Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

And ends it via email no less!

2007-12-12 07:01:29 · 10 answers · asked by I, Sapient 7 in Friends

My best friend has been dating this guy for 7 months (she is 20, he is 26). It was the whole love at first sight thing and they are so much in love... you can just tell. However, she has been getting a lot of mixed signals lately and I just don't know what to tell her about the situation.

Apparently he has been dropping a ton of hints that he is going to ask her to marry him this Christmas. He has also apparently told some friends that he was going to and word got back to her. However, she called me this morning crying because last night he said to her "It's over a year away, but I plan on asking you to marry me. Would you say yes if I did?".

It really upset her, she was so excitied. My question is... do you think he said that to throw her off? I'm thinking maybe he found out she knew or had an idea and wants her to think it's not coming? I just don't want to say that to her and it end up not happening... so what do you think?

2007-12-12 07:01:04 · 3 answers · asked by piscesgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is an issue I am facing...

I know someone who's ex is trying to collect backpay from 24 years ago... There was never any child support collected ever... And now the ex is trying to get money from the father... Is this possible? I live in Ontario....

2007-12-12 07:00:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have my counseling session tomorrow and want to run this question by here before i do. What do these statements really mean? "i never relized how important my vows were" "we had great sex it was crazy,i have a problem with that" "not looking at your clothes looking at you" "have you been intimate with your girlfriend" "can i have a hug" "i want you to let go" "so, you still love me" "ive never been happier in my life" "you look good" "why are your teeth so white" all these statements and questions have been directed at me by my ex wife within the last 2 months and she just got remarried in july. what if anything am i not seeing here?

2007-12-12 06:59:51 · 11 answers · asked by pheggie101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 06:57:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can control the way I look 2 ways; I can either lose weight and have my body look horribly boyish cuz I look so thin and flat, but with that my face looks really stunning with less weight.
Or I can have a normalish figure if I eat carelessly, but though it's still slightly flat, just looks sexier and healthier, but then my face doesnt look as good.
What do guys prefer? really gorgeous face and horrible body, or quite pretty face and ok body?
thanks =]

2007-12-12 06:55:53 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you liked a girl alot... would you do the following:

1) would you ditch your friends just to be with her (given the moment)

2) would you "always" pay attention to her.. (look at her directly in her eyes... etc..)

3) would you if you happend to be around a girl (whom your friends with) walk away from her just to show the other girl (who your crushing on) that your not with her....

4) would you given the opportunity, talk to her if it was just the 2 of you... what would you say? or would you wait for her to say something?

this guy i like is doing all of the above and i dont know if i should just tell him.. cause he is trying right?? like i want to know if i should wait.. but then again ive waited so long... hes really shy around me so..... and the fact that i havent seen him in like 5 months lol isnt making it any easier..? so what advise would you give me to help him out?...

DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME?

2007-12-12 06:55:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if she wanted to? Accepting comps would count also could be anything.....

2007-12-12 06:52:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 06:52:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never kissed anyone before and I feel like such a loser because every one of my friends has. Their first kisses happened when they were like 12 and 13. I'm almost 16 and still haven't had my first kiss. I feel so left out when I'm with my friends because of this. I've had boyfriends before, but I still never got a chance to kiss any of them before we broke up. People tell me I'm pretty and have a fun personality, especially guys. So I don't understand. Do you think there's still hope for me? How old were you when you got your first kiss?

2007-12-12 06:51:21 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 06:49:17 · 7 answers · asked by maddymel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i found out he is only buying me a diamond necklace for christmas. i have put up with this man for two years! i think i am worth more than that and he is lucky to have me...no other woman would have him!!! last year i even broke off an affair i was having with his brother...my husband's fault. this never would have happened if he spent more time with me and not worked so much. his brother actually listened to what i had to say!! i just think i am being slighted here. maybe once i am gone, he'll appreciate what he lost. can someone help me???

2007-12-12 06:49:12 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

who do i give the money for child support the mom of the child or do i need to pay the state and then they give her the money

my son is 13
we live in va

2007-12-12 06:44:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what are the laws in Texas? any signatures needed?

2007-12-12 06:44:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not a good looking guy. I don't have a nice body. I don't have alot of money. Mostly, I just have a nice personality. No girls ever approach me or show any interest. However, my friend is all around a good looking guy. He gets alot of women. He sweet talks them and tells them what they want to hear. Behind there back he cheats on them and goes around having sex with other girls. Basically, he "caps their head up". Myself i would never treat a girl like that. Why are so many women naive? Also, I guess you can fool a women as long as the guy looks good.

2007-12-12 06:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 06:40:35 · 15 answers · asked by Sweet Judy 7 in Singles & Dating

well he smiles at me and there has been eye contact but i just dont know whether he likes me. weve never spoken to each other and he seems really shy just like me, how do i know if hes just being friendly by smiling at me or if he likes me?

2007-12-12 06:38:12 · 23 answers · asked by madinalake 3 in Singles & Dating

so the woman i am dating (who is a freak) wants to watch me do her best friend and her friend is down for it also simple man answer would be "hell yeah im doing it" but im caught up cause this girl and i have been threw alot of good and a little bad over the past 5 years we met when she was married and we played around for 4 years till she got divorced then we became one anyways thats not the subject of this question. i just want to get answers from both sides. women would you want to see your man doing another female even if she was your friend and how would your react during also have you already done this and did it work out good or bad? and men what would you do if you were me trust me these two females are both lovely young women but would you question it or would you just do it?

2007-12-12 06:37:30 · 19 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

From my previous questions, My wife luv me but not in-love w/ me. Her luv was due to 20yrs of marraige and family. She is not in-love w/ me because I guess after 20yrs, the magic are gone or it's on simmered and not on Hot. She wandered off and had a fantasy luv affair w/ a real person. She claimed nothing happened and I believe her. It's too soon to tell but I guess we are trying to work it out. But once you are out of luv w/ your mate, can you or have you fall back into luv w/ your mate once more? Or am I fantasizing ? I luv my wife and willing to let her go to explore her new found success. I'm trying to chase her back. Is it an impossible dream? Ladies, your honest feeling please? TIA

2007-12-12 06:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by 1-Confused-man 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 29 she 25. We were together for 3 months. We were really into eachother and things went way to fast. We had sex within 3 days of knowing eachother and things skyrocketted. She expressed to me sometime that she needed space but was doing it so things didnt get messed up in teh future for us. Then she todl me that she agreed that things went to fast and kinda freaked her out. She had just got out a a verbally abusive relationship one month before me got together. She states that she was still messed up by her ex. She broke yup with me telling me she lost the spark, cause we were togther to much. She stated to me that she still wanted to talk to me and hang out and she will pronanly regret the decision to break up with me. My question is she still thinking of me? We never had any problems in our relationship she stated she wanted to marry me etc. She states today that this is not easy for her either and she would like to stay friends with me. Does this show she is confused right now?

2007-12-12 06:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Once a girl has decided that you are a friend where once she thought of you as maybe more, is that it, over for ever? Or can that attraction ever come back?

2007-12-12 06:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is possible for 2 people to love each other but still have happy successful relationships with other people?

I''m stuck in the middle of 2 friends from high school. We've all been friends for about 10 years & they dated for about 6 months, 2 years ago. They each come and talk to me about their relationships & say that they love the person they are with & that they are happy. He started dating a girl about a year ago & is currently living with her. She started dating a guy a few months ago & are talking about moving in together. They both have confided in me that they still love each other, they even tell each other "I still love you" & flirt through text messages all day while they are at work. I don't see how either of their relationships are going to work if they continue this kind of "friendship" but I might be wrong. I just want to see them happy no matter if that is together or not. I've told both of them to either to truly be just friends or get back together.

2007-12-12 06:23:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very ordinary looking and over the years I have had male acquaintances. I have found that some of them in conversation look at my chest then my face and the conversation goes with his eyes going up and down. Do men realise they are doing this? Is it an instinct they don't know about? Is it a sign that they fancy me or is it a fascination with any breast? However most of them never asked me to "date" or wanted any relationship. men what are you thinking? I don't wear skimpy clothes and my chest does not appear the biggest.

2007-12-12 06:22:28 · 23 answers · asked by ummsulaima 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old and a little over 2 months away from my wedding. I have known my fiance for 16 years and will be 17 in january (2 weeks before my wedding) but i am SOOOO afraid of getting married at this age becuase of how high the divorce rate is, I dont want to lose him at all..I have talked this through with my parents millions of times...which is why im even engaged now (they just helped me come up with my answer, they didnt tell me to get engaged) What should I do to become less afraid...any tips on keeping a marriage happy? Is our wedding a little too soon?(we have been engaged for a year..well will be a year christmas eve). I have talked this all out with my parents and they say they are concenting to the wedding because they know i love him and they love him too...heck they have known him longer than theyve known me..haha. But what are your suggestions?

2007-12-12 06:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I live an hour away from each other. I see her every weekend. And, sometimes, I stay with her for a week.

A few months ago, I hurt my girlfriend really badly. My friends made fun of her. And, I just sit back like an @$$hole and let it happen. I feel so terrible about it. She brings it up all the time and it makes me feel like crap.

I love this girl, a lot. She means the world to me. And, the fact that I hurt her, bothers me more than ANYTHING in the world. I want to make her happy. But, feel as if I can't because of what I did.

The reasons I didn't retaliate is because, I'm afraid of conflict. I don't like arguments and fighting. But, I know I should've said something.

Is there anything I could do to make it up to her? :( I want her to be happy. But, I don't know what to do. :(

2007-12-12 06:19:38 · 21 answers · asked by Jesse H 2 in Singles & Dating

OK last time I simply asked her not to do it again after I told her what I saw. 2 weeks later I walk once more into the living room coming home from school, and she is naked on the sofa RECORDING herself having sex. Im 14 she is 16. Our parents are very strict about not having sex until we are married. The deal is my mom was gone on a business trip, and my dad was visiting a friend in the hospital. So its not like they just don't care or anything. I was supposed to be going to a friends house to play but she was sick and called me up to tell me not to come over. I don't know what is wrong with her. What should I do this time? Should I now tell my parents? Oh yeah, and it waasn't even the same guy. She sickens me.

2007-12-12 06:17:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am going back to my parent's home during Christmas time from 23rd December until New Year. The problem is I am wearing a chastity belt and my girlfriend has the keys to my belt. The belt will stay locked on my vagina during Christmas time at my parent's home. As we are separated during Christmas time, she will not be able to unlock my belt for cleaning in the evening, a cleaning routine we follow daily. I guess I am able to get through Christmas time locked in the belt without cleaning. However, when I suggested to her of bringing an emergency key of the belt with me just in case somehting happens to me, she seems to be unwilling to give me an emergency key as she scares that I might be tempted to use it to remove my belt during Christmas time at my parent's home. She told me she have been kind enough to let me go home and I should not demand so much. Should i conform to her refusal or insist on bringing an emergency key?

2007-12-12 06:16:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 06:11:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it okay for a girl to make the first move..like ask him out on a date, pay for the date, kiss him first and call him?...do guys like that kind of stuff...and also do they like flowers??

2007-12-12 06:11:04 · 35 answers · asked by ladywetherell23 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 06:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships