Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

i had a relationship with this guy for 2years we broke up last week and he talk to me online the other day acting as if he wants to get back,he asked me to call him but with time we havent got the chance to talk.yesterday we talk on phone for 2mins when we he asked me to call him at night...my health wasnt good and i couldnt stay awake longer so he told me wil talk tommorrow morning!...He havent even sms me for asking how i am feeling, he came online just now for 3minutes and he was waiting for me to greet him, but i didnt! and he went offline..things are so strange in my relationship right nw that i dont know what to do...please advise me what to do next as i dont want to sound desperate to him that he feels like i am after him!

2007-12-12 18:22:39 · 16 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 18:19:07 · 8 answers · asked by KennyLew 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 18:16:47 · 28 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband just told me that I do not turn him on. I am heartbroken, he said I can make him hot if I do stuff to him...but he is not turned on by me. He said that three of his previous g/f have been able to so he does not know what it is. He says he has never been turned on by me. What does this mean? What should I do? I need reall help.

2007-12-12 18:16:26 · 22 answers · asked by girlygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Thus, This Shadow,
Bleeding out all thats hallow,
Will bring great laughter
As each drop falls faster...

As i'm holding this knife,
I'm thinking of you.
And all of the other things,
That came between us two.

Without thinking, I slowly curb my hand...
Gently, sliding off my right wrist band.
With an evil, crazy, uncontrollable, violen-movement,
I slowly cut my wrist with this sharp, rusty, contrapment.

I slowly cackle as I begin to grin,
And, evily, I say:

"Let this be the end of my sins.
My oh my, may my eye never cry,
Since the day you have told me your last good-bye.
Oh please, never try not to lie!
All it's going to do is just make me wish you were to die."

As I slowly stop cutting my wrist,
I think of all the times that we have kissed...

"Wow, am I inSANE?!
What made me think of causing this pain!
Was it love? Depression? Drugs? Death?
Or was it you... Me... and what we used to be?"

As I quickly drop the cutting utensil,
While the blood is spilling quicker,
I'm beginning to feel that my life is going to cancel...
Then all of a sudden, the lights give off a flicker...

"Gah, what am I thinking?
Is this love that my eyes have been blinking?
GRAAAAAAAAAAH! PLEASE!
STOP THIS LOVING TEASE!"

As I'm now lying,
Slowly dying,
I gradually call for help,
With one, big, dreadful yelp.

After that, I remember passing out.
And I remember hearing someone pout.

A few minutes later,
I awaken in an elevator.
I'm Tied to a hospital bed,
still cackling, full of dread...

The next day I find myself in a looney bin.
And under the door, I notice this letter...

It's from her.
The girl who caused this.
The girl who I shared my first kiss.
The girl who I gave pine-cones and a notebook to as a gift.
The girl who I think of every second since I met her.
The girl who I love.
The girl who I dream of.
The girl who I crave.
The girl who I tried my hardest to stay with.
The girl who I practicly fought for, but she did not know it.
She's that girl.

The note meant so much to me,
It's too private. I'd tell you but no, sorry.

After a week of re-reading the note over and over again,
Since it was the only thing that made me happy,
They released me from the looney-bin.
But, then again,
I find myself in the same exact position a few days later.

And something crossed my mind as I was doing the same exact thing...
See what love can bring?


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2007-12-12 18:15:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 18:14:43 · 14 answers · asked by LaLaLa 4 in Family

I'm currently in a realtionship with a great guy, and I've just recently met this other guy whos super nice and everything, but he keeps asking to get together and stuff but I don't know who to let him know I'm taken without him getting hurt. Help Please!

2007-12-12 18:12:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 2 and a half years is mad at me, and is not talking to me because today my therapist diagnosed me with anxiety disorder and depression. The reasons for these are that I was mentally abused as a teenager, and my father punched me face and threw me on the gound untill my brother and mother pulled him off. That happened twice when I was 16 (I am 18 now). I have had depression issuses since I was 13 years old. I have been going to my therapist since my dad hit me. My girlfriend was with me at this time and knows that all of this happened and worsened my depression. Because of my sleep issues my therapist suspected that I had anxiety disorder as well. He is now sending me to a psychiatrist who can perscribe me medicine to help with this. That is why my girlfriend is mad, because I am going to the psychiatrist. I need to go to help how I feel. My job, schooling, and life in general is all going down the drain. Why wont she support me when I need her the most?

2007-12-12 18:12:18 · 13 answers · asked by Maxwell 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 18:10:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean guys that are actually technically skilled and proficient on their instrument.

2007-12-12 18:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in May and my mom's kind of planning everything since she's paying for it so she's already ordered a bit of stuff for the reception but I was wondering
does anyone have any ideas for a Faerie (fairy) tale theme wedding?
by the way - the wedding will be outdoors

I'd love to hear all ideas for Faerie Tale theme decorations and etc. for the ceremony and/or reception...

and a + if it's DIY or kind of inexpensive...

Thanks ahead to all who answer and give ideas
also I may add some details to this later =)

2007-12-12 18:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by KJW 2 in Weddings

we went out to eat and everything, then when the bill came out, he looked at it and said he left his wallet at home, then the girl had to pay, then he goes home and has sex with her, and she gives him a ride whenever he needs it so he doesnt have to spend money on gas, and i hear from other girls he only calls when he needs homework help in college classes or a ride somewhere.

2007-12-12 18:00:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than 4 months. He is my first bf. I am in my 20's (i waited a long time to meet the right one).

I went to kiss him last night, he said that the guys should be the ones to make the move to kiss. I just cant stop kissing him - its all new and fun.

So what are everyones views on kissing. I do know at the begining of any relationship people kiss more than talking. The so called honeymoon phase.

2007-12-12 17:56:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I was thinking..what would be the right time to sleep with a guy?
there's alaways those thoughts in the back of your head, will he take me seriously after this? will this work out?

and I dont mean for a fling thing kinda relationship, but for someone you are really intrested in.

assumeing there's a guy i talk too(there isnt but just for the record) and im really into him. i want a serious relationship with him, and no games by any means. keep in mind im not a virgin, so I know what sex is, and I need( want, love, adore, etc..) it too! it goes both ways. execpt guys tend to think oh she's easy or some shyt like that.

so what would be the right time after starting to date?
I mean, heck! if you ask me i'll do it first day and ive done the before, and we stayed together for a while after that. fell inlove after. but yet, putting that aside? what are your thoughts about this kind of situation? have him wait? do it because im horny no less than him? other?


please share.

2007-12-12 17:56:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He and the the family is Hindu. She is American/Christian who is very open minded and needs tips on gifts to give to the family as well as any other helpful tips to make this visit a success. Her boyfriend sent pictures of her in Sari and they think that she is very pretty and want to meet her as soon as possible. His parents says their numbers are good for each other. She has spoke with the sister on numerous occasions who think she is nice and can't wait to meet her.
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2007-12-12 17:53:21 · 18 answers · asked by selena s 1 in Weddings

my boyfriend thought i was cheatin on him..which i was not!. So as a result he ended up getting a bl0w j0b by one of his male friends, so my boyfriend.... male friend boyfriend found out an got mad a sexually assaulted my boyfriend anally. he said he was high off of cocaine an weed an liqour when all that happend but he kept going back to the dude that gave him a bl0wj0b. i found out my boyfriend lookd at gay porn on the net...but he told me he was bi curious...then he tol me he thought he was in love wit tha guy an he is not gay anymore....SHOULD i BREAKUP WIT HIM??? i am so confused!

2007-12-12 17:51:57 · 34 answers · asked by Sexii ♥ Mamii 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend's boyfriend takes Crack and Coccaine.. Last week he took her phone making a call outside he disappeared came back hours later no phone.. He has been lying about where the phone is the whole time.. Yesterday he came to her house around 1am she caught him going through her hand bag.. She kicked him out and she gave him all his belongings the same time.. But now she is feeling bad for saying all the bad things to him last night, but she was upset.. Was she wrong? Can she phone him and apoogise or she should just let him go once and for all?

2007-12-12 17:51:55 · 19 answers · asked by kadhimba 1 in Singles & Dating

He prays all the time, i mean he'll kneel down in the street and cross himself. I dont think that prayer is a bad thing but is this a little excesive?

2007-12-12 17:49:46 · 31 answers · asked by Orion B 1 in Singles & Dating

hE THINKS WE ASHOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND WORKINT OUT, NONONO@

2007-12-12 17:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by want2flybye 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i been 4 yrs together me and my boyfriend and we had said that we were going to get married next year...last time we where talking and my boyfriend said what did i think of just moving in together and i told him i would i don't know about you when u feel you're ready...but i have a concern after that conversation we never said anything nomore but every time we talk about ...like i would like to buy a bed and he say's just wait until we have our own apartment....but i want to move out i live with my parents.. but my question is should i look for an apartment or what should i do... what i know is that he's not going to do it right away... he always thinks twice before doing something like we re not going to make it we don't have enough money... and im not scared we always could make it and work hard for what we have...should i just tell him that i been looking but i feel kind of weird cause im the girl and he's the men...i need help//// thanx,,,

2007-12-12 17:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Crystal A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 17:39:26 · 12 answers · asked by Elsa 1 in Singles & Dating

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date prior to marriage?
3 first marriage or ...........?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily divorced?

Please share your story and write as much as you like.

Thank you.

Fine Print: I will delete insults. I am sure you will understand. This is just a question.

2007-12-12 17:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the right thing to do?

My friend is inlove with a dance instructor. This guy also has a crush on her but too shy to say it, though he will do things that will make her notice him. But this friend of mine doesn't want to make the first move as to ask him out for a date.

Months pass but this guy is not making any concrete move at all--he is not asking her out--but deep down inside they know they like each other. He just look at her all the time.

She wants to avoid him by not attending his dance classes and see what he would do. Will he miss her or will he look for her. Is this the right thing to do to make him realize what is her worth? Or she just continue attending his classes and pretend that nothing is happening.

She is really confuse.

2007-12-12 17:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by ViaJ 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and i have sex..but i need sex like every night..no lie...sometimes when she is sleeping i masturbate and i feel bad...but she cant have sex with me every night. We normally have sex once or twice a week..if that...and i cant do that. She gets up early and goes to bed early so she cant satisfy me. Dont get me wrong when we do have sex it is amazing....and we have sex for hours but she is like a drug I cant get enough of her....AM I AN ADDICT?

2007-12-12 17:29:43 · 14 answers · asked by Kristina S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 17:25:54 · 14 answers · asked by rebelangel62681 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago. shes in a relationship and seems really happy. how can i get over her quickly and move on myself?

2007-12-12 17:23:12 · 19 answers · asked by fuckdaworld 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating almost two years and I don't know if he loves me. I've asked him a few times where our relationship is heading but he said he likes things the way they are right now. We are in our early 30s and we both have children from previous relationships. He said that he is committed and serious about me but he is still not ready to get married. I have told him that I don't want to marry him tomorrow or a year from now but want to know where we are heading. We have not exchanged "I love you" yet. He always tries to please me and make me happy. That is not enough for me and I want to know if he loves me without me asking him. A year into our relationship he said that he can see us together married in the future. I don't know what happened to that man anymore. I am giving up on trying to find out where our relationship is heading.

2007-12-12 17:20:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am still in love with my husband he doesnt love me anymore so what do I do now?

2007-12-12 17:18:16 · 0 answers · asked by onceafool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 17:17:25 · 19 answers · asked by neilystar 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wants me to tickle her because she said her last boyfriend would do it and she liked it, but I can't because that's something her last boyfriend did, it would feel weird doing something her last boyfriend did, is there any way to get over this?

2007-12-12 17:10:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating