in the front with a bobby pin or part of the hair in the back with a bobby pin? dumb i know but it's always nice to get some input!

2007-12-12 01:32:01 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica W 1 in Singles & Dating

do you want to like guys who control you?

2007-12-12 01:29:56 · 19 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

The whole time they dated and throughout their marriage, come to find out, hes cheated on every woman he has been with...his wife left, he was distraught, he seeked counciling, and swears he is "reformed" not only because of the therapy but he said he was so devasted when she left ...yahta yahta, u can see where im going with this...how do i trust him? Do you think a perpetually cheater CAN change?

2007-12-12 01:29:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently overheard a short conversation with my mom and dad. My mom is worried about my future well-being, because she believes that Im somewhat slow mentally, and not as keen and too naive. I am not sure what bases she is judging me on, but she seems to always predict that I'll be at my full wisdom in my late middle ages. But I believe that Im certainly not mentally disabled, even if I'm not the most reactive and proactive person ever.
I admit that we dont have as close of a relationship as many other moms and daughters because she is always busy. But we still love each other. My mom and dad's relationship isn't that good, and she said that she stayed because of me. She would praise me for how talented and bright I am, but now it seems to be all on the surface.
She has hinted at that in conversations about my ideal future husband, and she believes that I want to marry my bf (which she doesnt approve of). I just turned 20 and I believe she still treats me like a child

2007-12-12 01:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by pdonyin-0 2 in Family

you like shy boys or not?

2007-12-12 01:25:02 · 15 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to "sexually" surprise my husband as soon as he comes in the door from work today. I am not sure how or what to do though. Should I wear something? Should I be naked? Should I be in the bedroom, kitchen? How should I stand or sit or lay? I have had a low sex drive for a long time, and today for some reason I am really wanting to have sex and make love. Please give me suggestions on what to do to make his day! Thank you!

2007-12-12 01:23:35 · 20 answers · asked by 100% Taken 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a family that seems to never call me until there is a holiday or an event that has me spending money. I got no call for Easter Thanksgiving or New Years. But the call came in when it was time for Graduation and Christmas. There is only one sister who remembers my Birthday. I am not going to there little party this year how should I tell them. Or do I just not send them any thing at all. You see I don't care any more.

2007-12-12 01:20:13 · 4 answers · asked by alrac042 3 in Family

My husband and I watch porn together sometimes. He knows that I enjoy it as much as he does. We even pick movies out together. But, then sometims I find movies that we didn't buy together hidden somewhere in the house where he didn't want me to find it. I don't care that he bought it without me and I don't care if he wants to watch it alone. I just don't like that he lied about it. And he looks at stuff on the computer and then clicks off of it really quick when I'm coming. He knows that I don't care if he looks at it, because I do it too. Last night, he told me that he was going to bed early and went to our room. I stayed downstairs. 15 mins later I noticed that our bedroom light was on. So, I went up there. He heard me coming and changed the channel but I opened the DVD player and found porn. I told him that I'm not mad, I just wish he wouldn't lie to me. It's not like he's watching anything weird like animals. It's the same stuff we watch together. But he lies about it. Why?

2007-12-12 01:16:52 · 33 answers · asked by Deedee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies responses welcome.

If you are a lady with a tatoo on the small of your back, your feedback here is welcome. We are interested to hear your story.

2007-12-12 01:16:27 · 18 answers · asked by John S. 5 in Singles & Dating

My daughter had three bridesmaids. Her sister is the maid of honor, her cousin (they have been close in the past) and a friend. Anyone that has read my previous posts knows that the groom will be arriving the day of the wedding (USAF). Brides cousin and friend have not been very active in helping with the wedding. Although my daughter pretty much let the girls pick out the dresses they would wear, the cousin ordered it a little small, then had to have it altered. Then we had a seating issue and the cousin wanted to sit in a certain place, now the cousin has informed my daughter she will not be at rehersal because her boyfriend can't get there in time. My daughter is getting a little frustrated, and is worried that the ceremony is going to be chaos. Oh ya, the cousin and friend also arrived 1 1/2 hours late to her bridal shower last weekend, no excuse was given. Is my daughter being oversensitive or should I sit down and talk to the cousin and friend before this gets out of control?

2007-12-12 01:13:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When do you know youre falling in love with someone and how long/how many dates do you need to know if its going to happen? What is the cut off point!? lol

2007-12-12 01:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by jonesyfoul 1 in Singles & Dating

I should be thankful for my healthy family, but all I can think of is the problems ahead, like no insurance. I have been putting up a good cover, but I'm so sad. I'm 'tired' of acting happy.

2007-12-12 01:07:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is a hypothetical question where you can have only one or the other. Which is more important to you? Is it having true love in your life or having youthful beauty?

2007-12-12 01:07:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 01:03:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21, my mom says we should wait until im atleast 24, but we have a child together and though we fight (as everyone does) we love each other completely. We have been together for almost 3 years now, and my mom wants us to wait 3 more (just so we know for sure she says) answers anyone?

2007-12-12 00:51:52 · 35 answers · asked by stargazergirl215 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and I love him with all my heart but when it comes to sex.. it's not so good. For some reason he cums extremely fast and I mean REALLY fast. Like the other day he litterally lasted MAYBE 20 seconds!! It was horrible!! And I don't know what to do!! Sometimes I get so upset and cry. Does anybody know what is wrong with him or what we can do to fix it??

2007-12-12 00:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have temporary full custody, my ex only has "SUpervised visits"


I'm not required to tell him anything about the kid's right since i have full custody right?

Like his doctor stuff and about his report cards etc? I know if you have joint custody you have to send this stuff but not sure about this.

2007-12-12 00:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 00:45:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My children are 3 and 5 and Uncial BO Bo has been in there lives before they where born. He is their god father and they got him a Christmas gift and are asking me and there nana (my mother) IS UNCAL Bo Bo COMING FOR Christmas?

What do I tell them?

2007-12-12 00:43:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 00:43:16 · 13 answers · asked by specsbaby1 1 in Singles & Dating

She is very good person,beautiful and love me!!!!
I m very happy!!!!Very,very happy. :)

2007-12-12 00:42:16 · 14 answers · asked by V385 3 in Family

I live with my boyfriend and I'm having trouble picking out a gift for him. He's very creative with music and an artist but he already has his PS3, Ipod, Triton keyboard, even a new car bought last month. I want to get him something from the heart and not another electronic gadget. Men, what would you like to get from your girl that would mean something to you? Ladies, what did you give your guy that melted his heart?

2007-12-12 00:41:58 · 8 answers · asked by GirlsDeadMonster 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 00:34:41 · 32 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 00:34:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend didnt want to have sex with me last night even though i tried,i feel like when i want sex he doesnt want it but when he wants it i comply,i thought he did as he told me to take my panties off then he was saying how he was too tired,should i not have sex with him tonight or will he think i'm sulking about it?

2007-12-12 00:31:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol i don't know when ever there is a question such as why do men look at other girls,i would be like not all men,or will every guy cheat on me,no they wont....i like to be positive as it gives me hope...saying that i do have a bf so am building my trust issues,they are so much better now,i always use to get hurt but the best thing to do is be positive and not think every guy is the same.even if i do get hurt,well atleast i can say i was the one who trusted...anyway if a person gets hurt then it happens and you cant do anything about it....yeah cry and move on and be positive till you find a better partner....guess am giving advice lol

2007-12-12 00:30:58 · 22 answers · asked by london-fem 3 in Singles & Dating