Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

2007-12-12 22:29:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean we only know each other 2 dates.

2007-12-12 22:20:48 · 33 answers · asked by Janie J 3 in Singles & Dating

shall i stay home ;and chill .or brave the weather .

2007-12-12 22:18:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1. if you call a guy and he is willing to talk on the phoen for hours at a time.
2. he actually says " i love you"
3. you contact him daily, but he only contacts you once a week or something.
4. he wacks off on his web cam for you
5. he makes you little videos and emails them or emails you pictures of himsefl.

2007-12-12 22:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have adhd can some one please talk?
ever since i was a little boy

i never felt loved since as far back as i can remember never dont no y but to this day nothing as changed
i had a dad never there always away as he was a wagon driver and when he did come home i was usualy in bed,

even at the age of twelve i had to sit in bed while looking out the window watching friends play ,and even that wasent good anoth as i was told to get into bed you got school in morning
this was said by my mum who was down stairs with dad or some other bloke who had stayed is this normal ,go to bed and you can have day of school if ya dont tell ya dad

it dident feel right and as i got older this gets worse i just expect all women to be like this

its like someone as printed it in my head out loud "DO NOT LEAVE WOMEN HOME ALONE "because you can bet your last dollar there ******* about

then as time goes on you grow up a bit more get a girl friend some 1 you love but caint trust cause after all if you caint trust your own mum who can ya trust

its like i been shut in bedroom so dont have many friends so at school always my myself so i dont mix very well with other people never quit fit in with anyone properly then i met tina thought she was great but never dare to leave here side due to my past and lord behold she does goes with m8 when im in prison for somthing she did ,"NICE ONE" this really sent me of the rails

went homeless for awhile about 1 year living on the streets caim back met tracy things was ok for a while herre we go again she goes of with stig here x for night

well this is really proving a point

so i go single for a while, then what was i thinking i get talking to tracys sister 1 thing leads to another 12 years later too kids i never wanted as i new i had problems
i always said dont want kids but no i was robbed of my life by sue she said she was on the pill ,any way i stand by here get
good job where on the up ,exept here sister tracy lives next door this waS A LIVING HELL OHHH by the way she lives with my yonger brother james but it aint that bad ever day i come home to ever tracy in house or james laughing joking with my girl

is this normal or just me paronoid ,**** nose but by head shour felt like it was going to pop ether tracy would talk to me to piss sue of or james would be with sue to get to me but i thought **** this its just me

but it got the better of me to the point i just wanted to work drink take drugs always thinking they doing it to split us up because i new tracy still loved me and james had a soft spot for sue ,this went on for about 1 year i caint take this anymore

my head is ****** no real friends no stable home always walking round in a daze feeling like killing myself then christmas comes go out for drink to come back and get told sue and james were kissing at top of stairs in my other brothers house so now what does my head think this must of been going on ages but no they insist it was just a kiss well you keep ya kisses

at this point i left only to think right payback
so i get of with tracy not cause i like her just to get in here head like she had mine
3 weeks will do i was the nicest i could be to here and i new she loved me with all her hart then "POW i walk just to hurt here like she did me what sort of person am i full of hate twisted dont trust no one any more and prob never again so of i go again

move in to my yonger brothers things are ok for about six month single then i start getting feelings for fiona nice lady funny working but abit crazy and anyway a few month go by we talk every night things seem ok taking it slow

whats the problem with this nothing exept me with past thoughts and fiona been sams mum ,um who is sam you think well let me tell you its my yonger brothers girl friend and now im dating here mum for **** sake is this normal answer ,NO

but it felt right we were ok together for a while then i new i loved here and lord help me out pop the demonds no trust always on at her were you been who with caint contr5ol my thoughts in my head

there is no trust in me nowhere if she leaves my side im like a mental bull bad thought after thought running like a steam train no stopping to the point i am now crazy all these uncontrolled thoughts just run away with me and if i tell the truth i now realise i am far from normal fiona nows all my past and tryed to stand by me but at the price of love as now im that paronoid if she walks dog 2 long i think she up to no good i try and try to find the trust but it aint here i now feel it been stolen from me my my family and caint go on living in this shitty world

i caint work i caint let fiona go to work all because i crack up this is so unfair we have tryed for care allowance but been turned down so now we live in our house fionas dauter prob thinks im a total bastard and ever row takes here mums side "caint really blame her for that" but i do i got fiona 2 kids bills no money caint aford to live really so what do i do i have asked fiona to move out as i really want better for her and me i dont want to live feeling she was my carer and it as taken about 1 month of rowing to get her to go not cause i hate here because i love her but no i am not right what woman shoulkd have to live with somone like me sit in a bedroom with me no money no food caint aford to put fire on no presents for christmas

what sort of monster would i be if i had let here stay

its been i night now im hart broke and miss her so much what do i do?? ,i no money, home alone,no family where do i go from hear for the last six hours i have been crying i loved her so much but had to push her away would it really be too selfish of me to end my life

what would my kids think of me family fiona

i really dont want to go on any more but dont have the strength do take my life

2007-12-12 22:02:20 · 3 answers · asked by nocduk1 1 in Family

my husband and hes brother wear girls clothes i love it coz he looks better than me
hes brother wears them in public but my husband doesnt but he wants to

should he i would love him too he looks really sexi in them

2007-12-12 22:00:02 · 20 answers · asked by SARAH 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I work at the same place, a small cafe that we run.. I usually work nights and he days. Yesterday I had occasion to work day shift with him. He had mentioned to me that he thought our dishwasher had graduated from Marshwood High school (where I graduated). I asked her about it and she said he was just pulling my leg. Our prep cook said "yeah, he says that to me all the time. Whenever anyone does anything really stupid he says they must have graduated from Marshwood"..... I am the only person my husband knows who went to that shcool and I feel that I am being the butt of his jokes behind my back when he is at work. Would anyone else feel offended by this or am I ,as he says, too sensitive? Any advice on how to handle this?

2007-12-12 21:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Delanne 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it weird to be really good friends with your partners ex from 5 years ago when they were 19 and to want them as your bridesmaid?

2007-12-12 21:59:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a crush on my teacher and we r going out i am 17 yo we have a dance/prom comming up and 1 of my friend saw me and him in the car together wat do i do she is out to tell the whole school so my life is fu*ked please help me stop her

2007-12-12 21:54:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

feel old and fat and stil got my cold.

2007-12-12 21:51:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Especially when a woman is under going monthly period. Pliz explain am in darkness

2007-12-12 21:49:45 · 16 answers · asked by felloh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I told him that I thought his dad was hot, now he wont talk to me. The worst part is, he's my cousin and I have to spend the holidays around him. What can I do?

2007-12-12 21:49:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do the use an hamer and nails or a saw and what do they make it of.

2007-12-12 21:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by wuz 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

just do it.it will make them happy.these days, i keep looking "friends".i find it is really classic.it makes me realize how much my friends mean to me.they give me so much.when i got the offer of college, when i lost my first love,they were here.we care about each other,share everything which happened in our lives, good or bad.because of them, my life gets better and better.

2007-12-12 21:40:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

feel iam being cheated on but dont know how to get him to trip up and say that he is

2007-12-12 21:34:17 · 15 answers · asked by valerie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i have been together for almost 3 years (3 yrs in feb). he's 29-no kids, never married. i'm 28 w/3 little girls (ages 8,6,and 5) that i have part-time. we talked about getting married and living together about a year and a half ago. just last week he asked me to move in with him when my lease is up at my apt at end of Feb. I'm SO excited. over the past few months my kids have been spending the nite at his house to get us all used to living like a family and my cat moved in with him too.

i told him a long time ago that one of my conditions to moving in together was we had to be engaged first (i didnt want to send my kids the wrong message) and he agreed.

christmas is right around the corner and he hasn't asked me what i want yet (which he normally does long before now). do you think my ring is coming?!! my birthday is in Feb to so it might be then...

my basic question is do you think he will obey my wishes and propose before i move in w/him?!!!

2007-12-12 21:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

sexual attraction, or romance????

is it about getting attracted to someone or caring about them

2007-12-12 21:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

2007-12-12 21:10:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know alot of you will be thinking this is none of my concern, but i was just wondering what you thought about the whole thing.
A friend of mine who just moved in down the block told me she wants to have a baby, but she feels a bit guilty about it.. Shes been living with her boyfriend for 3 years, and hes got a pretty good job, but they just bought a kinda expensive house, and says they always seem to be living paycheck to paycheck, but thinks that would change if they were having a baby. she said her boyfriend is pretty bad with money sometimes, and goes out to eat alot and tends to buy things they dont need, but she thinks if they were having a baby this would all change.. i think its odd for her to want a baby so badly when shes only 21. i said she should enjoy her freedom awhile..but shes got a point that alot of girls have babies younger than her and do alright. i had my son when i was 18 and were doing ok, but honestly he was not planed and we've had alot of help along the way.

2007-12-12 21:08:33 · 5 answers · asked by donny 2 in Friends

I'm a 13 year male old high school student and when my older 17 year old sister is not home I like to wear her cheerleader uniform.I don't see anything wrong with it,what's the big deal,some people might take it the wrong way,I'm not gay,no one is home at the time.I think it's really not fair that a guy can't wear what he wants to,there are too many rules in this country,who else thinks the same way?
My older sister is taller and bigger so I don't strech out her clothing,I don't want to wear women's clothing just my sisters,I don't wear her clean cheerleader uniform only her dirty ones,she looks like a miss teen usa,I don't see what the big deal is,no one is home when I'm wearing it.

2007-12-12 21:04:03 · 31 answers · asked by enigma 2 in Singles & Dating

the pics were taken when they were about 2 they were naked on the carpet when i was changing them

2007-12-12 21:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were actually three bestfriends then two of them had a very huge fight, and i'm caught in the middle of it, in the morning, my bestfriend talk to me about her feelings, on how she really hate my other bestfriend, and doesn't want to talk to her anymore, while my other bestfriend talk to me in the afternoon on how she really hate my other bestfriend (the one i talk to in the morning) and wish she was not her bestfriend... now i have to choose....who will be my bestfriend, who will i leave (and hurt, disappoint), how can i choose the right decidion without hurting another person???

2007-12-12 20:56:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex boyfriend and I split after I looked at his ex girlfreinds mypsace profile and she claimed they were back together. She had all these pictures and plans about their life together. I should have just asked him, but I flipped out. He dumped me claiming that his ex probably just did that to spite me and that he doesn't even talk to her. Now, 3 months later, the pictures are back up again. What is going on here? I know I shouldn't care, but I am wondering if I was lied to by my ex boyfriend? Are they back together? What other reason does a girl have to keep a picture of them kissing as her profile picture? To ward off another guy maybe?

2007-12-12 20:36:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I like this guy but we just met like 3 weeks ago. And we talk all the time but he doesnt know me that well yet. Hes coming to my friends on Saturday and I wanna tell him how much I like him but I'm scared he wont want to speak to me again. I dont want to loose him as a friend if he doesnt want to date. Theres a lot I need to tell him before I tell him I like him. Because I have trust issues and I hate liars and cheaters. And I'm bipolar. But I dont think he would mind any of that. I just dont know how to tell him. I'm very shy and hes kinda shy himself. Any advice?

2007-12-12 20:34:23 · 7 answers · asked by girlnamedmorgan 1 in Singles & Dating

Two Couple. One Story.
One girl asks for time with her boyfriend because she feels he is so distant physically and emotionally. She wants to be reminded how much he loves her everyday. She wants him to know that she wants to be part of her whole life. But it is too much for him.

Another girl asks for space from her boyfriend because she feels she needs time alone to find herself.
She wants him to give her time with her friends and family. She wants him to know that she still loves him. But it is not enough for him.

It is so simple yet so complicated. One person understands the other person’s partners feeling. It is so difficult when the person you love feels the contradiction of your emotion. Who makes the sacrifice?

2007-12-12 20:30:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy was in a relationship with a girl for 2 years. They were planning to get married. He met me 3 months after they decided to split. He dated me for 3 months. I think we had a great connection, but I had trouble believing he was over his ex. He dumped me and found a new girlfriend in a few weeks. Whats going on here? What is with guys that go from one relationship to the next? He is only 23 and seems anxious to get married (since his last 2 headed towards that....)

2007-12-12 20:29:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I decided to give my 3 bm's a framed picture of the 2 of us together and a necklace to wear at the wedding.

I have the picture frames... now I just need the necklaces...

My budget is about $10-15 per necklace. I'd like to find something contemporary but tastefull.
I am leaning towards a heart of butterfly, but am open to suggestions. I prefer silver.

Can you recommend any "thrifty" sites? Thanks

2007-12-12 20:26:36 · 8 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7 in Weddings

For example, if I've been negative my whole life, will marriage solve this and make me happy? I have also suffered from anger issues my whole life. But if I had children I know I would be so happy to see them every day.

2007-12-12 20:23:44 · 16 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so this is wierd its been a while but ima get to it! when i have sex i cant get off but if i masterbate or get oral i get off fine!!!
i dont think about it when i do it and its happened with the last 2 girlfriends! i dont know why! can anyone help me!
im not fat im in great shape and i can get off anyway but having sex my girlfriend gets off many times but me none??
............

2007-12-12 20:19:13 · 6 answers · asked by CaliBoy 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been posting here about him for many times. I dont care about the number of points. Sigh. ): I'm just very troubled.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071213003410AAHxpIg&r=w
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqFB.5bXb5stjECWgkqHoAnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071213000836AAKMfx5

And is he true:

~If he sends alot of love emails/smses to you, telling you not to leave him, and i will be in his heart, etc etc.
~He says he wants to marry me, when i become 21, and by the time he is 28. He claims that he has already planned for valentines day, christmas, when we have only known each other for 3 days. I've promised to be his girlfriend though.. He says he hopes for me to be his last one...

Thanks...

2007-12-12 20:06:08 · 8 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3 in Singles & Dating