Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

I'm feeling sick (strep throught, headach, etc) but I have a big chorus show tomorow starting at 10:00 till 12:00 p.m! What do I do? We're going 2 the hospital, justice court house, and Kroger. our shirt is short sleeved and we cant have a under shirt r jacket!!!

2007-12-12 08:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't care about the actual money but she always promises to pay me back but never does. It increases all the time. I haven't kept a record of it but i have estimated it and its quite a lot. She is a really close friend and I don't want to ruin the friendship. I don't mind if she can't pay me back , but she makes promises and doesn't keep them. What should I do?

2007-12-12 08:54:15 · 11 answers · asked by Leavesonthelawn 2 in Friends

Okay. First of all, my life is not doing to well right now. Everything seems to be happening all at once.

I have 2 younger brothers & 1 younger sister. My sister will be 6 Feb 1. She is my life. I love this little girl soo much. Well, she & my 2 brothers are not my bio. moms but, my bio. dads w/ another woman. They live with this other woman, Stacey. My dad & Stacey are now divorced. They live 5 years away from me. My dad is no longer able to see the kids due to his touching my sister just like he did me when I was younger. My dad has also scared my brothers where none of the kids want to see them. I got to talk to my little sister last night and she told me she was writing me a letter. She told me it said "I *heart* you. I love my family. I love my sissy" It hurts me so bad that I can't be there for them. I know what my sister is going through. This made me break into tears. This is SO hard for me. I have no way to get where they are until the spring time or so..

2007-12-12 08:54:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the way he calls 5 times in a row, the way he calls my house phone if i dont answer my cell to make sure i'm home, even the way he types, the long pauses before he says bye and hangs up, the stalking of the AIM conversation to see when i signed off/went to bed... SO ANNOYING
what to do?

2007-12-12 08:53:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I are getting married on the 30th. he is really nice, strong and handsome. we have been dating for a year now. one day about a week ago i heard him talking on the phone to his friends saying that I was nowhere near as sexy as the clerk at the grocery store. she is 39 ( I'm 23) , has short blond hair, is about 10 pounds over weight, has green eyes, rosey cheeks and she is single. do you think i am prettier than her? be honest guys. I can take the truth!
( guys only!)

2007-12-12 08:51:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect and i want to HUG you........lol


MeoooooooooOOOooooow !!!!!

2007-12-12 08:50:34 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know he likes me because he tried to make me jealous with another girl. He won't ask me out, but i am REALLY shy and i don't want to ask him out. what do i do?!

2007-12-12 08:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that it is pathetic that a 27 year old man is afraid to tell his parents that his girlfriend is living with them? How would you let them "find out" if you were an outsider to this?

2007-12-12 08:50:25 · 5 answers · asked by shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is always acting stupid and i'am only 13 but anyway he wont stop and it get's on my nerve he always has to be childish and i dont like that so if you can tell me what i should do than please help because he is out of control and i cant stand it i hope somebody helps me so i no what i can do but if he dont stop than i might just brake up with him

2007-12-12 08:49:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im really full of flu should of been going out friday night what can i do to cheer myself up

2007-12-12 08:49:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't drive.A while back I had a Dr. appt that my hubby couldn't take me to so I asked my mom.She doesn't have a car so we used my hubbys.It was raining really hard and she was nervous so I told her 2 or 3 times go back I'll reschedual,but she said she was ok. So we come to a low water crossing.She said we'd be ok,but the car stalled in the water. She then tried several times to start it under water.Shes always been around cars so she should know better,but anyway it blew my engine.There was no way we could fix it.I had $1000 in the bank to pay for my husbands R.E. license.I had to buy a new car with the money,which left me with no way to pay for his school.I feel if my kid were in this situation I would help out even if it wasn't my fault,but my mom gave me $250 and said that was more than enough.She feels that she was doing me a favor and its not her fault.My husband feels she is the liscenced driver so shes responsible.I really don't know.Who do you think is right and why? Thanks

2007-12-12 08:46:09 · 12 answers · asked by melissa f 3 in Family

im in 7th grade

2007-12-12 08:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by connor cox 1 in Singles & Dating

My MIL and I DO NOT GET ALONG! So its the same old story, but the children keep asking about her(and my sister in law). My MIL will only accept the children AND her son if I am TOTALLY out of the picture. She is manipulative, controlling, verbally abusive and one-sided. She "has the right to say whatever she feels" including comments about my deceased parents. What is the right thing to do?

The children have contacted her in the past(including while hospitalized-not her but our Diabetic 11 year old). She did not even bother to send an e-card or call his cell phone? What kind of Grandmother and Aunt are these people. They go around telling everyone that "they care so much....it's all HER fault that SHE tainted the children's minds against us".

We have gone over board to "suit" THEIR needs(MIL&SIL)but the blame is always dropped into our laps. The inlaws do not go "out of their way" for anyone except themselves. I refuse to allow their mental, emotional and verbal persist.

2007-12-12 08:45:42 · 11 answers · asked by wlknwtr 2 in Family

Wouldnt they be self absorbed in thier own realtionship, and block out almost everyone else.

2007-12-12 08:43:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I've never had a girlfriend in my entire life and I just asked an amazing girl out on a date today. I have everything planed for the date except I'm kinda nervous about what to talk about. What should I do?

2007-12-12 08:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by rampskatin7 1 in Singles & Dating

should I say yes or no. What do men prefer. Im 18 so I want honest mature answers! thanks.

2007-12-12 08:38:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a husband ande all he wants is sex and i don't.i've been with him for 13 years. i just don't want it but i will go out and experiment with different men and he doesn't know about it

2007-12-12 08:37:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i really like this boy, BUT he is so popular. I dont know what to do. Help me please!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-12 08:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by QUEEN OF THE WORLD!!! SUCKERS!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

Is the lack of money in your marriage causeing undo pressure in your marriage.That is To say does your spouse become moody,or depressed because they put more emphasis on the money than they do the marriage and the love that is supposed to be there thru thick and thin?Our bills are paid and we live as well as the next couple but really dont have a lot of extra money to do somethings she likes sometimes.

2007-12-12 08:26:16 · 27 answers · asked by VROD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand why people cheat??? Can you tell me???

IN relationships.

2007-12-12 08:23:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and what puts you off too! xx

2007-12-12 08:20:13 · 16 answers · asked by Louisa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 08:19:29 · 49 answers · asked by mamajan 1 in Family

My parents finally came to see me and my baby.Since I was raped and had the baby. They came to my apt with gifts for the baby and for me. At first I didn't want to let them in but something told me to open the door.They were happy but I wasn't. These were the same people who kicked me out the house when I needed them the most. I was happy because I had my new boyfreind there to keep clam. Should I let them in my life again and my baby?

2007-12-12 08:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by ceecee 2 in Friends

theres this guy who was in my maths class nd he was seriously smart.nd i need lots of help so he wld help me.anyway.he took up further maths nd he's not in my class now but we still have frees 2gether nd he will always give up his time 2 help me.so wats up with this? well nothing until i start realising that actually he's a really nice guy nd at the prospect of him going 2 uni it really sad nd i dont wanna lose him as a m8.i no its just college but still he's made a difference in my life nd i can always tlk 2 him nd if it wasnt 4 him i wldve been kicked out last yr!! it was him who persuaded me 2 stay at college when i was serious feeling **** nd jsut didnt wanna do it anymore....he keeps me going when i need it. he's gone 2 oxford this week 4 an interview nd i realised how much of a difference he makes on my life nd how much i miss him just around college..people find him annoying nd sometime arrogant but they dont the person who will help nd isnt totally full of himself..wat can i do

2007-12-12 08:11:27 · 27 answers · asked by chezr90 1 in Singles & Dating

Where do you guys love/like to be kissed besides on the lips?

2007-12-12 08:11:21 · 31 answers · asked by Chantal R 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u think men get as jealous as women? Do u think they hide the fact that they are, if yes why? Is there anything that would make u unbelievably jealous? Sry awfully bored here and I was just curious, cuz I know I'm the jealous type.

2007-12-12 08:10:25 · 29 answers · asked by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 08:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-12 08:04:52 · 23 answers · asked by C_man 1 in Weddings

Alot of my family members were shocked that I did not cry at my grandmothers Funeral . I really loved my Grandmother . At the Funeral I tried to think of something sad to help me start crying . And that did not work . Am I a bad person

2007-12-12 08:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by llgii i 1 in Family

Right - I was at a school dance, and I think that I might have gotten a little too 'into it.' I was slow dancing with a girl one year my junior, 15, and got closer and closer... eventually, my face was almost to hers, and she was noticeably creeped out. Again, the moment had me thinking other thoughts... I started to lick her face and lips, pressing against her. She pulled away, and left the dance floor. After I took a moment, I followed her, and told her that if she told anyone, I'd get her for it. I was embarrassed, and I didn't want everyone to know! Today, at school, everyone was teasing me about it. They say that they saw it happen, but I just know she told them. I'm a man of my word, I talked to her in private, yelled - and when she pushed me, I pushed back. Her head hit the wall, and it escalated from there. She'll be fine, though. I'm going to visit her in the ER today -- how would I tell her that I'm not interested, & that she should get help for her anger and mental problems.

2007-12-12 08:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating