I'm 17 and have my first boyfriend who is 16. We've been going out for two months, and about a week ago we had our first kiss, then like three days ago we went to "second base"- him feeling me up and me feeling him down...
I really liked it and didn't mind him touching me at all and thought touching him was mighty fun as well, but afterwards I felt a bit bad about touching him.
He was my first kiss and such so this is the farthest I've ever been with someone... I don't really know how far to go and how fast.
Well- that's pretty much as far as I really wanted to go for a long while, so in my mind it's like we already had sex and can't go any farther. haha I've reached my limits
So, I'm just wondering- as far as your relationships have gone- is this a decent speed to be moving (taking into account our age and 2 months of being an "item")?
I know that everybody's different, but I can't help but be curious to compare with others.
2007-12-12 16:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by tiediemonkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he's only 16 and this is your first bf, then maybe you guys are excited about having one another. Everyone has a time for things. If it feels right for the both of you then it's okay. There are no 'rules' stating different from what you did.
Just remember to be safe AND that as soon as you turn 18, it'll be illegal.
Good luck!
2007-12-12 16:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me personally waiting over a month to kiss is something i wouldnt do. i say if you are both willing to move forward than its a good thing. just go with the flow. you are not moving too fast! i knew my bf for 3 months before we started dating waited 3 months to say "I love you" and 6 months to have sex. and having sex was totally planned! if he was your first kiss make sure you are totally positive if you decide to make him your FIRST! and you are right everyone is different,so basically if it feels right then it is!! and congrats on finding someone special
2007-12-12 16:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by miamichick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should do what you feel in your heart if you feel like your going to fast then slow down but you shouldn't listen to other people you need to do what you feel is right its your body.
2007-12-12 16:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's actually a bit slow, in my experience. Don't worry about it, go at your own pace.
2007-12-12 16:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋