me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago. shes in a relationship and seems really happy. how can i get over her quickly and move on myself?
2007-12-12 17:23:12 · 19 answers · asked by fuckdaworld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no set time on how long it takes to get over someone , stop any contact with her ... go out with friends, make new friends ...start dating ... move forward
2007-12-12 17:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 04:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ramona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-12 17:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Negative Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well to get over your ex-girlfriend fast you need closure. In order to get closure you need her help. Chances are, if she's happy in another relationship she could care less whether you got your closure or not.
Your emotional scars will heal with time and I know right now it sucks. My advice is to consume your time with productive activities. Write, read a book, listen to music (uplifting music nothing too depressive). Hang around with friends and try to keep your mind on stuff other than her.
There is no fast way of relieving the pain and while some may tell you there is... it's only going to return shortly thereafter.
It's a memory, and you can't wipe that without causing brain damage.
Let time pass on by, and in the meantime, work on keeping yourself busy. G'luck bud.
2007-12-12 17:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by untamed_soul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Except it's a up to date ex and you have been significantly in love, i'd be suspicious of the reason for her attaining out abruptly. Usuall when ex girlfriends do this, they're feeling lonely or whatever else made them suppose insecure, so they attain back to the prior and any individual who used to be form or they suppose they are able to hook up with so as to increase their self esteem. If you want a booty call, or multiples, go for it. It can be doubtful that ex relationships may also be rekindled. In my experience, although it should final a brief period, you end up back where you had been, dealing with the equal issues. Try announcing no, and spot if she persists. If she strikes on, you had been undoubtedly a booty name simplest.
2016-08-06 11:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by shrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get over her quickly. When theres an emotional attatchment and it ends it takes time to heal. You don't want to rush it because you might supress it instead of actually getting over it. The best advise I can give is to take proactive steps. Start hanging out with friends, go on a few casual dates. Don't just into anything because it wouldn't be fair to you or the girl your going out with. Just start living your life and don't think about your ex. Just think about your friends, your life, and having fun again. Time will heal any wounds you may have, and time will also help you learn which should help you with future relationships. Take your time. There's no rush.
2007-12-12 17:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago too. I keep reminding myself that for whatever reason, we just didn't work out and I must accept that. I also feel like the sooner I get out of a relationship that wasn't working, the sooner I can get into one that is even more fantastic and wonderful. The girl that is meant for you may be waiting and if you keep dwelling on the past you will never get to your future.
Good luck.
2007-12-12 17:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are aware of the reasons of breakup and could not do or didnot do anything to rectifythem..... then why you have to think about her now ...knowing she is happy with what she has got now....let her enjoy her life and look for an alternative for yourself too...that at least you can do for a friend I am sure the parting wasnot onesided only
2007-12-12 17:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by BigDK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH my well i hear you and all i can say is it will take time and you can't get over her until you go your own way and meet other people. You will it will just take time but you need to stay away from her and forget about her. throw everything and you will be ok .
2007-12-12 17:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Liteyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT trying to come off as s smartass but get a new one or a "rebound" A.S.A.P. look at it this way, if you loose something that you're used to having...no matter what it is, what's the first thing you do next? replace it!!! good luck and hope you find a keeper!!
2007-12-12 17:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by "Tonk" 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋