Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

Well i have a problem with my parents. Dont get me wrong, i love them to death its just that they kinda have to get in-touch with this century. I'm 13.
Problems: (please help)

1. They wont let me wear make up,

i know this exucuse is well heard but still, everyone wears eyeliner, and i dont want to wear alot too. At first i thought it was cuase of my culture but my cousin wore eyeliner when she was 12.

2. They dont let me date.
My Sister (15) said that she "secret dates" but i cant do that to my parents. I realize 13 is a little too young but i cant until i;m 18... outragous?

3. Never let me hang out with friends.

My friends always ask to hang out with me but they always say no. It's too dangerous. but its not i live in the safest city in the state. and i realize that when my friends ask me to go somewhere that is out -of-town i say no. cause i realize that that is dangerous.




Please help. doesnt need to be all of them. at least one please?

2007-12-12 07:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Marry amarine or a US.Navy guy who would u pick? and why?

2007-12-12 07:28:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Put your opinion out there!

2007-12-12 07:27:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy for a year and a half and about a month ago he started dropping hints that he likes me. [but im not completely sure if he does]
I really like him, but we don't have any classes together and I only see him in the morning.
What are some ways to show him I like him without being too obvious or desperate? Or should I just make the first move and ask him out?

2007-12-12 07:27:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask this one girl out. I've known her for 2 yrs and we're good friends. Is a diamond necklace too much to ask her by? Also, how do I go about asking her, whether I give the necklace or not? A note in school (maybe with the necklace) or maybe go to her house? Oh and it's also her birthday tomorrow.

2007-12-12 07:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by vobs56 1 in Singles & Dating

it and he tells u dont be afraid to ask but when u do he acts like he doesnt wanna give it to u.

2007-12-12 07:26:15 · 25 answers · asked by Robynn C 1 in Singles & Dating

should u buy a guy that you don't go out but have a crush on a present?

2007-12-12 07:26:15 · 27 answers · asked by coolgirl1376 3 in Singles & Dating

Feeling frisky, this is not the place, nor the time. But I don’t care. I am bored and in a confined space doing nothing at work.

Anything to get me going please, suggestiveness, naughtiness…come on…

Thank you sincerely!

2007-12-12 07:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering because I had a pretty good idea but everyday I realize that I could have never imagined how difficult it actually is.

What was your biggest surprise, shock, difficulty, obstacle - whatever you want to call it?

I'm asking about you so don't tell me about me.

2007-12-12 07:22:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is a little older then me. Have gone out as friends. He is a leo and I am a cancer.

2007-12-12 07:21:37 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 07:21:27 · 2 answers · asked by rayyhull x33 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-12 07:20:53 · 4 answers · asked by Link S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 07:19:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 07:18:56 · 32 answers · asked by Neomaxizoomedweebie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 07:18:06 · 46 answers · asked by sheltonj2406 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is a convo between me and this guy i like. We started back talking after a month of not speaking to eachother and he tells me he doesnt want a gf!!!!

He tells me "whats wrong with making out?"

i say "i feel used and i dont want to get hurt."

then he says "we aint going out so why would you get hurt?"

Then i asked him "ok so you dont have feelings for me at all?"

He says, "I do but i dont want a gf"

OMG!!! is this boy immature???? hes 17 and im not doing anything with him!!!
Insecurity or Immaturity???

One time he made me so mad and i hung up on him, then he texted me right away and said "look im not with no one else its just you its not like i do that with just anybody."
all we did was make out but not anymore

2007-12-12 07:15:10 · 13 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

After your wife had a couple children her body looked different right? Well do you find her very attractive still even if her boobs are kind of saggy now? Are you still satisfied with her body?

2007-12-12 07:14:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a long distance relationship, and we both like to talk. I would say, on average we talk about 2 to 3 times a day. He calls me and I call him. I like to talk to him everyday, and sometimes I just can't help but to call him. Does this make me too clingy?

2007-12-12 07:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by singingbird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone ever date a "nice guy" ? I mean, the stereotypical nice guy?

How did it go? I don't need your whole relationship biography but...did it work out?

Thanks

2007-12-12 07:13:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone says don't go looking for love it'll find you when you least expect it?? Is that true? I mean if everyone sat around waiting then how would you meet each other?

2007-12-12 07:13:33 · 4 answers · asked by eagle_angel_07 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has just thrown me against a cupboard and repeatedly shaken me back and forth with my head banging on the cupboard.
Because daughter not going to bed easily he's blames it on me.

2007-12-12 07:12:50 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

changing my last name to that of my husbands? I'm also changing my middle name to what my maiden name is....Where do I start??

2007-12-12 07:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by chloe1995 3 in Weddings

this guy really wronged me and treated me badly, now I want him to really miss me and feel bad about what he did. he never told me he didnt want to not see me, but i'm done with his games because he's a total player. we work together, so i know he's gonna try sweet talking me back to him, so how do i prove to him that he lost me and i'm sick of him, without coming off as a total biotch?? :)

2007-12-12 07:10:41 · 10 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating

I find that I'm s.e.x.ually attracted to a different man. I have not done anything with this other man and I do not plan on doing anything with him..

But

Why am I attracted to this particular man other than my husband. I do not want my husband to touch me at all. I know the other man wants me and lately I have been avoiding him though I'm constantly thinking about him...

I do not even want to share the same room with my husband any more..

what should I do?

2007-12-12 07:10:13 · 24 answers · asked by ME 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay. we always talk on the phone, and I really like who he is and his beliefs and everything. There's a few speedbumps though. First: I'm 17 and he's 21. Is that too much of an age difference? Am I too young for him? I seem to be pretty mature for my age, and I'm sick of dating guys my age, they're so immature. Second: He's never had a girlfriend. I know that seems odd, he's 21! He's a great guy too, and it's hard to believe he's never had a girl. We have the same beliefs, we get along amazingly and all that, but should I? Could this work? ANY advice is welcomed!

2007-12-12 07:09:39 · 12 answers · asked by Chase 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 07:04:18 · 9 answers · asked by Josh B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Down my corridor there is a flat with a young mum probably about 27 she has a 9 year old, earlier i was sitting on my balcony & i could hear crying i looked over the edged to her balcony & she was crying, i took her a mug of coffee & she told me about how last night her daughter has these tantrums, The mother had just found out her daughters father had stopped paying money into the benefit account, also she was facing redundancy and all her daughter could think about was christmas cards, she is quite a small woman &she said her daughter stood up and pulled a hissy fit, & the poor mother had asked her to do it tomorrow the daughter said no & the mother lashed out slapping her child. I was shocked to hear this becuase i have only known her for a short while but i know they love each other dearly & they always are best friends, she is just worried because she thinks it Child abuse but if it's just that once & even if it's happened before she's not really really hurt, is it Child abuse? x

2007-12-12 07:04:11 · 4 answers · asked by Love_Me_Jaffa_X_O_X 2 in Family

His mother, though divorced, still keeps his father's last name and has been well known as Mrs. Wallis.I decided not to take my husband's last name when I married my husband because I feel weird to be called Mrs. Wallis. He asked me several times if I would change my name in future. I am not sure about that. Just want to see what other people do. This may sound like a strange question to you but I moved here from a culture that women do not use husband's last names - just a different tradition.

2007-12-12 07:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by smeagolrocks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at my fiancé’s birthday party this last weekend and his whole family and friend were over for dinner and cake. Usually when his family comes over, his sister in law (brother’s wife) comes over and they have three girls, 14, 6, and 18 month.

When my fiancé’s brother and wife are over, they never watch the 18 month who gets into everything. Usually my fiancé, I, or my future mother in law is watching her, making sure she doesn’t climb up the stairs, get into the cupboards etc. while her parents are relaxing and drinking beer. My future mother in law watches the 6 year old and the 18 month for free during the week. I decided to try and not watch the child one time when they were over, and no one else was there that would watch her and she got all the way to the second story, because her mother wasn’t watching her. And whenever her mom and I are in the same room, she would rather come to me because I play with her instead of watching TV and drinking beer while the baby gets into everything. I don’t yell at the baby like her mother does and I don’t spank her like her mother does (which is dumb because an 18 month old doesn’t understand). The baby hasn’t had her shots which she can get from a clinic for little to no money, but they would rather buy beer (they go through a couple cases a week for two of them).

Now all of this being said, I was watching the baby and playing with her, and we were surrounding the table with snacks. Everyone in the family has given her salsa or chili before, so I though I would let her try it because I was eating it and she wanted some. She tried a tiny bit and liked it and wanted more, so I gave her a little more (about the size of my pinky nail). She started to turn red, so I went to get her a bottle with milk…no big deal right? I took care of it and I wasn’t going to do it again. He mom freaked out and started saying thinks like “well I don’t give chili to a baby”, “you’re trying to kill my child”, “she’s going to be in pain when she poops is out later” etc. I wanted to yell at her, but I have enough respect to keep my mouth quiet when company is over…but she just keeps going on.

I understand why she was upset, but she didn’t let it go for the rest of the night. I would have been upset, but I would have let it go and not make the person who takes care of my child while I’m having a good time feel uncomfortable.

If you were that child’s mother how would you have reacted?

And do you think the mother is being ridiculous or me?

2007-12-12 07:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by tightest embrace 0:) 5 in Family

I'm planning my program at this time. I've decide to include loved ones names and pictures who have passed. This I thought would be a surprise to him and a part of the gift to the family members and guest who attend our wedding. Do you think this will be tasteless or tasteful. Both of our families are now small and I have pictures of just about everyone inculding people he doesn't.

2007-12-12 07:02:22 · 16 answers · asked by kmontd 1 in Weddings