Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

lately ive been feelin so irritated and frustrated. im taking it all out on my bf. we had the best day today.. he treated me to a massage and dinner. and now im being a ***** bassically. what the crap is wrong with me.. help me.. its really startin to get serious.. help. what could it be? and its not only him im taking it out on.

2007-12-12 17:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by Maria D 3 in Singles & Dating

this evening GULP ihave said we can have back door love
never done it before and want to ask does it hurt what is it like and what should i use to make it easyier on me

this is a real question
so real answers please

2007-12-12 17:04:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Friends! Help! A guinea pig tricked me!"

2007-12-12 17:03:45 · 6 answers · asked by refuse2lose_2006 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy asked me to homecoming this year, and he's great, funny, sweet, etc. but I'm not interested!!

He made a huge deal about homecoming too.. at one of our all highschool assemblies, he got up there and serenaded to me on the piano and then pulled out a bunch of roses and asked me in front of everyone!!!!

But i felt SO bad because I couldnt make it to the dance!!!

Anyways. It's still been really awkward between us because I can tell he still likes me. But I wouldnt mind if he was one of the more outgoing and easy to talk to kind, but he's really shy, and it's just always always awkward.

What's a good way to show that I'm not interested? Because I dont want to be rude to him or anything by cutting him off harshly.. But I dont want to lead him on or anything, just in case he has plans for asking me to something else.
Plus, our highschool has like 300 kids, so everyone knows everyone else, and I dont want to seem like a ***** to someone so sweet!

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2007-12-12 17:03:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wonder to know all opinions and examples. Thank you

2007-12-12 17:02:25 · 48 answers · asked by snowdrop 4 in Marriage & Divorce

"Ugh, it's like there's a party in my mouth and everyone's throwing up."

2007-12-12 17:02:17 · 15 answers · asked by refuse2lose_2006 3 in Singles & Dating

was this married woman in the wrong doing what she did knowing in time it would come out on her .where.s she.s was married with kid.s and in her.40.s cheating on her man who i well couldnt stand as well nither could my buddie either. having sex in her home with me and always calling to let us know when to come up to her house when he. was gone or was leaving . and doing it in her . and his bed. i as well my buddie both did her. she wasnt really that good but at.19. and nothing else to do why not. after all is was better than nothing even those streach marks on her was sicking. but didnt she know better than that knowing we both would do her. and later on make fun of her isnt she at that age sicking no matter how she ended up it was her fault not mine. or my buddie. she was nothing but trash . sicking. and wouldnt you say a who. as well it.was her idea to do it not ours she was .w.va trash in both of our eyes . from the start. always comming on to me so isnt it her fault he divorced her

2007-12-12 16:59:55 · 15 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The other night I had this really enjoyable dream as in sexual but instead of having sex with my bf I was having sex with his best mate while he and a lot of others were watching. We were kinda on this stage and all the other people were just ignoring it like it was normal practice there but my bf looked a little upset. Anyways afterward I remember still fancying the guy I had sex with (bf mate) but going back to my bf and hugging him and him saying that everything was Ok and we were all friends again. Does this mean anything?

2007-12-12 16:56:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wounder can he fire me?

2007-12-12 16:54:50 · 7 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 16:53:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and have my first boyfriend who is 16. We've been going out for two months, and about a week ago we had our first kiss, then like three days ago we went to "second base"- him feeling me up and me feeling him down...

I really liked it and didn't mind him touching me at all and thought touching him was mighty fun as well, but afterwards I felt a bit bad about touching him.
He was my first kiss and such so this is the farthest I've ever been with someone... I don't really know how far to go and how fast.
Well- that's pretty much as far as I really wanted to go for a long while, so in my mind it's like we already had sex and can't go any farther. haha I've reached my limits

So, I'm just wondering- as far as your relationships have gone- is this a decent speed to be moving (taking into account our age and 2 months of being an "item")?

I know that everybody's different, but I can't help but be curious to compare with others.

2007-12-12 16:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by tiediemonkey 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 16:49:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf and I of 3 years just broke up. For a a while I havent been as attracted to her as I once was and it was clear our relationship was spiraling. We are also going in two opposite directions. I feel like breaking up was the only right thing to do but I also feel intensly sad about not having her in my everyday life anymore. Is this normal. I love her but I dont want to be with her anyway. What does this mean, should I not have broke it off?

2007-12-12 16:48:44 · 1 answers · asked by Orion B 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you consider chating with a women on the internet cheating. With or without have a sexual conversation.

2007-12-12 16:46:40 · 23 answers · asked by Tim B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and I we're doing it last night and he asked me if he could insert my butt. I don't want to do this. but he keeps telling me I have to.. how can i get him to stop asking me about the back door. or should i just give in.

2007-12-12 16:45:24 · 24 answers · asked by judith a. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I'm 18 ,Ive never been kissed, Still avirgin And the last guy that i actualy went out with was when i was 13.

To get to the point..... There is a guy that i work with that i like and i think he likes me too but he is 21 And has alot of xperience ( if you know what i mean) So what should i do ???????????


I mean if he asks me out should i say yes or no

2007-12-12 16:42:40 · 3 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 16:41:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy, who I swear was nice to me and all, always waiving when I drive past him, asking me how I am doing, and find ways to get close to me pretending to do something else. So I started responding back, smiling back, saying hi to him, asking him if he wanted to work out with me. I find out that ever since I've been doing that he's been going around talking crap about me yet still continues to be around me all the time! What does this mean????????

2007-12-12 16:41:12 · 7 answers · asked by Behave 5 in Singles & Dating

she let me go cuz her work and school. shes also 16. but then the next day she told me how she made a big mistake and didnt want to let me go. she was just scared that i was gonna dump her and hurt her agian. like i did last time, and like her other ex did. but i wasnt. and she realized how much i loved her when it hit me hard when she dumped me.
but now the problem is she really wants me back and all.. but my bestfriend knows how much it hit me hard, and my brothers knows aswell. my bestfriend says go for it, if itll make u happy, but my bros like stay away from her cuz she'll hurt you again.

but i really doubt she will. and i dont plan on hurting her at all.
so what should i do?

2007-12-12 16:40:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend really likes this white guy and she's asian. She's worried he wouldnt be interested. how would she approach him even though they are in the same class but he sits on the opposite side from him?

2007-12-12 16:39:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when ever i talk to my friend eddie in the text he always says ha instead of lol whats the differnce between ha and lol. is it a laugh.

2007-12-12 16:39:09 · 28 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Friends

Sometimes we like someone, but they just don't have that special something. In your opinion, what makes a girl "girlfriend material"?

2007-12-12 16:39:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of them is in a relationship living with thier partner with two kids) and talking almost daily on the phone without seeing each other physicaly though

2007-12-12 16:38:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently learned from my boyfriend (dating for one month) that he cheated on his previous girlfriend. He was studying abroad for some time over the summer and had casual sex with someone he met there. He never told his ex and said, "she had it coming to her."

Both of us have just been going out in the traditional dating sense and haven't gone beyond kissing. It took me by surprise since we were friends first, and he'd always said in the beginning that he took relationships slowly.

In light of this new information, I do not want to pursue anything further with him. I feel bad since it will blind-side him. We get along great, sharing many interests, sense of humor, and academic goals, but in my heart I don't trust him.

If he did that to her with no remorse, he will do it me.

Any advise on how to end it?

2007-12-12 16:36:42 · 10 answers · asked by HallamFoe 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 16:36:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-12 16:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why can't I get a smart pretty girl?

2007-12-12 16:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy asked me out and i said no.
but i kind of liked him.
and then after school we were walking around and we saw him by the ymca
so my friends wanted to say hi to him.
but i didnt want to face him cuz i was mad about my choice so they went up there while i was talking to someone else.

and then i guess they were talking about me and he seemed really sad.

and then i realized it was his birthday today.

i feel horrible. and i have felt bad all day.

what should i do tomarrow?

2007-12-12 16:34:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife of 14 years and I have drifted a part from one another. Over the last two months I noticed a great distance and emotional separation from my wife. I suspected an affair. Last week, it was confirmed that my wife is having an affair with a married man. We have 4 children, very nice home, and financially stable. I have a great career of 24 years. My wife is a stay-at-home mom. I can't imagine leaving my children and home. Futhermore, I have a gut wrenching feeling that this man will live in my home and spend more time with my children than I, if my wife and I get a divorce.

I want to work on our marriage and rekindle the relationship. My wife recognizes that she has made a big misstake and has destroyed the trust in our marriage. My wife informed me that she is confused, in-love with another man, and needs time to sort things out. I've been waiting now since last week for my wife to recommit to our marriage. Today, she went away to visit a girl friend who I trust.

2007-12-12 16:33:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when you lock eye contact with a certain guy for a few seconds across the room? He and I always glance at each other and we both used to look away but now I find it hard to turn away and he seems to look at me longer also. I can sense when he is near, like I just have a feeling that I need to look in a certain direction and he happens to either appear at that moment or is already there. I get nervous and find it diffcult to talk when he is around. And I haven't felt that way since I was like 11! My face feels hot when he appears out of no where and I become more aware of the way I'm standing/breathing, etc.

He also talks louder when he notices I'm near and suddenly stands up straighter and looks directly at me and doesn't pay attention to anyone else

2007-12-12 16:33:36 · 24 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 1 in Singles & Dating