Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

A long time ago I tried to impress a girl whom I met for a few days, but everything ended after i did something which made her loose complete faith in me. From time to time she would send me taunting silly emails reminding me of blunder, my replies were always cordial formal and as diplomatic as they could be. We ended up working for two firms in the same business which interact with each other on a regular basic, so unfortunately we meet from time to time at work related functions. .She met a handsome successful guy married him and send me a blank invitation card , introduced him to me at a function and enjoyed my discomfort tremendously.After her wedding the tone in her emails changed to joy and happiness and she wanted me to settle down too, but I've remained single as I'm concentrating on my career. Two years ago I stumbled upon the fact that both of us are born on the same day ,which blew my mind away Words cannot describe how I felt most of it pain and sadness ........

2007-12-12 00:30:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say you and your significant other get married and your both known for being a good looking couple in every aspect, but 2 years into the marriage your wife/husband starts letting themselves go (not caring about how he/she dresses or keeping up with regular grooming) while you on the other hand maintain your good looks. Is it shallow/vain to tell your partner that you no longer like the way their looking (but of course you still love them) and that you want them to start taking care of themselves?

2007-12-12 00:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hieveryone. im 12 in 8th grade gonna be 13 in december. anyways there's this girl who sits besdie me in class and whenever i talk to my other friends she tells me to shutup and i just say U SHUTUP and then she says no ur the one who should shutup. even when its not during class time she'd tell me to shutup AND I DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO HER!!!!!!!SHE JUST SEES ME TALKING WITH MY FRIENDS AND COMES AND SHUSHES ME UP!!!!!maybe u think im making a big deal of it but i wanna stop her b4 she does more stuff that would hurt my feleings....

BTW
-sometimes i think of ignoring her but that would just show how weak i am
-i help her with studying and HW's and she never says thank u and cheats a lot
- should i tell the teacher?
- if she ever shushes me up what should i say?? (without cusses)

THANX!!!!

2007-12-12 00:28:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife hates her job, her co-workers, her boss and her work sitsuation. She is a teacher. For the past 3 years our marriage seems less of a marriage and more like a counseling session and I feel as if I am drowning in her depression. We talk about it (me listening) from the time we get up, to her drive to work, our entire lunch hour and several other times during the day she will call me to tell me the latest horror story about parents or a fellow teacher etc. I am quickly getting to the point where I don't want to speak to her. She tells me that she is worried that she is drowning me in her sorrows and dragging me down...I started to tell her the other day that it was and she became upset saying that I don't support her and that she would me...but I too have problems but there isn't room for my stuff, I don't tell her this because she is too loaded with her own things. I'm a strong person but I'm feeling overwhelmed by her depression. I feel selfish for feeling this way.

help?

2007-12-12 00:27:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do about it? (And no I am not 14).

2007-12-12 00:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I haven't even been sperated for a year and he is already having a baby with another girl. That means that this child will be my daughters half sister. My husband is telling me that I need to get over it because there is nothing he can do about it now. It is almost like he is making it my problem. This girl already has 3 kids that she can't even take care of by 2 different guys. My husband and this girl can't buy anything for this baby. I am sorry but I have 2 daughters that he doesn't give me money for and I don't need to worry about another child. My question is,do I need to be nice to this child or do I just ignore it? Children are my main love in life but I feel like this is not my problem and I don't need to worry about it. Am I wrong? This child will be here in a month.

2007-12-12 00:24:11 · 17 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my routine and standard of living. when i get a job that requires my home phone as well as cell i put it but i have told her thousands of times not to answer the phone or to tell them i am not home to reach me on my cell. but no matter how many times i tell her she cannot let the phone just ring. she always comes to my room banging on the door and wakes me up. now i have to work nearly 12 hours because of this. how do i get her to understand? if i was living in my own home i would give the caller id one glance and either unplug it or roll over and go back to sleep. but once they ask u one the phone it's hard to talk your way out of it. my grandmother doesn't understand how employers like to take advantage of employes. how can i explain it to her so she won't answer their calls.

2007-12-12 00:21:20 · 4 answers · asked by cajunbaby 6 in Family

Wife thinks that by sexing me up, I will stop cheating. Why don't women get it ?! Giving up more sex would not prevent the man from going astray!

2007-12-12 00:18:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a week. I am so mad about this because they have a son who is 3 and his wife is upset because he is trying to make his self better by taking classes at night so he will be able to move into a high bracket of pay at his current job. they agreed as a couple before he started taking these classes that it was the best thing to do... so long story short she wants another baby and he isn't ready and she now wants a divorce because she says he is too romantic for her and she needs more sexually... i just don't get it .. He asks me questions about their relationship i don't know what kind of advice to give him or should i keep it to myself? I personally know a lot of girls that would die for the romantic things he does for her ..me included... what do i say to him????

2007-12-12 00:18:22 · 4 answers · asked by no x 4 games 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what would you say to your son/ daughter, what parental advise could you pass on.

Me i think i might just kill them, do you think the shame would be to much for you heart

2007-12-12 00:16:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

nearest i have gone was nearly kissing my m8(a girl) on the lips

2007-12-12 00:12:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having such problems trying to come up with a great gift for my boyfriend. Normally i wouldn't be stressing so much but he's made such a big deal about what he's getting me and let me tell ya my friends have told me what it is and it's so sweet it's such a personal gift and expensive, like $250. He tells me he doesn't want me to get him anything but that's obviously not going to happen. I'm just worried because I can't get him something super expensive because then he'll know i know but at the same time I have to get him something meaningful.
Any ideas would be helpful...?

2007-12-12 00:11:10 · 7 answers · asked by labellavita 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been seperated for almost a year now. I left him because he has a drinking problem and it wasn't fair to let my daughters see it anymore. It was up to him to get better for us. Anyway to make a long story short he ended up finding someone else and now they are having a baby in a month. He calls like once a week to talk to the kids and I don't mind that at all but sometimes he calls me late at night to talk about the kids and I don't have a word to say to him. I guess you could say I can't stand him. Do I have to talk to him? Is it wrong for me to ignore him? He stopped paying me any money a few months ago for the kids and that is why I don't want to talk to him at all. What would you do? Do I have to talk to him even if the conversation is going nowhere? He says it is making him mad that I don't answer the phone anymore. He says I need to answer the phone when he calls.

2007-12-12 00:05:35 · 13 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 00:01:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got married on January 2nd, 2007 and for one reason or another, never got around to sending out thank yous. I feel like it's so late now I wonder if I'll just look like a fool sending them out at all - but I feel SOOOO guilty about not having done it. What do I do?

2007-12-12 00:00:51 · 20 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Weddings

I went to a party,
And remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom,
so I had a sprite instead.

I felt proud of myself,
The way you said I would,
that I didn't drink and drive,
though some friends said I should.

I made a health y choice,
And your advice to me was right.
The party finally ended,
and the kids drove out of sight.

I got into my car,
Sure to get home in one piece.
I never knew what was coming, Mom,
something I expected least.

Now I'm lying on the pavement,
And I hear the policeman say,
the kid that caused this wreck was drunk,
Mom, his voice seems far away.

My own blood's all around me,
As I try hard not to cry.
I can hear the paramedic say,
this girl is going to die.

I'm sure the guy had no idea,
While he was flying high.
Because he chose to drink and drive,
now I would have to die.

So why do people do it, Mom
Knowing that it ruins lives?
And now the pain is cutting me,
like a hundred stabbing knives.

Tell sister not to be afraid, Mom
Tell daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven,
put " Mommy's Girl" on my grave.

Someone should have taught him,
That it's wrong to drink and drive.
Maybe if his parents had,
I'd still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter,
Mom I'm getting really scared
These are my final moments,
and I'm so unprepared.

I wish that you could hold me Mom,
As I lie here and die.
I wish that I could say, "I love you, Mom!"
So I love you and goodbye.

2007-12-12 00:00:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family