Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

2007-12-12 09:54:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 21yrs old and I want to start dating again. I want to try the internet but not to sure about all the rules that go along with internet dating.

2007-12-12 09:54:15 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a good relationships with in-laws, and I used to visit them in a different town with my husband. Now that we are separating (still living in a house though, different, rooms) here comes a dilemma - my in-laws invite me to come over for the Christmas dinner, while my husband (legally he still is) does not want me to be there. I am thinking why should I give up on my other family and be alone at Christmas, while I do realise that it's a bit unsettling for the both of us to go see them. What is your advice please?

2007-12-12 09:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

"they're always yapping about something

2007-12-12 09:52:01 · 26 answers · asked by YOCRAPSMAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"Hannah,

Whats the point of replying this mail to me...when at the end...you choose to let go...
Why do you want to do this to me...dont you know that i am deeply in love with you...
Why do you choose to let go...why cant we try things out...or just be friends...why do you have to just end it just like that...Last Christmas i given my heart to someone i love but the person broke it...this Christmas, i have given my heart to you who I love...yet you decided to throw it away...why...i cant bear to let you go...even if you choose to leave me...why do you have to force me to let go...hannah...tell me why...
hannah...i want you to know this...i will love you always forever even if we are off...you will be my last...and if you really love me...pls contact me pls...my heart is bleediong..and i wish to die...if i can...i will rather choose to die to exchange for your love and happines...haiz..."

He told me this... Would someone possibly fake this?? We went steady then we broke off..

2007-12-12 09:51:22 · 18 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3 in Singles & Dating

so i ask a girl if shes tickelish if she says yes i tickel the back of her neck then put my arm around her

and do u think she likes me...so she tells me alot girls usually dont say we flirt and we signal alot. also she makes time to talk to me or she just says somthin dumb just to talk to me

2007-12-12 09:51:20 · 12 answers · asked by NEdawgs 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex girl & I just broke last week. This will be the 3rd MAJOR TIME n THREE YEARS that she has broken it off with me VOWING that she hates me and wants nothing to do with me, and that's she DONE FOREVER. We are suppose to be going on a cruise in Jan, & she's told me thru txt that it would b n my best interest to get someone else to go, but I don't know if she wants me to chase her, like I'VE ALWAYS DONE, or really find someone else. Even tho it's only been about a week since we spoke, I miss her, and I want her back, what do I do, and what can I say to get her back??

2007-12-12 09:51:05 · 4 answers · asked by D3 2 in Singles & Dating

Just trying to get into a guy's mind.

2007-12-12 09:50:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know how to tell her or wahat to tell him. but he is cute!!!

2007-12-12 09:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki D 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 years old and go to college, but I live at home because my parents are overprotective
Tonight was my 22 year old boyfriend's office xmas party, which my parents knew about for weeks.
My bf and I have been dating 3 years and I have known him for 10 yrs prior to that.
He is always good to them, has even done their food shopping using his own $
I go to school and work part time, and I clean up the house everyday while everyone is out.
Today I got lazy after a long night of work (I work at toys r us) and decided for ONE day not to clean up the dirty house
They told me I could not go to the party as punishment!!
I told them I am going no matter what, and my dad has threatned to either physically restrain me or follow me to the party in his car so that he can humiliate me later
I don't know what to do, my mom is out at her xmas party, I told my bf I would meet him at the end of the driveway
Advice?

2007-12-12 09:47:20 · 9 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about 16 years and for the past maybe 6 years or more my wife has become more of a lonner when it comes to my family or hers comming over to or nome or us going to theres for intertaining a party or whatever. It seems that none of our friends or family come over much and we dont go to there homes much when invited. I like being around family and friends but my wife and even my kids now, dont like to have lots of people over or go to there homes or even out where there is alot of people. Last week we were invited to go to a relatives home and some of her family will be there also but she and my kids, ages 13 and 10 dont want to go ither but i want to go. My wife got very upset and my boys to because i said i may still go. We were invited on Thanksgiving also to go to her sisters home but she did not want to go ither. We dont even have family or friends over for new years eve party ither. I fill i have lost all my friends and family, even my own daughter. PLE HELP

2007-12-12 09:47:06 · 1 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Friends

It seems like the odds are against me living in this country.

2007-12-12 09:47:03 · 14 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19 years old and go to college, but I live at home because my parents are overprotective
Tonight was my 22 year old boyfriend's office xmas party, which my parents knew about for weeks.
My bf and I have been dating 3 years and I have known him for 10 yrs prior to that.
He is always good to them, has even done their food shopping using his own $
I go to school and work part time, and I clean up the house everyday while everyone is out.
Today I got lazy after a long night of work (I work at toys r us) and decided for ONE day not to clean up the dirty house
They told me I could not go to the party as punishment!!
I told them I am going no matter what, and my dad has threatned to either physically restrain me or follow me to the party in his car so that he can humiliate me later
I don't know what to do, my mom is out at her xmas party, I told my bf I would meet him at the end of the driveway
Advice?

2007-12-12 09:46:39 · 16 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Family

I was depressed
I was lost I Was dysfunctional

You were together
you were composed
You Had a purpose You had a goal but NOW the world’s all flipped I’ve Found myself
and I got my life straight
I got it together

But you ...
you let yourself slip
right through the cracks.
You lost yourself
trying to find me But I can’t help you
Because
I realize now
that it was what I did
that got me back
And you have to do the same
for yourself
on your own

Some nights I cry for you
But you have to do it

You have to crash
and burn
Then emerge from the flames victorious
The way I had to

Some days you pulled me up
But that didn’t help me to survive on my own
And I won’t do that to you
Because I know it doesn’t help


But you were for me,
I can be there your shoulder to cry on.

I can be there.

I will be your life’s guiding light
I can encourage you
I can see you through

And when you get to the end,
I can be there to congratulate you
And be proud of my sister
and my best friend.

And at last,
We’ll be together
And finally,
You’ll be here with me

~Symone M.~

2007-12-12 09:45:44 · 21 answers · asked by Selah 2 in Friends

2007-12-12 09:43:57 · 3 answers · asked by khayla 1 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy a few times he was really nice. I thought it was goign some where went over to his house to suprise him he wasnt there. called him and he said he didnt want to see each other any more because it just wasnt gonna work out. I barley got to say hi and he didnt realy want to say why. Things were fine so i thought he must be seeing someone else , but he said no. Witch i think he was seeing someone broke up n got back together with them . he has a pink toothbrush n matching razor in his spare drawer. Even so I liked the guy and I think if he knew it would change things. he wants a girlfriends at first i told him lets just date, but now i want to explore the relationship further, n he is randomly called it quits. What should i say if i call, every one is tellng me not to call because ill get my feelings hurt . this isnt me normaly but i would rather get my feeling hurt then not know what might have been. how should i approch. this was like 3-4 days ago

2007-12-12 09:41:18 · 29 answers · asked by saintlouisheat 2 in Singles & Dating

thats funny, sweet, smart, pretty, down to earth etc if she had boobs like this?
http://www.handbagdesigner101.com/images/img_celebrity/28/HUGE_kate_moss_Sam_Wordley.jpg

like does it matter that much?

2007-12-12 09:40:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to stay friends, but it turned sexual, I don't want this serious of a relationship. i want to do this as gental as possable, befor it gets to emotionaly entwined for us both.

2007-12-12 09:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She lost her job about three months ago and wanted to do something different then what she's been doing. So she started working at Chilis resteraunt as a server. I have tried to support what she wanted to do but, she is not half the money she did before. We are getting deeper and deeper in the hole. When I try to talk to her about it she get on the defence. She keeps saying she will start looking for a job but that day never seems to come. I don't know what to do or say anymore. Please help!!

2007-12-12 09:39:46 · 15 answers · asked by shawn g 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright I see this girl maybe 3 times a day in the hallways. When I catch a glimpse of her & she has not noticed me, she is walking perfectly fine with her hands at her sides.

But...as soon as she sees me, she immediately starts fooling and playing with her hair. And I mean EVERY TIME!

Could this be a sign?

thankyou for your help =]

2007-12-12 09:38:46 · 56 answers · asked by John D 2 in Singles & Dating

Im i in love? Im not sure weather i really love him or forcing myself to love him. Because im crying and fighting to be with him and i feel like i going be happy. But this happen before, me and bestfriend broke up (dating at the time) and i cried and me forgave me and got back togother. So after we got off the phone, i wonder why i did that. So now me and him, are broken up again (months) and its been hard on me. So he asked me weather i really loved him, because i was doing alot of stuff, that he knows i would never do! And i been feeling the same way too. So he said, to him it seem as if i was forcing myself to love him because i feel that i someone won't love me. So i got the thinking about, and i been felling that way for along time. So what do you think?

2007-12-12 09:38:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We'll count everything on the wedding night as the "first" time.

The next day (or next night), how different is the sex?
Does it feel more comfortable?
Is it more romantic?
Is it easier to achieve an orgasm?
Does it last longer?
Is it less meaningful?

Just wondering what people think about their SECOND time.

2007-12-12 09:37:25 · 14 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and have 2 kids together. We have been together off and on since I was 12. I love him with all of my heart but the past few months things have been very rocky, he has been having doubts, ive been having doubts, he started thinking he liked someone else and we even seperated for a little while..he did figure out he didnt actually like her it was just emotions going crazy because of the situation, he also came back and we are no longer seperated, but I am still afraid of losing him, now to clear up any of the "change up your looks" thing it isnt that, i still have the same body from before we got married and i wear sexy lingerie for him and all that, we try new positions and different places, but im still worried. Any other ideas of what I could do. My husband and I also dont really keep secrets from eachother and we are very open with eachother.

2007-12-12 09:36:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best piece of advice you've ever gotten? Who did you get it from?

2007-12-12 09:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by sublime 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have caught my wife lying to me in the past, and because of this I no longer trust much of what she says unless I can verify it for myself. Lately I have been growing concerned that she is not satisfied with our sex life, and I have a hard time believing her when she says that she is. What can I do to find out?

2007-12-12 09:36:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was it rude and immature of this woman?

Me and her used to be good online friends and all of the sudden she has stopped speaking to me and she won't give me any reason why she isn't speaking to me anymore and I've tried expressing myself towards how I was feeling and why she wouldn't give me a reason why she's no speaking to me anymore, then all of the sudden one of her friends told me that she wishes not to speak to me anymore and that I've needed to accept that and she also told me that I could get in trouble for borderline harassment if I don't leave her alone and the woman who stopped speaking to me thanked her for it.

Also was it very immature and childish of this woman to suddenly stop speaking to me without any reason? This woman is in her 40s and I do hope that her children won't end up being like her.

I feel very hurt and betrayed by her snubbing me off and she won't tell me what I've did wrong that caused her to stop speaking to me.

2007-12-12 09:33:55 · 5 answers · asked by Fell In Love 7 in Friends

when my husband gets angry at me he verbally abuses me and it can get bad. today when he was outside on his way to work he was calling me ***** and worthless infront of our neighbors. he honked the horn for a few minutes to draw attention. he has hit me before and tells me that i provoked it. (i was pregnant at the time) yesterday (see my previous questions) he was disrespectful to me infront of his friends at work and today when i tried to talk to him he told me that he did nothing wrong. we have been together for 6 years and hes been like this for the past 4. it starfted when he stole from my family and lied about it and tore the relationship tht i had with them. i want to leave him but it seems hard to let go and im scared. i think that things will get better but they havent so far. i have no family (they are deceased) and i have 2 small kids
(1 & 3) hardly any money and a job that pays less than $400 a month. I have a friend in TN that would let me go there if I needed to.

2007-12-12 09:33:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard that when people first get married their relationship usually goes good but than after a while it doesnt feel the same and some problems might arise. Usually how long after they have been married would they begin to experience some turbulance in their relationship? When do they start to go through some disappointments or confrontations?(I know that it's not the same with everyone but if you're going to spend a lifetime with someone some conflicts are bound to happen and some people handle it better than others) Please tell me when this first starts. First year? Before? After?
(I really dont know anything about this stuff which is why I'm asking.)

2007-12-12 09:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, I like this person ok. I posted so many comments before about how reacted around me, so 90% of you answered yes that he probably feel the same, and it’s final exam week and yet it has been like 3 month and we’re about to go on break and he still hasn’t say anything to me? What is going on I’m so confuse????/ and tired of waiting you know??

2007-12-12 09:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by Soldier 4 Christ 3 in Singles & Dating

Well alot lately I have been verry panicy at school,like he slightest thing gose rong I go balistic and cry.I also triped some one at recess to be playing around and they bit there toung,it dident bleed but I felt guilty as hell.I made a sorry card for her.I still feal guility and I havent even talked to her scince yesterday when it happend.

2007-12-12 09:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends