My friend's boyfriend takes Crack and Coccaine.. Last week he took her phone making a call outside he disappeared came back hours later no phone.. He has been lying about where the phone is the whole time.. Yesterday he came to her house around 1am she caught him going through her hand bag.. She kicked him out and she gave him all his belongings the same time.. But now she is feeling bad for saying all the bad things to him last night, but she was upset.. Was she wrong? Can she phone him and apoogise or she should just let him go once and for all?
2007-12-12 17:51:55 · 19 answers · asked by kadhimba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's broken and it sure does hurt. But kicking him off her life is by far the wisest thing she'd done for herself. She doesn't need this kind of man in her life. He's nothing but trouble. I hope she'd give herself the respect her bf can't give her and won't take him back for good. Apologizing to him is plain silly, honestly.
2007-12-12 18:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by ••Tara•• 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't call to apologize because you didn't do anything wrong. This guy was snooping in your purse and he could have stolen something out of it. He was basically lying in the relationship. He isn't worth the time of day, so I feel 100% that you have to let him go. Any guy doing crack and cocaine is big trouble for you. There's a lot better guys out there. Don't get involved with anyone that is a heavy drinker and nobody involved in drugs. They could also get you mixed up into some big trouble, and you might lose more than the relationship was ever worth.
2007-12-12 17:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_susy59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go it can only end badly. drugs is just the beginning and it sounds like he has a habit and people will do anything for this sort of habit such as stealing and selling other peoples posessions.
dont let your friend feel bad she did the right thing, she needs to stay far away from him and that scene for her own good. you dont believe the consequences drugs have on your life even if your not the one taking them. get out now while you can and move on.
2007-12-12 17:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to dump him.
He is going to get worse not better.
He may end up hurting her before its over if he is allowed to stay.
Maybe she can convince him to get into rehab. For now she better keep a ball bat by the door in case he tries to force his way in. People on drugs of this type are unpredictable and can explode in a fit of anger when you don't help them get their drugs. Tell her if she has to use the ball bat to aim at his legs. That will take him down fast and not do any serious bodily harm. A hit to the head or torso CAN be fatal. We don't her to end up in jail.
I hope he gets help soon or he will end up dead at a very young age.
2007-12-12 17:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Frederich Flintstone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not wrong. Why would she want a crack-head like that anyway? Especially when it gets to the point of stealing from her and who knows who else..... Dump his sorry a$$, and not to mention, here's a question for her...who's he hanging out with (besides her?).
2007-12-12 17:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG. tell her to get out now. This type of habit and behaviour is crazy - and destructive. I answer this from personal experience of an identical situation. She shouldn't even consider contact this loser again.... trust me. There are guys out there worth trusting - but ya gotta ditch the trash to get to them. Tell her to move on. He will destroy her life, and her ability to trust.
2007-12-12 17:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Drews Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crack has a terrible effect on the brain and cocaine is one of if not the most addictive drug known to man , he needs help or else he will never stop these behaviours
2007-12-12 17:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's an *********......he deserves it...don't let her apologizes for something right...if he can't get anything from her anymore to be sold for coccaine..in the future he might even think of selling your friend for his thing..
2007-12-12 18:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all drugs are bad....therefor get away from him for doing them.....also my uncle got on the stuff and he is getting violent....so she might want to get away just in case it has a violent effect on him....no she wasnt wrong....and i really feel like she would b better off without him....
2007-12-12 17:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Mason B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taking drugs is bad enough let alone stealing from her. she should let him go once and for all.
she'll find someone else out there that will respect her more.
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2007-12-12 17:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋