this is a convo between me and this guy i like. We started back talking after a month of not speaking to eachother and he tells me he doesnt want a gf!!!!
He tells me "whats wrong with making out?"
i say "i feel used and i dont want to get hurt."
then he says "we aint going out so why would you get hurt?"
Then i asked him "ok so you dont have feelings for me at all?"
He says, "I do but i dont want a gf"
OMG!!! is this boy immature???? hes 17 and im not doing anything with him!!!
Insecurity or Immaturity???
One time he made me so mad and i hung up on him, then he texted me right away and said "look im not with no one else its just you its not like i do that with just anybody."
all we did was make out but not anymore
2007-12-12 07:15:10 · 13 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its called "friends with benifets"... the benifet.. is the guy gets what he wants.. and the girl is wishing on a shooting start that someday "that guy" will be the one to ask her out.. or tell her he likes her too..... simple as that... and as coldly as it is.. he is using you and he wants ONLY the benifts not the commitment or the trust.. or the emotinal attachment... its sad.. and for a 17 year old it shows that he didnt get much action when he was younger... so he trying to get as much now... or at least before he gets to college to meet "college hot girls"... aka "older women... more experienced blah blah" lol...
anyways hopefully you realise that.. which by your question you seem to already have.... next step is to move on and to find someone who REALLY appreciates YOU for YOU! not for your body or for there own gratifications...
2007-12-12 07:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! That's men at 17, 27, some still haven't gotten over their d*cks at 37!
He wants to be able to f*ck you and f*ck whoever else he wants to without the long convo you described above.
At least he is being honest, instead of making you his girl and then cheating nonstop. Stop trying to force him to say he'll be yours and either take him on his terms, or cut him loose and wait for a man that's on your level.
And if you are 17 or younger you need to spend more time on your books and making plans for college and less on trying to have a man, cause you should have 1 year of high school left at 17 and about to separate from any boyfriend anyway. Date casually (not sex casually!) and chill out!
2007-12-12 16:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by MissJamaica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already posted this the other day!!! Just chill out, find a boy who will respect you. Can't say I was like that at 17 as I didn't have a girlfriend, but I know many who did act like that. That's just a confusing age, but no nearly as much as the years before. He's worrying more about his image than about you. Show him you're better than that.
2007-12-12 15:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by twerth5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 17. That's the answer. Many teenage boys are like that, I would know since I just graduated this year. Some guys don't actually want to have a girlfriend, they just want to "hook up." If you're not interested in things like that and you want an actual relationship then just ignore this guy and move on.
2007-12-12 15:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by natassiakc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. When I was 17 I would say just about anything to get a girl in bed. I very much doubt that he has feelings for you. Sorry.
2007-12-12 15:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thtas how almost every guy is thet love friends wit benifts belive me i have dont that a couple times its alright if both of you agree that ur not look to be with anyone right now you just wanta **** around wit no strings attatched but since thats all he wants friends with benifts he only has friend felling thats all nothing more
2007-12-12 15:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i rlly dont like ppl like u
plz get over urself long enough to realize, that he doesnt want a gf, thats not a big deal
making out is only kissing
goodness
hes not immature, he prolly doesnt want to get hurt in a relationship but still wants to kiss,
i personally think your the one being immature here
2007-12-12 15:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by courtney 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
yrp he's immature. he's just interested in "hooking" up. so just respect your self and don't do anything u dont want to do
2007-12-12 15:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound immature as well
you should stop worrying about boys
worry about school
2007-12-12 15:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just immature.
2007-12-12 15:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Hill Topper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋