theres this guy who was in my maths class nd he was seriously smart.nd i need lots of help so he wld help me.anyway.he took up further maths nd he's not in my class now but we still have frees 2gether nd he will always give up his time 2 help me.so wats up with this? well nothing until i start realising that actually he's a really nice guy nd at the prospect of him going 2 uni it really sad nd i dont wanna lose him as a m8.i no its just college but still he's made a difference in my life nd i can always tlk 2 him nd if it wasnt 4 him i wldve been kicked out last yr!! it was him who persuaded me 2 stay at college when i was serious feeling **** nd jsut didnt wanna do it anymore....he keeps me going when i need it. he's gone 2 oxford this week 4 an interview nd i realised how much of a difference he makes on my life nd how much i miss him just around college..people find him annoying nd sometime arrogant but they dont the person who will help nd isnt totally full of himself..wat can i do
2007-12-12 08:11:27 · 27 answers · asked by chezr90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, what is the question?
I actually find it refreshing to find a question about a young person who cares more about his future and studies vs. what (s)he looks like, if (s)he likes him/her, etc....
Just stay in touch with him - it isn't difficult when people go off to college, especially now with e-mail, etc...
2007-12-12 08:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok heres what u do if you think u like him more than a friend ask him how he fills about you and if he fills the same way 2 u than he would stay.
If u just like him as a friend tell him that u dont want to leave because he made a diffrents in your life.
Trust me the same thing happend to me but see now he cant come back because well i think u know what I'm talking about and i miss him terribly plus he is very long distance
2007-12-12 08:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Famous Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a great friend. Where's the problem?
If I'm reading you right and you're romantically interested in this guy and you try to change the relationship, you might gain a lover. You MIGHT.
But you will certainly lose a friend. So choose wisely.
The way I see it, you don't have to do anything. Just keep in touch with him and enjoy his friendship. Don't worry so much about what other people think.
2007-12-12 08:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by T C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-26 01:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he could always come down to visit u from oxford or whatever uni he goes to and u can visit him. also u could stay in touch by email and phone etc. Don't make it hard for him to leave by asking him to stay too persistantly. i'm sure he'd miss u too. Remember friends want the best for their friends and it's best for him to go to uni, and u should be happy for him.
2007-12-12 08:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really means a lot to you. I would probably would feel the same way.
Tell you what, maybe you should ask him to keep in contact. Tell him you admire and appritiate what he has done for you. Maybe he would like to stay in contact with you as well.
~Best of luck~
2007-12-12 08:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dontjumptoconclusions-yattayttay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if i was you, id probobly tell him how much your going to miss him and then get his email/msn/mobile number, if your INTERESTED in him id ask him out just as friends.
btw, just cause hes smart doesnt mean he's a geek, but it does make all you who said he was one a pathetic person
2007-12-12 08:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep in contact with him.
Just seems like a friend you wouldn't want to lose.
Next time you see him, tell him exactly that.
You never know what he has to say back, maybe you made a difference in his life too..
2007-12-12 08:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by MiKE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could be any number of things.
He could be really shy, he could be gay, he could already have a girl somewhere, or maybe he's just not that into you. If you really want to know, come on to him and see what happens. Otherwise, just thank him as you see fit, and get on with your life.
2007-12-12 08:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him.. let him know how you feel.. it do sent matter what other people think about him.. maybe hes going to college because he feels like he has nothing to stay for and is trying to get out of the area maybe if he knows you care then he'll stay.
2007-12-12 08:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋