2007-12-12 17:25:54 · 14 answers · asked by rebelangel62681 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the way he looks at you should be the first thing. You should get the automatic vibe of the way he loks at you. Then you should ask him what he wants or what he expects from you and what he sees in you guys going out. If hes worthy his answers wil be obvious. Then once you guys start going out, if he tries to touch you alot then you know what he wants.
2007-12-12 17:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well , not to be rude or distasteful towards you, and knowing young girls actions today! I would say if he knows about you from other people and he's acting on what he's may have been told,Well then he may be looking for sex ! If you have been sexually active with relationships!
And I'm not saying you have! I'm just trying to make a point to help anwer your question! Ok with that said! and I hope no hard feels! it wasn't meant too!
Ok, go ahead with the relationship with him if that's what you really want to do! But at no time let sex get into the relationship until you know 100% that he's what you want as a relationship and that you know for a fact you trust him and he's not just trying to play you for a roll it the sack!
Be strong and stick to your feels from your gut, not your heart, because men know every trick in the book to get into your heart to get what they want! The best way to start the relationship off with no room for sex ideas etc. is to never be really completely alone with him at any give long period of a time so sex can't even happen even if you wanted too!
Sex shouldn't be part of the relationship for at least 6 to 9 month down the road into the relationship anyway! Make him get to really know who you really are and you the same to him, Sex does not have to be a part of that! and shouldn't have to be either! The con little saying, if you love me you will, is the oldest trick in the book! And never fall for a guy that says he loves you so much after only a few weeks of dating you, He's after your precious goods! and he doesn't deserve them! Be strong and smart alert and you will handle the relationship just fine, if that's all he wants is sex! Be careful of smooth talking, 9 out of 10 it's a sex strap! If after a few days dating he becomes all arms, and lips, then you will know he's thinking sex instead of wanting to really get to know you!
I would say women would be a lot better off when dating is to let there new dating partner know right up front that there saving themselves sex wise for marriage, that will let you know what kind of guy your really dealing with! Once you tell them that and they lost interest of the relationship! well things never got to far then to be played or used! and it would make women a lot stronger during the relationship and won't have to put up with the smooth talking sex wanters and users!
2007-12-13 02:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he talks about it a lot, and if he keeps wanting to have sex with you all the time. Well I mean its normal for a guy to want sex, but its not normal when a guy just wants to use a girl for sex. You can probably just tell by talking to a guy, and the way he acts. Test him, by not giving him what he wants. Then If you know he is after that, leave him. He is not worth your time.
2007-12-13 01:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling and liking do not mean a thing besides you two like to be together......its only his or your actions together that decide what both or any one of you is expecting out of this relation donot be close with him for long on dates even and watch his actions ...getting too much physical would mean sex seeker and that too against or with your wishes and you know what to do then
2007-12-13 01:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by BigDK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. if you've known him awhile, you would know what he tends to be like. if he dates lots of girls, if he has had a girlfriend long term, etc.
you can ask him honestly what he's looking for right now - if he wants to date casually, get into a relationship, or if he wants to be single and get laid. JUST ASK.
or see how things go. hang out, enjoy spending time together. if he brings up sex a lot or seems to be too physical and groping, then you know what he is looking for - a hook up.
don't mindfuk it too much - if you want to know for sure, its really ok to be direct and ask. or to let him know what YOU are looking for at the moment, and hear what he thinks.
2007-12-13 01:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by lunaticxxcalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take sex off the table. Tell him your not ready. If he's interested he will wait a while. If he's not willing to see if your relationship grows without sex, he's not looking for a relationship. Trust me on this.
2007-12-13 01:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
..tell me which guy is not after sex..name me one!of course he is after sex but special attention given to you is what makes the difference..or when love is really true and he showers you with everything he owns..but all guys are after sex..we just don't go having relationship just to write letters to each other or to play tennis you know!
2007-12-13 01:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by lordmusan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. how does he look at you?
2. does he seem put off by conversations (big factor, sex crazed men cant stand convos)
3. does he act like he is genually interested in you
4. most important.... does he try to get alone with you
think about those questions if they make u doubt his attentions then confront him.
2007-12-13 01:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kirby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a dude, so I naturally know these things. Make him wait like a year or something. If he mentions it once he might just be lying scum. hope he's a nice guy for your sake, though.
2007-12-13 01:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make him wait like 2 months, if he brings the subject up more than once then hes thinking about it too much.
2007-12-13 01:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by jokervrs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋