i had a relationship with this guy for 2years we broke up last week and he talk to me online the other day acting as if he wants to get back,he asked me to call him but with time we havent got the chance to talk.yesterday we talk on phone for 2mins when we he asked me to call him at night...my health wasnt good and i couldnt stay awake longer so he told me wil talk tommorrow morning!...He havent even sms me for asking how i am feeling, he came online just now for 3minutes and he was waiting for me to greet him, but i didnt! and he went offline..things are so strange in my relationship right nw that i dont know what to do...please advise me what to do next as i dont want to sound desperate to him that he feels like i am after him!
2007-12-12 18:22:39 · 16 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we broke up because of a stupid thing,i was messing around with me telling him that he doesnt have money and asks me all the the time for it...and i suppose i hurt his ego by it ..i called him serveral times but when i used to call him he used to switch off his phone...and this week he contact me himself..one of my friend who works with him called me the other day telling me that your guy sounds and looks happy after talking to u..but i dont know i dont feel things are same
2007-12-12 18:35:31 · update #1
Give him a break..dn't jump into conclusions as "he dn't like me"..,maybe hes having his own reasons for mood swinging...
well,all this happens normally in all relations..nothing strange yaar..just take it cool otherwise u'll get irritated and ur relationship will take a bitter turn..
try talking to him..still if u feel him behaving awkward,let him go..dn't hold love tight..neither let it fly away..
take some time,talk him..this is what i would reccomend.And i fully understand u saying " as i dont want to sound desperate to him that he feels like i am after him!"....thats true,otherwise,he'll take u for granted.At the same time,dn't hesistate to show ur love,bcoz love never gives another chance..
be true to ur heart...everythng will end up fine..if u want to be with him,act so..
2007-12-12 18:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Nimmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm so sorry to hear you're in this predicament. I've been there before too, and as a guy, I can tell you, it's just as confusing for us as it is for you.
I'm not going to beat around the bush: it is very likely that in the end, you will not be with him. And I mean VERY likely. So you need to ask yourself, is this really worth it, to go through it all again? You may get back together with him, but I wouldn't put my money on it lasting another 2 years. At that point, I'd do my best to end it.
In the mean time though, just know, this pain, too, shall pass. I promise.
That, and pain is all an illusion, anyways!!!
(tool - parabola. give it a listen.)
2007-12-12 18:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by jbradshaw77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is that u don't do anything.
Second thing is that if he really loves u, he will call u very soon.
otherwise he is trying to break the relationship with u.
Don't take on mind that guys behaviour.
If he want break up, better way is u end the relationship.
2007-12-13 03:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-31 09:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear ....
Trust is first acid test of relations we have. u have been with him for 2 years u must have known each other well. Think properly what is ur ultimate object to relationship n can he fulfill that. If answer is yes go forward n try for pachup else part ways.
2007-12-14 01:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are both playing cat and mouse. Why would you not greet him online? You don't have to beg him to come back in order to be polite!!
2007-12-12 18:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but it seems like he is seeing someone else- I dont mean to be blunt- but if you do pursue him then hell think that you will always come back to him, so- play his game- Dont call him- Dont do anything- and youll see- hell come to you- with more attention than you ever thought possible.
2007-12-12 18:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understanding is not fair then you may say good bye. Faith, Care, Trust, Truth and Honesty are must in a life partner.
2007-12-12 20:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Honey786 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he may want to get back so just talk to him say hi act like everything is ok and good or if you want to get rid of him dont talk to him at all
2007-12-12 18:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by nacago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus be cool.. My case is almost the same.. but my girlfren has become to demanding.. She didnt allow me to talk wid other girls
2007-12-12 18:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by CrudeGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋