Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

here's the situation.Im try my best to make a long story short.

Im 23 and my girl is 20.we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.we live 2gther She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother though that she considers her mother and her fam.The problem is that her family dont like me(long story behind that) and the house is over crowded.Its basically like almost anybody can walk in and stay there.
Here's the rundown of people who live there,godmother,3 sisters age 20,18 and 15 all got kids.one of the sister's babyfather lives there,a recovering crackhead who is the mother cousin and also her ex boyfriend stays there sometimes.
also her babyfather friend who got of jail even stayed there one nght.
There's more to the story than this but its too much to explain.She goes about once a month.I told her I didnt want her going there too often cuz her ex be there and his freinds be there too.What should I do

2007-12-12 16:31:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GUYS do you like girls with southern accents I am from Alabama and just curious if guys from other states think the accent is horrible or cute

2007-12-12 16:27:25 · 2 answers · asked by MaeLee 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my friend and I think he's a great guy, but I don't they should be getting married right now and now my friend wants me to choose if I want to be in the wedding or not

2007-12-12 16:27:17 · 35 answers · asked by Disney Ang 2 in Friends

why do the men around thirty five like older woman

2007-12-12 16:25:57 · 33 answers · asked by shirley s 1 in Singles & Dating

So, this guy and I have been dating for 5 months now exclusively. we hang out about 4 days a week, text or call daily, buy each other birthday presents etc and spend the night sometimes. we have already discussed that we are not seeing other people. I don't know if I'm just retarded or what?? But I have yet to hear the word girlfriend.....and it bothers me. I have met his family and I know that he talks about me to them. But he has never called me girlfriend to my face....I'm confused

2007-12-12 16:25:36 · 4 answers · asked by Heeheheehee 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i like this guy that said the only reason that he doesn't like me is because he thinks that i am annoying. but he doesn't know me very well. and then he acts like he likes me.
WHAT DO I DO??? because i like him a lot.
then there is this other guy that his friend asked me if i still like him and i said i don't know why and then his friend said for his personal interset(the guy that i used to likes interest)
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?????

2007-12-12 16:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by lindss<3 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF can be so great - he is very funny, smart, sexy.. He says I love you, can say sweet things - but he can be very subtlely manipulative and abusive. He makes comments that make me feel insecure -- he says we will break up, he wants to have sex with other people, if he worked out more he would leave me, etc. -- these are always told as jokes, always with a smile. I don't find any humor in any of that -- it has left me feeling constantly insecure. I hate the feeling and my behavior has become suspicious too. He is friendly with all of his exes; they have dinner, etc. I have never met any of them -- I like to share my feelings and thoughts honestly -- when I express concern (in a gentle way), he says I am insecure. He came on very strong at first and is a beautiful guy but I can't tell if my insecurity stems from him or from me -- I have never felt like this (insecure) in any other relationship.....but this is my longest.

2007-12-12 16:24:57 · 3 answers · asked by seeksadvice28 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom cheeted on my dad...and now shes making up alot of lied about my dad (saying that he hits her blaming scratches that she claims come from my dad) and i know right now my mom will do anything to take me and my brother away from my dad because he is a "dangerous man". i really dont want to be with my mom because she called me crazy saying i heard everything wrong when i heard everything she said to the police. she has turned my grandma and my aunt on her side...saying that my dad saw "visions" of my mom and the guy having relations..so now..my mom sent a restraining order..and she wants me and my brother to go live with her..and also wants one of the trucks my dad owns. i really dont want to be with her...im 17..i will be 18 in august..do i have any say in who i want to go with?? my brother is 11...will he??...does it matter if i dont like her and dont want to be with her??? someone please help...im miserable right now..they said if i refuse before the hearing...they will take me

2007-12-12 16:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there is this guy that is my friend but on like 4 different occasions when we were sleeping at the same house he has woken me up by rubbing my back or my hand and we end up fooling around. it always ends up him wanting me to give him head. i hate that this happens because he has a girlfriend but he comes on so strong and i cant say no because i do have feelings for him. its weird he doesnt say anything at all and when we are done he just goes to sleep and the next day acts like nothing happened. i feel horrible because he has a girlfriend but at the same time i am so confused. does he like me or am i just convenient

2007-12-12 16:20:08 · 5 answers · asked by freakydeeky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 16:19:32 · 18 answers · asked by jason_lockhart2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone that you now know would be "the one"

2007-12-12 16:15:55 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Aussie Jo ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been separated since last year and now living with my girlfriend, we are not married, because im not divorce yet. Will I get in some kind of trouble with the marital laws for having a girlfriend? Does my wife has any type of case against me? Am I going to jail? please help me. Thanks.

2007-12-12 16:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it weird that after breaking up with someone, it is hard to imagine having sex with anybody else? How long does that feeling remain?

2007-12-12 16:14:41 · 2 answers · asked by runofthemill 4 in Singles & Dating

A few days ago I was with my boyfriend and we were walking through the park at night. It was cold and snowing. Then he started talking about how we have been together for a long time and about when we first met. I just laughed when all of a sudden he grabbed my arm and when I turned around he was on one knee! I was confused. I was like what are you doing. Then he pulled out this tiny black box and when he opened it I saw the most beautiful ring. It just sparkled and shimmered. He said I can't see myslef in life with out you being right beside me. I love and no matter how many times I have to say it, I will say it again and again and again. I love you. Will you marry me. I froze! Then I did the most stupidest thing. I said look over there, then I threw a snowball in his face! I think that it is so sweet the way he cares and loves me. But marriage? I wouldn't mind marrying him, but marriage. I do love him alot, I mean come on we've had sex I don't know how many times. What should I do?

2007-12-12 16:12:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend shares 50/50 custody of his son with his ex wife. Now his ex wife is refusing to let his son visit on his appointed nights because their son began showing problems with his attitude at school and at home. She has decided that it's all of our fault because she thinks that her ex-husband style of child rearing isn't up to her expectations. We all wants what is best for this little boy but I believe that what she is doing isn't legal. She can't just up and decide when he is allowed to visit and when he is not - after a judge has ordered that 50% of my boyfriends son time be spent with us. What can we do?

2007-12-12 16:07:57 · 7 answers · asked by mudpuppie_80 4 in Marriage & Divorce

will you choose the same life, same people, places?
same goals which you had?
will you be as what you are now?

2007-12-12 16:04:23 · 6 answers · asked by Taha* 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the honesty of a five year old child. I can't help myself. I don't do it on purpose, but I don't know how to lie. I only know to not say anything.

2007-12-12 16:01:35 · 21 answers · asked by rockcrazy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. when is it okay to date again? I want a date range...not someone saying when I'm ready...cuz i kinda might be ready....but need advice...

2007-12-12 15:59:18 · 9 answers · asked by austin t 1 in Family

take him back, and asked me to marry him, He promised things would be different this time.
It's really hard to trust him since he cheated on me so many times in the past, but, I promised myself that the only way this could work out, is to trust him again. today he was in the shower and he left his phone on the bed, I had the chance to go through it, but I didn't. Actually, I wasn't even curious to know. However I was curious to know if our relationship really was getting more serious and i waited untill he was in front of me and started to look through his phone just to see his reaction, and he imediatley snatched the phone from me and started going off on me, telling me that is was his phone and i had no right to go through it, that i need to respect his things and that since he doesn't go throught my phone i shouldn't go through his. His reation made me wonder, If he really has changed, why would he mind if i looked through his phone in front of him?

2007-12-12 15:56:02 · 12 answers · asked by lisame 1 in Singles & Dating

were you ever or are you attracted to her as more than a friend? idk..it kinda seems like the guys i'm friends with like me as more than a friend?

2007-12-12 15:50:32 · 21 answers · asked by oohOSU14 3 in Friends

ok, i been seeing this girl for a while now, im 19 bout to turn 20 and she is 20, she comes ova muh place alot to chill with me. we cuddle and stuff. i was wondering, how can you tell if a girl is in the mood for sex? are there body language or body signals a girl gives off to let a guy know its okay to make a move? and im not a virgin, i just really like this girl and i dont ant to freak her out or anything.

2007-12-12 15:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by bacdafuxup 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 15:48:25 · 3 answers · asked by Thomas S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i woke up 1 morning and my mom was in my room dancing to fergalicious. so at night i started locking my door so she wuldnt come in. then she started thinking that i was depressed and that i was going to hurt myself. so my frends came over and we were talking and they started sayin that i dressed emo and that i shuld dye my hair and stuff. so my mom went and looked up emo and she thinks im gonna cut myself now. nothing i say to her will make her change her mind. and i told her even if i was emo that doesnt mean i wuld cut myself. i stopped locking my door but she still thinks im depressed. i dont know what to do

2007-12-12 15:47:59 · 15 answers · asked by Holly Golightly 7 in Family

If u r a guy and has a female good friend, what are the things that she does make you feel that she feel for you. And how will u react?

2007-12-12 15:46:28 · 5 answers · asked by JJ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-12 15:45:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know a handful of guys this girls hooked up with. now shes talkin to me and i mean shes probably been with 10 guys but shes only 16. so idk. my friend hooked up with her about a month ago and now has all this acne on his face, my friend said it was herpes but i dont think it shows after a month. id wrap it up regardless but i just wanted a different take

2007-12-12 15:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What zodiac sign works well with a virgo?

2007-12-12 15:43:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im wit a girl been wit her for 2 years
i cant say im the best b/f but i good iwas really bad to her in high school. but now that i graduate i mature alot.

this is of an example of what happens.
lets say today i do something wrong, ok she notice but then we have like the best month ever. like i feel evrything is goin smooth but then a month later she tells me and complains to me and acts up and then tries to brake up

dont u think that is childish and stupid?

like evrything is kwel now but i dont like it she done a couple times now

2007-12-12 15:41:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had filed for divorce three months ago but have since then attempted to work out some of our marital issues unsuccessfully. Primarily due to blending issues. She did agree to move if I bought her a car in which I did eagerly. She changed her mind though days after I made the purchase. I have three children who live two states away, and I need to be closer to them and my wife wants no part of it. She hates my children. her words not mine. We have a one year old daughter that between us. My wife now works full time and I work out of the house so I am able to be at home with my daughter. I have filed for physical custody of my daughter can I leave the state to be closer to my other children. Also my wife is not a citizen, she does have a green card though. Not sure if that has any bearing. I would like to leave this situation with my daughter but I want to do this legally.

2007-12-12 15:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by simon b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

SHOULD I ASK MY CRUSH TO THE CRHISTMAS DANCE? DUDES WOULD YOU LIKE FOR A GIRL TO ASK YALL. WOULD YOU EVEN GO EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE TO DRESS FORMAL.

2007-12-12 15:39:46 · 22 answers · asked by *♥♥♥gigglez♥♥♥* 1 in Singles & Dating