so the woman i am dating (who is a freak) wants to watch me do her best friend and her friend is down for it also simple man answer would be "hell yeah im doing it" but im caught up cause this girl and i have been threw alot of good and a little bad over the past 5 years we met when she was married and we played around for 4 years till she got divorced then we became one anyways thats not the subject of this question. i just want to get answers from both sides. women would you want to see your man doing another female even if she was your friend and how would your react during also have you already done this and did it work out good or bad? and men what would you do if you were me trust me these two females are both lovely young women but would you question it or would you just do it?
2007-12-12 06:37:30 · 19 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and no im not trying to show off im actually stuck with no answer im a freak trust me i have did my share of things but there is so many things that come into this a relationship, friendship, etc. you know what im saying then what happens if she gets pregnant? you know what im saying how do i explain that issh
2007-12-12 06:40:28 · update #1
and yes they have been sexual together before matter of fact before my girl and i got together we had a 2 on 2 thing one of my boys myself and the same two women i speak of in the question
2007-12-12 06:42:55 · update #2
umm...to tell you the truth..the LAST thing i would want to see is my man doing my friend...i thinks shes off her rocker
2007-12-12 06:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by *_* Katerrr 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My simple answer to you as a man is this: what type of women do you think you are dealing with here? How much further do you want your relationship to go? If she was cheating on another man, do you think she would cheat on you? And what type of relationship does she figure you have?
Those are questions you need to answer. From my thoughts this women is a freak and a cheater. That is probably fun in the short term, but in the long term its likely she is not wifey material. I think you should have as much fun as possible now and take her up on the offer!
2007-12-12 06:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by No A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to sharing freakyness, it might be better if the parties involved aren't in a committed relationship. I had a girlfriend that shared me with an ex of hers, who she had been really involved with. In fact she was extremely in love with him in the past, but when we three did our thing, the relationship between them had changed considerably. There's no way she would have done what she did if she was still in love with him. She had told me he was really good in bed and she wanted to see us together. But again, that was long after they broke up, and started to see each other casually. If you really care for this woman, it might do more harm than good to your relationship to be with her girlfriend. You might want to ask yourself how much you mean to her, for her to offer you up to a friend. Besides, what if the friend gets turned out? Would she want you to be with you again, and would your girlfriend be cool with that? If your girlfriend isn't cool with you being with the friend beyond this threesome, would you sneak behind her back and do it anyway? Would the other girl tempt you until you did? Is this going to affect her friendship with her best friend? How? There's a lot more to just doing it, after the deed is done. You should consider all of that before you do something that will change your relationship forever. Unless you know what to expect, don't do it.
2007-12-12 06:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, I guess I never really thought about how that makes you feel in regards to the way I feel about you. Hmmm....I guess people on here kinda think of me as the hoe then huh...not wifey material or the one to keep around. LOL, funny. Oh well, so much for other people enjoying their sex life or their relationship on different levels. Sounds like some of these people have some serious trust issues. Maybe I'm not as insecure in my relationship. Maybe I'm crazy. Either way, I guess I have more to think about right? LOL
2007-12-12 07:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by It's Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.ok., this could be a girl who became raped. right this is what I did and what i might prefer to have executed. I stated the rape. The police knew this guy through fact he had committed this crime earlier yet, while they went to arrest him, he became not at domicile. His family members delivered him in day after today. A extreme bond became set and he stewed the place he sat. I testified earlier a grand jury and costs have been delivered. i became arranged to testify in courtroom yet he pleaded in charge to steer away from a obtainable existence sentence and have been given 2 many years. I took my capacity and administration and used it against him basically as he used capacity and administration against me. a guy who rapes is maximum probable to rape returned. To my way of questioning, i became the sufferer of various different women people who have been raped yet did not checklist it or declined to testify in view that they have been by using plenty already. Your beating him and his chum up did not make the different women human beings secure yet did take a stable defender off the line. i wish the DA's place of work evaluate exigent situations and grants probation. in case you probably did pass to reformatory, you would be in there with a brilliant style of rapist and ladies human beings beaters and that i've got self assurance you do not prefer their company. Incidently, a Peeping Tom is a rapist window paying for.
2016-10-01 10:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by thieme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not enjoy my boyfriend and friend having sex. That whole experience could have an adverse effect on each party involved. What if the best friend likes it? What if she wants to have sex without your girlfriend? A relationship has enough problems without adding an additional complication to it.
2007-12-12 06:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cherri 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. I would never want my damn man doing another girl infront of me. That's just really disrespectful maybe she is just testing you to see how you would react to it. So don't do it. You may lose her trust. How would you feel if she did that to you?
2007-12-12 06:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by `_LAYLUUH 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
personally I would never want to see the person I'm with be intimate with someone else. No matter how much you think you want it in the beginning, jealousy is always an issue!
2007-12-12 06:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by firegirl0514 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I wasn't really in to her I probably would do this just for the adventure; if I had strong feelings for her though, then I definitely would NOT do it and I'd probably be somewhat hurt that she so casually consented to sharing me.
2007-12-12 06:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. But know that things between your woman and her friend could turn awkward later. And she may resent you for having been with her friend.
2007-12-12 06:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are they or have they ever been sexual together? If so tell them you want to watch them first! And if you like what you see you might consider joining in!
I would be all for the threesome then! But just doing her while your girl watches NO!
2007-12-12 06:41:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋