OK last time I simply asked her not to do it again after I told her what I saw. 2 weeks later I walk once more into the living room coming home from school, and she is naked on the sofa RECORDING herself having sex. Im 14 she is 16. Our parents are very strict about not having sex until we are married. The deal is my mom was gone on a business trip, and my dad was visiting a friend in the hospital. So its not like they just don't care or anything. I was supposed to be going to a friends house to play but she was sick and called me up to tell me not to come over. I don't know what is wrong with her. What should I do this time? Should I now tell my parents? Oh yeah, and it waasn't even the same guy. She sickens me.
2007-12-12 06:17:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wouldnt surprise me if she is already pregnant... shes gained about 5 lbs.
2007-12-12 06:36:51 · update #1
Get the tape/dvd and give it to your parents!
2007-12-12 06:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 1⤋
Third time's the charm. Give her another chance. If she blows it, tell your parents. That is supposed to be one of the perks of having a sister. You guys can tell each other things. I'm 17 and my sister is 19 now, but when she was 17 or 18, I walked in on her giving a guy head, and it was NOT pleasant. I know how you feel, but just don't worry about it, until it happens again. Then you have the right to tell. It is seriously disgusting, watching a sibling doing that, but try to get it out of your mind (I know, it seems impossible).
Good luck! I hope you're not scarred, lol.
2007-12-12 07:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a personal thing! You should text her about the situation, I'm pretty sure she won't want you tell anyone. If this really got you thinking, you should initiate the convo through text, so you have a better understanding of where she stand with the situation. Good Luck! And a "good" 16 year old doesnt exist!
2016-05-23 06:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you close to your sister or not? If you tell your parents you make a choice...it is a horrible one to make but a choice none the less. You have to choose basically between is your relationship as a trustworthy individual more important between you and your sister or your parents. If it was me I would try and talk to someone else before going straight up the chain of command to the parents. For instance, have you tried talking to a counselor at school? They usually are better at understanding delicate family situations because they have had close contact with you then random people on the internet. That is a tough choice to make...I do not envy you. Talk to someone in person and get it sorted out.
Good luck
2007-12-12 06:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Nate B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would get some information on being safe, and give it to her. I would also remind her that you have walked in on her 2 times. If you have caught her who is to say that your parents won't catch her. I would also set up an anonymous email account and send a message to your parents. I wouldn't say what she is doing just that there are rules being broken while they are gone. Then they have the choice to confront both of you, or walk in. If they confront you I wouldn't lie. Just say that you are not the one breaking the rules. I hope it works out for you.
2007-12-12 06:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleigh P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't tell your parents, what kind of sister are you. Siblings are not supposed to rat each other out to there parents, what your supposed to do it black male her into doing something for you. These little gold mines of secrets don't come to often, use this to your advantage. I'm sure your sister would be more than happy to do your chores or something. Besides when you get older and start making mistakes of your own, don't you want your sister to watch your back.
2007-12-12 06:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by JONES 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is having multiple strangers in the house and can be putting your safety at risk. I would tell on her ONLY for that reason. The fact that she is having multiple sex partners and is disrespecting herself is her problem. I probably wouldnt go as far to say mom/dad I caught her having sex...but I would say she has had different boys in the house.
2007-12-12 06:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Telling your parents won't do any good. At 16 if she wants to have sex she will. Tell her if you catch her again you will tell your parents. That might stop her from doing it where you can catch her...... You may need her to cover your back for you one day so don't tell the parents.....
2007-12-12 06:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by jossieray 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure your sister's not a prostitute, if she's recording this?
She obviously does not respect herself, tell a parent before it it too late.
if she can open her legs all the time, she can go get her own place to live instead of mooching off people with good values.
2007-12-12 06:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by Academy& Clockworthy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your sister.... make sure she has birth control... don't tell your parents..
Yes, I know you are only 14, but your views on the subject may change in a few years... and there's no point in alienating your sister... just make sure she's safe....
2007-12-12 06:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Eh, I wouldn't tell your parents unless you are honestly concerned with her. If you start to see her partaking in a deleterious lifestyle(involving maybe drugs), then I would inform your parents.
Oh yea... I doubt it's her second time, they say a criminal gets away with a crime 10 times before they're caught. You've caught her twice, probly her 20th time!
2007-12-12 06:20:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋